We need male Barbie dolls just like women are prepared for their future roles. Doing maintenance on the car or house, cleaning the car. She should remind him that these are duties or functions that a man perform.
He should also be doing work for pay and providing a nominal amount to pay for the bills. Cooking and cleaning are effeminate roles for a man. She is probably working on a job, but she still has to perform these functions and steer him towards more male centric duties.
Many are instinctive behaviors that I have found myself doing, that is why I found it unconscionable for Ahmad Arbery to get busted up like that, it is against man code.