Granddad died tonight....

OnSlaught

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
I'm at a loss for words figuratively. It happened around 10 PM. I am doing the best that I can to be strong for my mom, but it's really hard to see her go through this only a few weeks after my grandma passed and to know that she was there to experience his passing first hand. If you can find it in your heart, please keep my family in your thoughts and prayers/meditations.

Thank you and take care yall,

Onslaught....
 

Noir

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My condolences to you and your family. Just keep doing what you have been doing -- being there and supportive to your mother. My thoughts are with you. . .
 

P.L.

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My condolences, he is a better place. You and your family are in my prayers.
 

CT's Finest

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Sorry to hear about this. Unfortunately, I know what it's like to lose loved ones in a relatively short amount of time. Although it's sometimes easier said than done, I hope you and your family can stay strong. I would also encourage you to love and appreciated those who are still here and pay respects to those who are gone. God bless you all...




R.I.P. To Grandpa Ons...
 

OnSlaught

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Thank you all...I'm very appreciative for my SOL/BGOL fam.

I don't feel like doing anything but I know I got to keep on. I got to make arrangements for my granddad's funeral, his belongings and estate 'cause my mom is really distraught...that's gonna be hard because I got some assholes in the family.

Well, off to argue with the science CACs and their unemotional, insensitive hearts and minds...:smh:

Again, yall thanks for the support :)
 

JofromthaNO

Urban Renaissance Woman
BGOL Investor
Onslaught, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in this time of need. I know its tough right now, especially being strong for your mother. Just remember to also allow your time to weep and mourn the loss...taking care of others also means taking care of self...
 

IslandKing

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sorry to hear bredren, prayers and condolences towards the fam and yourself.hold ya head
 

MCP

International
International Member
I'm sorry to hear about your loss of your granddad Ons. I thought that god will give you the strength to go through this traumatic time with your family.
 

Mo-Better

The R&B Master
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CT's Finest

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Ons, I hope everyone's words have helped make things a little better. I'm glad to see everyone come out to support you. Once again, stay strong home skillet...PEACE!!!
 

dagoon121

Rising Star
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i keep u n ya family in my prayer

but hey death is not a bad thing.....we humans are just selfish
we think its bad cause we miss the person
but hey man stay strong ..... RIP to ya grandfather
 

OnSlaught

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Thank you to all...

Today was hard. Had to kick my uncle out of my mom's crib because he was acting like a damn fool. Here my mom is by herself taking care of both of her parents when they were alive on this earth, and her siblings ain't doing shit to help. Nigga comes in from TX and says he doesn't trust my mom and starts trying to cuss her out, yet he staying at her house and eating her food all while not helping for shit to arrange the funeral or deal with my grandparents estate.

I swear, crabs in a barrel man, fucking crabs in a barrel....:smh::smh::smh:
 

Chaise

DIVA wit a EGO
BGOL Investor
Sorry for your loss but I know what exactly what you are going through . . . Lost my grandfather (maternal) to cancer in May and my grandmother (paternal) to cancer in August . . . .

My mother moved 1100 miles to took care of her father and in the end her 8 sisters and brothers that lived in the same city did nothing but complain about the arrangements she was making . . . . I too had to put them in there places . . .

You have to stay strong for your mother . . . this is really going to take a toll on her and she is going to need you more than she will ever say . . . if she has the authority to make the final decisions . . . then you make them for her and that's that . . . . My prayers are with you both . . . .
 

SEXY_SCORPIO

So pretty!
BGOL Investor
Thank you to all...

Today was hard. Had to kick my uncle out of my mom's crib because he was acting like a damn fool. Here my mom is by herself taking care of both of her parents when they were alive on this earth, and her siblings ain't doing shit to help. Nigga comes in from TX and says he doesn't trust my mom and starts trying to cuss her out, yet he staying at her house and eating her food all while not helping for shit to arrange the funeral or deal with my grandparents estate.

I swear, crabs in a barrel man, fucking crabs in a barrel....:smh::smh::smh:

Wow,what a change from a couple days ago:smh:
 
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