What that is is an admission of defeat. Can't incentivize them to lose weight so they accept it. They compartmentalize it by saying she got a fat ass because her upper body isn't that bad. But the truth is, most obese women are less likely to reject your advances. At least that was the case before dudes pumped their heads up and made them arrogant. Fat bitches with a million social media followers and shit. Now fat bitches are arrogant as hell. The women who never want to get into shape or simply quit trying now feel they are desired when they are basically the equivalent of buy here-pay here Pussy-it ain't what you want, but it'll do for now. Built, thick, stacked are relevant to ones self esteem. The higher you think of yourself, the less mediocrity you accept from a broad. Game.