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Mental Health: Black Men Are Allowed To Cry. Tyrese Approved

godofwine

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Man listen. Hearing him talk through that pain and just the clip, not the whole video, just a clip brought a tear to my.

I'm not even going to lie. The divorce, the fact that I got two parents that I can say like Will Smith "why don't they want me man" who if they died I would shed more tears for one of y'all than for one of them, that's hard.

Life is war, man. No days off. Even the days off ain't days off. The bullets stay coming.

Luckily for me I got friends I can go to and a lot of y'all who support me more than my own family does.

Time's a better now. I just got a $9,000 raise, I'm about to be 100% disabled from the military so that's $120k a year (Midwest money), but those lean times when I didn't know if I was going to be able to pay my bills broke me. That divorce from the only person who I ever loved in this fucking world, broke me.

I've cried many a night, no bullshit. Going through this war, the bullets, no body armor, no GTA regeneration, having to patch up your own self...man listen.
 
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godofwine said:
Man listen. Hearing him talk through that pain and just the clip, not the whole video, just a clip brought a tear to my.

I'm not even going to lie. The divorce, the fact that I got two parents that I can say like Will Smith "why don't they want me man" who if they died I would shed more tears for one of y'all than for one of them, that's hard.

Life is war, man. No days off. Even the days off ain't days off. The bullets stay coming.

Luckily for me I got friends I can go to and a lot of y'all who support me more than my own family does.

Time's a better now. I just got a $9,000 raise, I'm about to be 100% disabled from the military so that's $120k a year, but those lean times when I didn't know if I was going to be able to pay my bills broke me. That divorce from the only person who I ever loved in this fucking world, broke me.

I've cried many a night, no bullshit. Going through this war, the bullets, no body armor, no GTA regeneration, having to patch up your own self...man listen.
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Peace my brother appreciate you sharing

It's important we do that.

Black Men ain't just disposable
 
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When Tyrese spoke on how NO ONE EVER ASKS HOW A BLACK MAN IS DOING AND MEANS IT?

how I just lost my baby due to a miscarriage I have the sonogram in my wallet till this day and no one ever asks the FATHER are you okay?

That sh*t right there broke me I was done cause no one has ever spoke how I felt out loud.

We as black men really have to treat ourselves and other brothers better.
 
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Some need to hear it but anyone who's lost parents or loved one's, we already know that it's ok to cry.

Yes we are taught to be strong, but the loss of life hits everyone and those emotions can't and shouldn't be hidden. It's good to stay strong for certain circumstances, but that pain has to be let out.

But he is correct, Black men do have feelings and we should also be checked on when dealing with life situations and not just women.
 
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playahaitian said:
When Tyrese spoke on how NO ONE EVER ASKS HOW A BLACK MAN IS DOING AND MEANS IT?

how I just lost my baby due to a miscarriage I have the sonogram in my wallet till this day and no one ever asks the FATHER are you okay?

That sh*t right there broke me I was done cause no one has ever spoke how I felt out loud.

We as black men really have to treat ourselves and other brothers better.
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My condolences to you and your family, Bro.

I lost my son in 2020. He was a second year law student. I cried everyday, multiple times a day for 10 months straight. I tried to be strong for everyone, but no one was strong enough for me. So I had to try to console myself, even when I was inconsolable.

I feel that Black men are the most traumatized human being on the planet. We're strong and weak at the same time. If we can't hold it together though, then no one can.

We have to learn how to lean on each other, because we're the only ones who can hold us up. Our historical baggage causes us to be much too heavy for anyone else to bear.

Again, my sincerest condolences to you and your family, Brother.
 
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playahaitian said:
When Tyrese spoke on how NO ONE EVER ASKS HOW A BLACK MAN IS DOING AND MEANS IT?

how I just lost my baby due to a miscarriage I have the sonogram in my wallet till this day and no one ever asks the FATHER are you okay?

That sh*t right there broke me I was done cause no one has ever spoke how I felt out loud.

We as black men really have to treat ourselves and other brothers better.
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thats crazy man rip lil one.
life is crazy sometimes and yeah we man are told to get over shit
and live smh
 
godofwine

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PsiBorg said:
My condolences to you and your family, Bro.

I lost my son in 2020. He was a second year law student. I cried everyday, multiple times a day for 10 months straight. I tried to be strong for everyone, but no one was strong enough for me. So I had to try to console myself, even when I was inconsolable.

I feel that Black men are the most traumatized human being on the planet. We're strong and weak at the same time. If we can't hold it together though, then no one can.

We have to learn how to lean on each other, because we're the only ones who can hold us up. Our historical baggage causes us to be much too heavy for anyone else to bear.

Again, my sincerest condolences to you and your family, Brother.
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playahaitian said:
When Tyrese spoke on how NO ONE EVER ASKS HOW A BLACK MAN IS DOING AND MEANS IT?

how I just lost my baby due to a miscarriage I have the sonogram in my wallet till this day and no one ever asks the FATHER are you okay?

That sh*t right there broke me I was done cause no one has ever spoke how I felt out loud.

We as black men really have to treat ourselves and other brothers better.
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My condolences to both of you. I read that wrong earlier. I don't know why I thought you were talking about Tyrese having a sonogram in his wallet, because he did mention miscarriage.

