Also, dudes always want to prove how tough they are around their women because she would think he's a bitch for walking away which is why dudes like him are dead.For me, i just don't see the rationale in losing our men (one way or another) to trivial, emotion-based stupid shit. His life is gone just like that. there has to be a part of the brain that should always tell you it's not worth it, move along. but nope...guns have to come out. in a few months, she will find the next guy who will fill his shoes...we gotta do better.