Who say's a single woman can't raise a man??
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Let’s wish her Happy Father’s Day and acknowledge he don’t need a dad. 
Good effort but she’s teaching him the wrong technique. For an offensive tackle going up against a pass rusher he has to focus on his right(hind) leg kick out to step back and give himself and the defender room to see what move he’s going to make and he has to counter that move. If he gets too close to the defender a simple push and pull, swim move, or just plain bull rush will have him beat. There are free videos on line she needs to watch before teaching him. But this is one of the roots of the issue as a former coach you can’t tell these mothers anything so many years of being taught the wrong thing and when they get to high school very rearly do they accept it and are willing to change.
Yeah a lot people admire the effort of mother trying and just want to be nice with the compliments and it's the kind, respectable thing to do, but if they want the real or the KS version: 1 a young son just starting football doesn't need an inexperienced masculine football coach mom, 2 she is providing some wrong coaching techniques for an oline 3 we see why she's most likely a single momma.
When a boy is born to a teenage mom; that could spell disaster. When a boy is born to an adult longing for a children, the outcome is vastly different—often positive. As for the people saying things about the football aspect of it, you’re reading too much into it. Giving the boy reps is always a good thing. Just her being willing to do it is enough; once he’s at practice a few days a week with his actual coach he’ll tighten up. Shit, my sister guarded me when I hooped on our crooked-ass garage setup. I just needed opposite of any kind to get my Iverson on.
thats just the narrative that a lot of people try to push..............there are plenty of single mothers that can raise a man.
my mom did it. But its not because my dad didnt wanna be there,....he went to prison when i was 4.....didnt get out til i was 38.
She never had another man in her life since,.....never dated....none of that. Me and my 2 brothers came out alright.
my mom did it. But its not because my dad didnt wanna be there,....he went to prison when i was 4.....didnt get out til i was 38.
She never had another man in her life since,.....never dated....none of that. Me and my 2 brothers came out alright.
The millions of people are over complimenting this is the video causing it to go viral on how soft and feminine the society is getting unfortunately except when they need a man to come in and police and teach something masculine to protect them in reality.
Point is not the effort/reps she is given, in my opinion... it's much more to it that is the issue. In part, for example, it's like a father showing his daughter how to put on makeup, then saying a lady will show her later. And that's example of the feminine masculine aspect only. Competing against a sibling sister is far different than getting wrong coaching from a mother, especially in a dangerous collision sport like football. A wrong technique in leverage can more easily cause him a concussion or something broken like his neck. There's of course, some women out there that are probably better sport coaches in fundamentals than some men, but the point is a mom shouldn't be celebrated coaching her young son wrong football techniques. Most other sports, sure.
yeah that's all it takes to be a man.
Y'all new niggaz raised by single moms are the most sensitive mfs ever.
Glad you posted this. Not big on Lineman shit but something was not clicking. She had the outside block down, but something was not getting it for me.
There seems to be this thought process that a man thats in a childs lift is a "MAN", we've seen plenty of skinny jean wearing, soft as baby sh!t, purse carrying, transgender kid supporting sensitive a$$ dudes with kids. So stop the "fathers need to be in the kids lift bull" sometimes the father is the worst thing to ever happen to kids. You know the guy thats all always beating the hell out the mother in front of the kids etc..
My wife and I were just talking about that.
Sometimes the father being present isn’t an ideal situation either. Same for some mothers too.
In an ideal world, both parents are in the kids life, raising, teaching, and guiding without too much trauma involved. But parents are imperfect beings and deserves leeway for some mistakes.
female logic. that's not the norm but you acting like it is to make a weak point.
Males with fathers in their lives are more successful, handle stress better, and think more like a man.
You proved yourself which category you belong with your response.
We don't know her and might of been the type of woman that had a baby and refused to get along with his father for her own selfish reasons and vice versa.
She's doing what a lot of black women have to do and that's take care of a child,raised them,teach them and all of that good ol shit which is what you're supposed to do as a PARENT.
She's doing what a lot of black women have to do and that's take care of a child,raised them,teach them and all of that good ol shit which is what you're supposed to do as a PARENT.
but she still chose that bum ass male to be her baby daddy
I will keep this simple respecting your response. The person you described is not a MAN. let me give you the attributes of a MAN.
- Above Reproach: A man whose life cannot be criticized and whose behavior does not give others a reason to discredit his Christian testimony.
- Husband of One Wife: Faithfulness to one's spouse, exemplifying commitment and purity in marriage.
- Temperate: Self-controlled and balanced in behavior, avoiding extremes and indulgences.
- Prudent: Wise, sensible, and sound-minded, showing good judgment in all areas of life.
- Respectable: Living an orderly, honorable life that earns the respect of others.
- Hospitable: Welcoming and generous to others, especially to strangers, and willing to open one’s home for fellowship.
- Able to Teach: Competent in understanding and sharing God’s Word, able to instruct and explain spiritual truths.
- Not Addicted to Wine: Avoids drunkenness and substance abuse, demonstrating moderation and self-control.
- Not Pugnacious: Not violent or quarrelsome; a man who handles conflict without resorting to aggression.
- Gentle: Kind, compassionate, and patient, particularly in dealing with others' faults and weaknesses.
- Uncontentious: Peaceable and not prone to argue or create unnecessary conflict.
- Free from the Love of Money: Content with what one has and not driven by materialism or greed.
- Manages His Own Household Well: A good leader in his home, managing his family with love, wisdom, and discipline.
- Not a New Convert: Spiritually mature and grounded in faith, not a recent believer who might become prideful with leadership.
- Good Reputation with Outsiders: A man whose life reflects Christian values even outside of the church, earning respect from non-Christians.
- Loving What is Good: A man who delights in what is good, pure, and righteous, seeking to cultivate these qualities in his life.
- Just: Fair and upright in his dealings with others, treating everyone with equity and justice.
- Devout: Holy and committed to living a life that honors God in every area.
- Self-Controlled: Able to regulate his emotions, desires, and actions in a way that reflects discipline and spiritual maturity.
- Holding Fast the Faithful Word: Firmly committed to sound doctrine, living by and upholding biblical truth in his teaching and practice.
Sisters, too many today confuse a male with a MAN. A male chases his desires, abandons his responsibilities, and lives without discipline. He may leave the mother of his children, abuse her, or fall into any vile behavior. But a MAN—a true man—reflects God’s order. He is faithful, self-controlled, gentle, and just. He leads his family with love, teaches through his actions, and provides stability.
Now, I’m not saying a MAN is perfect, but when he strives for these qualities, his children have a better chance at success, and his family can stand strong. Brothers, are we just males, or are we becoming MEN?