I'm taking a couple mental health days tomorrow and Thursday. You got to take care of number one
 
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godofwine said:
My condolences to both of you. I read that wrong earlier. I don't know why I thought you were talking about Tyrese having a sonogram in his wallet, because he did mention miscarriage.

I'm taking a couple mental health days tomorrow and Thursday. You got to take care of number one
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Thank you, Brother...
 
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godofwine said:
My condolences to both of you. I read that wrong earlier. I don't know why I thought you were talking about Tyrese having a sonogram in his wallet, because he did mention miscarriage.

I'm taking a couple mental health days tomorrow and Thursday. You got to take care of number one
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I appreciate that bro.

Much peace and happiness to you and yours
 
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You know what he really need to get his self together but at the same time, I did not know all of that shit happened to him. Sometimes men cannot handle all of that stress at the same time they sometimes snap just as some women do. My brother gets some help please just so you could live a long life.
 
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easy_b said:
You know what he really need to get his self together but at the same time, I did not know all of that shit happened to him. Sometimes men cannot handle all of that stress at the same time they sometimes snap just as some women do. My brother gets some help please just so you could live a long life.
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That's why it annoys the hell out of me when people tell men especially black men to deal with the stress. People act like we're robots with no feelings and when we lash out; we're labeled toxic. I'm not saying lashing out is the correct way to handle things but I can understand,why a man would do it.

Instead of people being so dismissive about our feelings;how about being a human being and say men need to talk to someone or find something to relief their stress.

This country has catered to women so much people forget men are human beings too.
 
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Real talk, but particularly regarding Baby Boy.

They had to screenshot those tears, didn’t they?

At the same time, wasn’t Tyrese always that man that loves flossing and buying expensive shit for no reason?
 
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Mr. Met said:
Real talk, but particularly regarding Baby Boy.

They had to screenshot those tears, didn’t they?

At the same time, wasn’t Tyrese always that man that loves flossing and buying expensive shit for no reason?
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Bro He clearly explained why he doesnt anymore
 
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Where was Envy at?
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DJ envy had to leave. He's doing a car show and he was receiving cars from cardi B and several other artists.

He said when receiving cars from these people he doesn't feel comfortable leaving it in the hands of his staff. He said he had done so in the past and a car had gotten damaged. So, rather than take any further chances he oversees the event himself.

That is respectable. If I have a million dollar car, I want the person to be responsible enough to be present and take care of my possession as I would.

He spoke to Tyrese in private and they supposedly had cleared everything up, which is cool. They handled it like men which was really dope. But that's why he wasn't there when Tyrese did most of his interview
 
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The one who doesn’t cry is the questionable one. I just got news a friend’s daughter is being taken off life support. I cried when my neighbors dog died. Fuck outta here! Hold it in for what? For what!? When they announced that Prince died I had to sit down for a minute. I cry all the damn time. I’m in my 50s; people die around or fall deathly ill constantly! Your best friend from childhood’s mom dies, friends die, women leave and divorce you, your kids don’t speak to you. Fuck that, cry!
 
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bgbtylvr said:
The one who doesn’t cry is the questionable one. I just got news a friend’s daughter is being taken off life support. I cried when my neighbors dog died. Fuck outta here! Hold it in for what? For what!? When they announced that Prince died I had to sit down for a minute. I cry all the damn time. I’m in my 50s; people die around or fall deathly ill constantly! Your best friend from childhood’s mom dies, friends die, women leave and divorce you, your kids don’t speak to you. Fuck that, cry!
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U damn right
 
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godofwine said:
Man listen. Hearing him talk through that pain and just the clip, not the whole video, just a clip brought a tear to my.

I'm not even going to lie. The divorce, the fact that I got two parents that I can say like Will Smith "why don't they want me man" who if they died I would shed more tears for one of y'all than for one of them, that's hard.

Life is war, man. No days off. Even the days off ain't days off. The bullets stay coming.

Luckily for me I got friends I can go to and a lot of y'all who support me more than my own family does.

Time's a better now. I just got a $9,000 raise, I'm about to be 100% disabled from the military so that's $120k a year (Midwest money), but those lean times when I didn't know if I was going to be able to pay my bills broke me. That divorce from the only person who I ever loved in this fucking world, broke me.

I've cried many a night, no bullshit. Going through this war, the bullets, no body armor, no GTA regeneration, having to patch up your own self...man listen.
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Good stuff bro!
 
A to Dah K

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The weirdest shit, is over the last year for the first time in my life,ive cried tears of joy several times. Never could have even fathomed that once upon a time.
 
keone

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playahaitian said:

@CORNBREAD thank you

Peace and respect to all my brothers

We are not allowed to be human but we are. We have feelings no matter how much society continues yo treat us emotionless animals.

We love we hurt we smile we cry we laugh

The world need to stop treating us like we don't​
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keone

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playahaitian said:

@CORNBREAD thank you

Peace and respect to all my brothers

We are not allowed to be human but we are. We have feelings no matter how much society continues yo treat us emotionless animals.

We love we hurt we smile we cry we laugh

The world need to stop treating us like we don't​
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That's what my mother tells me, something as simple as asking someone how are they doing and are they ok and you really mean it and are concerned you just never know what their response will be.

It's ok , not being ok with whatever's going on in your life.
 

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