I used to think that way, verbally communicating with people does not work in many cases. She could have gone to the police to issue a trespass warning to her. I am dealing with fools now desperate begging for my attention, trying to get me into a peon battle; please respond emotionally to me. I don't want anything to do with some clown in the U.S., they already have me tied up with various retarded schemes.
Anytime a family member uses violence or does treacherous shit, it only escalates and gets worse. You have to cut them off and move on with your life. How they were when you was a child is exactly how they will turn out as adults.