I know that thanks to the rise of apps like Tik Tok and Twitter, unfortunately the low self esteem and desperation of certain individuals (mainly gen z, younger millennials) upset that white men prefer white women or don't want to date them go viral and posted about on here.
But in real life, most black women are with black men and prefer black men. Most people are with their own race, water is wet.
I can count in one hand the amount of close friends I have who are open to dating interracially. The majority of my friends and family members prefer black men.
One of my close friends who is a beautiful, gorgeous, intelligent and articulate Kenyan woman even rejected a white male colleague from her workplace who wanted to be with her romantically.
Why? Because she prefers black men and wants black children. She loves her self image and wants to give birth to black children. She is now dating a Kenyan man and is very happy.
Growing up in the UK, the most white obsessed and white worshipping groups I have ever come across in my life are other "people of colour". Asians, whether East or South etc and other ethnic groups including Arabs too. Being fair skinned and proximity to whiteness is valued. In my British high school the majority of girls in my school were of Pakistani, Bengali and Indian backgrounds.
The colorism was rife. This pale skinned, blue eyed, light browned hair Pakistani classmate of mine was the queen Bee amongst the other South Asian girls and they would call her a white woman as a compliment, praising her light features and eye colour.
I am sure that in the USA the same would apply for East Asians and Latinos. Latinos aren't a huge community here in the UK, but I do have a London born and raised Hispanic friend from Ecuador who is heavily of mestiza/indigenous heritage and always praising white women for their looks and proclaims white female celebs as her muses.
For reference, my friend looks similar to this, she's a very indigenous Latina looking but insists she has Spanish ancestry too...
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The half white half Japanese musicians Mitski, who's song "My Love is Mine all Mine" went viral on tik tok, has a whole song about her being too Asian for a white guy she dated and their relationship not working out due his family not accepting her. The music video even features a below average looking white man choosing a generic blonde over her.
The lyrics:
"Your mother wouldn't approve of how my mother raised me
But I do, I think I do
And you're an all-American boy
I guess I couldn't help trying to be your best American girl
You're the one
You're all I ever wanted
I think I'll regret this"
I even had a friend of Hong Kong heritage who said she would never date an East Asian men due to not finding them attracted, was obsessed with white men to the point of even dating below average looking yts who treated her like crap. She is finally in a relationship with the white king she desperately wanted and thankfully he treats her well.
So why is it that black women get the most flack when they get upset at not being chosen?
But in real life, most black women are with black men and prefer black men. Most people are with their own race, water is wet.
I can count in one hand the amount of close friends I have who are open to dating interracially. The majority of my friends and family members prefer black men.
One of my close friends who is a beautiful, gorgeous, intelligent and articulate Kenyan woman even rejected a white male colleague from her workplace who wanted to be with her romantically.
Why? Because she prefers black men and wants black children. She loves her self image and wants to give birth to black children. She is now dating a Kenyan man and is very happy.
Growing up in the UK, the most white obsessed and white worshipping groups I have ever come across in my life are other "people of colour". Asians, whether East or South etc and other ethnic groups including Arabs too. Being fair skinned and proximity to whiteness is valued. In my British high school the majority of girls in my school were of Pakistani, Bengali and Indian backgrounds.
The colorism was rife. This pale skinned, blue eyed, light browned hair Pakistani classmate of mine was the queen Bee amongst the other South Asian girls and they would call her a white woman as a compliment, praising her light features and eye colour.
I am sure that in the USA the same would apply for East Asians and Latinos. Latinos aren't a huge community here in the UK, but I do have a London born and raised Hispanic friend from Ecuador who is heavily of mestiza/indigenous heritage and always praising white women for their looks and proclaims white female celebs as her muses.
For reference, my friend looks similar to this, she's a very indigenous Latina looking but insists she has Spanish ancestry too...
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The half white half Japanese musicians Mitski, who's song "My Love is Mine all Mine" went viral on tik tok, has a whole song about her being too Asian for a white guy she dated and their relationship not working out due his family not accepting her. The music video even features a below average looking white man choosing a generic blonde over her.
The lyrics:
"Your mother wouldn't approve of how my mother raised me
But I do, I think I do
And you're an all-American boy
I guess I couldn't help trying to be your best American girl
You're the one
You're all I ever wanted
I think I'll regret this"
I even had a friend of Hong Kong heritage who said she would never date an East Asian men due to not finding them attracted, was obsessed with white men to the point of even dating below average looking yts who treated her like crap. She is finally in a relationship with the white king she desperately wanted and thankfully he treats her well.
So why is it that black women get the most flack when they get upset at not being chosen?