Dating: Why are so many women comfortable working minimum wage jobs (40-year-old STNA [Nurse's Aid] and such?

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I'm sorry, I'm about to offend some people, but y'all are my people so y'all won't be offended unless I'm talking about people you know.

In Ohio you can be an STNA in 3 weeks. To be an LPN takes a year and an RN takes two years. Why not just go to school the extra year or two to make significantly more money?

STNA or nurse's aides in Ohio make between $28,000-$38,000 and potentially as low as $20,000. So many women have this as their line of work and When I see them on the dating scene they get mad when I scoff at STNA or nurse's aide and refuse to date them

Not including my military disability I'm at $76,000, and with my military disability I'm comfortably in six figures and I'm not trying to be some chicks lottery ticket.

There are a lot of pretty chicks in that field as well and they're just super low paid nurses. I know the world needs all kinds, but why don't these women want better for themselves and do better?

I spoke with a woman who moved out of Ohio a long time ago said the difference in the mindset of northern women versus women of the South like Atlanta for example is the decision after high school. Up north it's: "Are you going to college?" whereas down south the question changes drastically to, "What college are you going to?"

Why are so many people content with low paid jobs with little or no attempt to circumvent that and improve their financial situation in a field where they are needed and would be paid if they would just get educated?

I would post this question to Twitter or Facebook, but I would offend probably a third or more of my followers and former classmates.













 
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There are males that have worked as security guards for decades that make less than that , retail, custodian, etc… which do you think is better working in the medical field making 18 or working security making less than 16?… there are people whether male or female that have worked certain jobs for decades that give them limited pay.. someone has to do that job.. it’s better to do something than nothing, as long as they not hurting anybody who are we to judge unless you plan on uplifting them and getting them better paying jobs that they like..also just cause you see them in a certain position dosent mean they not making money in other ways, sometimes people keep certain jobs for consistent money or for a front cause they are into other things and need a legal check to cover up for something else that’s not so legal
 
The premise of this thread is janky as heck. Wage takers don’t set the rates. The rates are set long before the wage takers are even thinking about working.

Think about the history of wages in this country. How can all those folks from the south move north and the wages of the original black inhabitants of the cities never rose? Millions! Now apply the same logic contemporaneously. How can all these immigrants come and the wages of the natural inhabitants really haven’t moved up or down?
 
Most women I know with them jobs be young chicks or ghetto\white trash older chicks, I wouldn’t be interested in anyway

But a job is a job anything is better than just sitting on your ass
This thread should not have been made without reading Dorothy Brown’s The Whiteness of Wealth, The Black Tax by Shawn Rochester, and The Black Tax by Andrew Karhl.
 
They really need to fix the minimum wage bullshit in this country. Also, some people are just stuck in a rut, sometimes depending on what area of the country they are in. Ohio is not a good state for employment unless you do certain manufacturing crap but other than that, you’re out of luck. When I was looking for work when I got laid off, I have a few offers from Ohio, but I never wanted to go there because of this reason. Even before I found my new job a few months ago I did not want to touch a minimum wage job. The lowest way I would stand is something around $25 an hour that’s temporary. A lot of the red states minimum wage jobs are super low in pay except for some parts of Florida and Atlanta, Georgia (Georgia’s technically a purple state, but you get the picture)
 
My guess is it's not that it's so many woman, it's likely that the reason is because those are the woman you attract. Or even more likely, these are the woman you're attracted to.

And because these woman are some how gravitating to you, it easy to presume that this is the case with all woman.


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There are males that have worked as security guards for decades that make less than that , retail, custodian, etc… which do you think is better working in the medical field making 18 or working security making less than 16?… there are people whether male or female that have worked certain jobs for decades that give them limited pay.. someone has to do that job.. it’s better to do something than nothing, as long as they not hurting anybody who are we to judge unless you plan on uplifting them and getting them better paying jobs that they like..also just cause you see them in a certain position dosent mean they not making money in other ways, sometimes people keep certain jobs for consistent money or for a front cause they are into other things and need a legal check to cover up for something else that’s not so legal
Excellent points Tall. Someone has to do those jobs. And I never look down on anyone in any position. Long as they working in applaud them. Some people are comfortable working at Walmart. Some are comfortable as a garbage man. They may enjoy the job. You never knew. Some people aren't interested in doing what is necessary to move up to another position and salary. In the end it's what's comfortable for them. No one is wrong. I'm a Supervisor in Social Services for a Juvenile Prison making six figures. I don't look down on the maintenance men thinking why wouldn't they wanna be where I am. They seem happy doing what they are doing. And somebody has to do the job or the place couldn't run. :dunno:


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There are males that have worked as security guards for decades that make less than that , retail, custodian, etc… which do you think is better working in the medical field making 18 or working security making less than 16?… there are people whether male or female that have worked certain jobs for decades that give them limited pay.. someone has to do that job.. it’s better to do something than nothing, as long as they not hurting anybody who are we to judge unless you plan on uplifting them and getting them better paying jobs that they like..also just cause you see them in a certain position dosent mean they not making money in other ways, sometimes people keep certain jobs for consistent money or for a front cause they are into other things and need a legal check to cover up for something else that’s not so legal


OP is not going to like this type of feedback. You are spot.on.


