Many of these women are masculine black women/bed wenches with no man at all and a female friend that is almost lesbian; they go to these parties by themselves. The boyfriend/husband serves an important role in a woman's life as a protector, if she shuns the role of men in her life, then don't come crying when you get drugged and raped, or like that girl in the Bahamas that is disappeared. The statistics bear it out that women are less likely to be harmed when they are in a relationship with a man.
Law-enforcement is not your protector, I've seen it myself where a guy was staring at a woman I was with a year ago, but saw I was twice his size and walked away.
Your bestie is not your protector, if anything she set you up for P Diddy and Jay Z to take turns on you while she watches and counts the cash. I don't know how many besties we have worked with us to set up their friend begging to watch you getting destroyed.