i meet this woman at work only knew her for three weeks and she tells me she is a lesbian but she has been there for four months and she tells knowone until i start woking she confides in me thats wierd![]()
I have never had to deal with lesbians before so I am merely speculating.
i meet this woman at work only knew her for three weeks and she tells me she is a lesbian but she has been there for four months and she tells knowone until i start woking she confides in me thats wierd
Maybe not that you were aware of.
Ummmmmmmm what? Dude she just trusted you and wanted to make sure you knew what was up before in case you tried to holla at her.
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what i am saying is that it made me feel uncomfortable and what should i do because i don't want to here about her sexual nights cause i am not a lesbian.
what i am saying is that it made me feel uncomfortable and what should i do because i don't want to here about her sexual nights cause i am not a lesbian.
If it is something you find discomfort in simply tell her that this is a work environment and she is making you uncomfortable talking to you about these things. Nip it in the bud before she thinks that you are her buddy.
i meet this woman at work only knew her for three weeks and she tells me she is a lesbian but she has been there for four months and she tells knowone until i start woking she confides in me thats wierd![]()
Nothing wrong with being "buddies." Lesbians can have platonic female friends.
Not in the work environment. Clearly the OP has a level of discomfort with the situation therefore she NEEDS to establish boundaries with the person in question before she believes that they have a "different" type of relationship.
I have no clue what you are talking about... You mean she has not told any one else at work she is a lesbian?
I usually can decipher most people's writing...I give up on this one, though...I have NO IDEA what you're trying to say.![]()
You should just tell her that you are uncomfortable listening to her tell stories about her sexual experiences and that you would prefer for things to stay professional.
So women can't be buddies with MEN in the work environment either, since we know they're always all about "getting some" with every woman they meet?
You handle unwanted lesbian advances (and I don't know that that even ocurred here) the same way you do unwanted straight male advances. "Thanks, but no thanks" and move on.
she wont know she's making you uncomfortable unless you be upfront and tell her...
The question is whether her co-worker just being "gay" is what's making the poster uncomfortable or if it's actually some sort of "sexual advances" that are making her uncomfortable. BIG difference. Some people just assume they are the object of every gay person's desire (when they're not).