There's no reason for him to mention how much he is making. There's no reason for him to mention he's on a dating site and frankly males generally don't hive a shit about a woman's salary when he's interested. He's on a dating site so why not setup a date with one of them and slip the question in during conversation.
 
GOW, I saw what you are saying but I think you laid it out improperly.

Were you saying these women are only working in jobs while they wait to catch a man of means? Then they intend to stop working and leech off their new man?

If so, I understand. However, I won’t say they’re all doing this. Some of them are really trying to establish themselves and have to start somewhere. Some are in the lane where they just don’t know what potential they have to do more (survival mode) and yes, some are on that bullshit. You just have to keep sorting through them.

Don’t look down on them just check what they’re really talking about and then put them in boxes based on that.
 
GOW, I saw what you are saying but I think you laid it out improperly.

Were you saying these women are only working in jobs while they wait to catch a man of means? Then they intend to stop working and leech off their new man?

If so, I understand. However, I won’t say they’re all doing this. Some of them are really trying to establish themselves and have to start somewhere. Some are in the lane where they just don’t know what potential they have to do more (survival mode) and yes, some are on that bullshit. You just have to keep sorting through them.

Don’t look down on them just check what they’re really talking about and then put them in boxes based on that.
I honestly don't know what I meant. I went through like 6 profiles on a dating site and 8 out of 10 were STNA and I just felt some type of way.

I know that people of all types and jobs are necessary. And most of us are in survival mode. I got lucky with my government job, but man this dating after 40 thing sucks, because I'm not seeing much quality in the quantity
 
50 years of working anywhere, i better be the fuckin CEO.
There’s a certain level of arrogance by many black people that is almost ignorant. Who is the longest tenured Black CEO in America?


I honestly don't know what I meant. I went through like 6 profiles on a dating site and 8 out of 10 were STNA and I just felt some type of way.

I know that people of all types and jobs are necessary. And most of us are in survival mode. I got lucky with my government job, but man this dating after 40 thing sucks, because I'm not seeing much quality in the quantity
You aren’t supposed to. This is why you read Claude Meillassoux’s The Anthropology of Slavery: The Womb of Iron and Gold.

Any economic gains recorded in this nation was at the expense of Black people. They used black taxes to build white suburbs. The Press and Academia work in tandem alternating between holding the carrot away from us.

They passed the Civil Rights Act and in then elected Nixon. Does that seem familiar? They did the same thing a century earlier and they went back on The Reconstruction Amendments almost instantaneously. The “inflation” the nation faced was instigated to take back the economic gains of the Civil Rights Act and the entire economic gains of Polish and other off-brand CACs of the prior 50 years.

John Henrik Clarke was a janitor. Ernest Everett had to leave the country.
 
Yeah solid points made in here. I will also add alot of those chicks that are nursing aids, some are doing it to get clinical hours to go on to nursing school or even become a Physician Assistant....

That's the unique thing about the healthcare field, there are alot of different routes you can go via community college or 4 year degree....
 
Majority of people in the world are mainly Laborers.

They just want to go to work, do their 8hrs/40hrs week and that’s it.

They have no interest in further education, moving up to management or other higher positions.

Lots of folks just don’t want to deal with the extra workload and responsibilities.

They are just there for a paycheck….no more, no less.
 
Yeah solid points made in here. I will also add alot of those chicks that are nursing aids, some are doing it to get clinical hours to go on to nursing school or even become a Physician Assistant....

That's the unique thing about the healthcare field, there are alot of different routes you can go via community college or 4 year degree....
How many are of those CNAs are American and how many are immigrants? What is the nationality and racial breakdown of LPNs, RNs, NPs, PAs, MDs/DOMs?

All of this is by design. What does the government project for RNs starting in 2026/27? What happens when there are an abundance of NPs and RNs? Does the wages go up or down? The government is planning on sinking a couple healthcare fields because they have grown bored of the Jewish hegemony in the healthcare field.
 
Topic is dumb

They're working and not committing crimes or harming anyone

Why the fuck are you worried about it
Yes, the topic was a little dumb. I didn't really think it out. Just frustrated at the fucking dating market is full of these bitches with no...well, nothing.

I know there's a why to the shit, but the Why is two-fold. Partially on the system, and partially on the person to not strive to do/be better.

Someone else said something profound. That most people are out here just trying to do their 8 hours a day, 40 hours a week, collect the check and go home. They're not trying to achieve. They're trying to put in the minimum and get what they can get and go home.

While I couldn't be a 50 year old janitor or security guard or cashier, a lot of people do it and those are jobs that are necessary AND legal. I'm not talking shit about anyone making legal paper and not out here committing crimes.

I know that black folks aren't out here doing the hiring and the white folks that are aren't going to give a black person the job over a white person who's equal or close to it. I was just venting
 
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