Would you consider cheating wrong or a mistake? A friend of mine recently caught his lady in bed with someone else and when he confronted her, she said she made a mistake. Thoughts? Opinions?
Is cheating wrong or a mistake?
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You make a mistake and knock over a cup of juice
you make conscious decisions to fuck someone.. can it be a bad decision, yes, can it be a decision you regret, yes, can it be a decision that you only regret cause you were caught in the act and the repercussions can be negative for future scenarios, yes.. but it wasn’t a mistake like some accidental shit
you make conscious decisions to fuck someone.. can it be a bad decision, yes, can it be a decision you regret, yes, can it be a decision that you only regret cause you were caught in the act and the repercussions can be negative for future scenarios, yes.. but it wasn’t a mistake like some accidental shit
A slight correction
I’m not condoning cheating but if you’re going to go that route, don’t do it around places your wife or people she knows be around. I have slept with two married women when I was younger one of them I smashed in her husband house. I was young and silly back then but as I got older, I knew not to do that shit again. Oh one more thing when I used to do deliver furniture and it’s a lot of lonely housewives out there. You better make sure your wife is happy before you go off to work man because people like me could come around and well you know what could happen.
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one time spontaneous thing...benefit of the doubt. multiple times and/or serious planning involved...no mistake.
he Treats his wife pussy like a thrift store.. he don’t want it unless somebody else was using it first
Is it really cheating if it aint raw?
Good lawd.
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Depends
If a woman does it, it’s wrong
If a man does it, the reasons for doing so need to be considered
If a woman does it, it’s wrong
If a man does it, the reasons for doing so need to be considered
Depends on the type of relationship.
Monogamous: nope
Polyamorous: yes, it can be
Married: nope
BF/GF or BF/BF or GF/GF: yes, it can be
Nope: meaning it’s not a mistake it’s it’s a decision
Yes: meaning it can be a mistake
Monogamous: nope
Polyamorous: yes, it can be
Married: nope
BF/GF or BF/BF or GF/GF: yes, it can be
Nope: meaning it’s not a mistake it’s it’s a decision
Yes: meaning it can be a mistake
If she’s not getting sexually pleasured right at home is it wrong if she goes out and finds pleasure instead of being sexually miserable?
now if a dude did the same what’s the difference?
Yes she mad a mistake by sleeping with another person if she valued her relationship. "She" made the mistake, but it wasn't a mistake.
She made a conscious decision to meet a person. Make plans to sleep with a person.
Chose to take her clothes off, crack them legs open to get fucked.
The true mistake in her mind is her man finding out.
She made a conscious decision to meet a person. Make plans to sleep with a person.
Chose to take her clothes off, crack them legs open to get fucked.
The true mistake in her mind is her man finding out.
all I know, is that if I get cheated on, no excuses will be taken
She can buy some sex toys if she needs more pleasure
We’re men, of course that’s what we’d say!
And guess what? Women say the exact same thing from their perspective.
Yeah, she sucked his dick by mistake .... 
Cheating is not a mistake.
You're making a CONSCIOUS CHOICE to betray/hurt someone you are in a relationship/marriage with. (Even if they don't know and never find out).
- It's not a mistake.
- It's a deliberate choice.
Folks can try to "justify" or "absolve" themselves by calling it a mistake. But it's still making a choice to hurt someone who trusts you...
You're making a CONSCIOUS CHOICE to betray/hurt someone you are in a relationship/marriage with. (Even if they don't know and never find out).
- It's not a mistake.
- It's a deliberate choice.
Folks can try to "justify" or "absolve" themselves by calling it a mistake. But it's still making a choice to hurt someone who trusts you...
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If she told you use your hand or a fleshlight if you need more pleasure or aren’t sexually satisfied at home would you agree or go get the fuck out here?
He doesn't consider it cheating......
In LS, his situation is considered Ethical Non-Monogamy
I get where you’re coming from 100%. I got a whole side of my family that has women who are on a certain type of time. Trust me. All I’m saying is, I ain’t going for that shit.
cheating is a choice and a character defect.It ain't no fukkn mistake ☺
Be honest from the start, tell her you won't be monogamous, and give her the choice of whether that is acceptable to her.
if it is cool, if it isn't move along and find somebody that's okay with how you want to live.
Be honest from the start, tell her you won't be monogamous, and give her the choice of whether that is acceptable to her.
if it is cool, if it isn't move along and find somebody that's okay with how you want to live.