Real Talk Debate: Can the side piece actually help your marriage?
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I like variety always and forever..females know I like variety always and forever…pussy like recipes.. how I look eating just tuna everyday when the world of females is 1 huge menu
I’ve always felt monogamy is unnatural af. Were not homogeneous in any other aspect of our lives unless we genuinely want to and even then, you’ll still try something else here and there.
Variety is definitely the spice of life.
Yep!
For men, NOPE! It's a learned and adopted behavior from societal conditioning that ensures their regulation, compliance, and servitude.
Yes, for women. It's a co-dependency survival mechanism that ensures their provision and protection, which are now ingrained into society.
I’d say it’s across the board these days cause for the independent type of woman, once that survival mechanism is no longer required, all bets are off.
They run through men at the same rate men do women.
How many mothers and fathers do you have? Imagine you had six siblings with all different fathers. Imagine every house on the block with the same. That's natural? That would be unstable af.
This actually happens with great regularity. Te adverse is almost a minority these days.
I digress.
I’m not suggesting monogamy doesn’t bring order. That’s it overarching purpose.
But is it natural, as in an innate human trait? I don’t believe it to be.
For example:
Nudity = Natural
Clothes = Condition to bring order
i know a chick with 5 kids with 5 different fathers...
and hers and their lives are as chaotic as you would imagine....
whether monogamy is natural or not is low vibrational thinking and not really the point...
running multiple women invites nothing but chaos and disorder to your life
im far from a saint...ive run multiple women a few different times in my life...shit is nothing but a time and resource drain...mainly a time drain...which you can never get back
if we're being honest men...when has having multiple women EVER added value to your life? real value...not just busting a nut....this is a question to whoever reads this post...
look at matt barnes now...his life is about to be in shambles because of this shit...dude had about 10 side chicks....i dont know how he had time to do anything else....that nikka musta been going through sildenafil by the case
running multiple women invites nothing but chaos and disorder to your life
im far from a saint...ive run multiple women a few different times in my life...shit is nothing but a time and resource drain...mainly a time drain...which you can never get back
if we're being honest men...when has having multiple women EVER added value to your life? real value...not just busting a nut....this is a question to whoever reads this post...
look at matt barnes now...his life is about to be in shambles because of this shit...dude had about 10 side chicks....i dont know how he had time to do anything else....that nikka musta been going through sildenafil by the case
Suppose you hire me to DJ your wedding. You sign a contract promising to pay me $2,000 on the day of. Once the wedding ends you hand me an envelope for $1500. Claiming that holding back half a grand will help my business.
You think I'm going to go for that? Would you?
So why would it be any different with a marriage contract?
Is it unnatural? Sure! But you knew that when you signed the damn contract.
You think I'm going to go for that? Would you?
So why would it be any different with a marriage contract?
Is it unnatural? Sure! But you knew that when you signed the damn contract.
Don't know about that. It worked well for me.
When I was a broke illegal I smashed just about everything that moved. One chick was a promoter that helped me get a weekly DJ gig. Another was a teacher that helped me get a temporary job at her school. A third found a legal clause that helped me get a green card after my lawyer told me to give up.
That said, none of these were side chicks.
We had a MIGRANT on the board all this time?!!
@Dannyblueyes, I'm kidding fam
Glad to hear that those ladies helped you out and enriched your life.
How many of them are you still in contact with?
@Dannyblueyes, I'm kidding fam
Glad to hear that those ladies helped you out and enriched your life.
How many of them are you still in contact with?
A couple. One of them became my BM
Its not about natural or unnatural
Its simply what you chose
From a selfish male perspective, of course it could in certain cases.
As a mature married man. You're a liar, selfish, untrustworthy and deceitful to your family and the woman that you chose to marry.
Do onto others as you would like done to you, but it's not always that simple.
As a mature married man. You're a liar, selfish, untrustworthy and deceitful to your family and the woman that you chose to marry.
Do onto others as you would like done to you, but it's not always that simple.
Bingo.
I'll never understand why dude's who are "incapable" of fidelity choose relationships with women that require it.
- If you're meant to be a lifelong dick slinger, then so be it.
Just be honest with women and allow them to chose whether or not they still want to be with you.
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For Men definitely isn't natural. We're here to procreate...spread our seed
Ask the elders about this cause my old man said women are like the wealther they change and you end up biting off more than you can chew.
What seems player and cool may not really be that cause what if she turns into Celie from The color of purple ?war at an old age.I saw a video a few months ago about how nursing homes are full of older black men with no friends or family coming to see them at all and all they have are wishes of how they should of been a better husband,father and person in general.
It's cool when you're younger but when you get older with social media,motherfuckers all in your business,you'll get to cursing out,arguing with people who have nothing to do with nothing about the shit that you're doing.Random texts to see how your going to react to some wild shit....I'm to old for that shit,been there done that.
What seems player and cool may not really be that cause what if she turns into Celie from The color of purple ?war at an old age.I saw a video a few months ago about how nursing homes are full of older black men with no friends or family coming to see them at all and all they have are wishes of how they should of been a better husband,father and person in general.
It's cool when you're younger but when you get older with social media,motherfuckers all in your business,you'll get to cursing out,arguing with people who have nothing to do with nothing about the shit that you're doing.Random texts to see how your going to react to some wild shit....I'm to old for that shit,been there done that.
One female to deal with is one too many.
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"I, (name), take you, (name), to be my wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part"
whats not simple about that???
^^^^^
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