Why get married if you are a man that makes a lot of money????
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96,000 a yr + private school fees on child support… 4 properties + several whips.. and a million dollar sign up bonus lol
If you like your money to STAY in your pocket, don't get married nor have kids.
Niggas better off getting a harem of women in Africa and a big ass plot of land and raise the children over there.
This American shit is for the birds
This American shit is for the birds
Stay tricks at least you know where your money is going ☺
This doesn't involve marriage and I have no idea how much the parties involved made or make, but it does involve "Child Support."
One of my female coworkers (we will call her Alice) approached me and another male coworker because she wanted our opinion on a situation. Her female friend (we will call her Carol) wanted her to testify in Family Court on her behalf.
Why?
Carol wanted Alice to say that she was aware that Carol was dating this "particular guy" years ago around the time she got pregnant with her son.
I'm sketchy on the details because this was told to me years ago, but Carol was "dating"(sleeping with) 2 different guys at the same time and got pregnant.
She told the guy who was in the better financial position that he was the father of the child (He believed her). I am not sure if they had a "Court ordered" agreement or if they just worked things out between them?
Somewhere along the lines the "Child Support" must have ran out (maybe he found out that it was not his child).
So now Carol wants Alice to testify on her behalf to get the actual "Biological Father" on the hook for Child Support, with the terms and agreement to be set forth by Family Court.
One of my female coworkers (we will call her Alice) approached me and another male coworker because she wanted our opinion on a situation. Her female friend (we will call her Carol) wanted her to testify in Family Court on her behalf.
Why?
Carol wanted Alice to say that she was aware that Carol was dating this "particular guy" years ago around the time she got pregnant with her son.
I'm sketchy on the details because this was told to me years ago, but Carol was "dating"(sleeping with) 2 different guys at the same time and got pregnant.
She told the guy who was in the better financial position that he was the father of the child (He believed her). I am not sure if they had a "Court ordered" agreement or if they just worked things out between them?
Somewhere along the lines the "Child Support" must have ran out (maybe he found out that it was not his child).
So now Carol wants Alice to testify on her behalf to get the actual "Biological Father" on the hook for Child Support, with the terms and agreement to be set forth by Family Court.
As a flex.
Tempestt Bledsoe - Wikipedia
You don't have to follow the crowd with everything. I know Kirk Russell a white actor had done the same thing. Wikipedia calls them 'partners'.
I know many of you before gay marriage was legalized had 'partners'
For some pussy he can't even have no more.
And he gotta schedule to see HIS KIDS.
Shit is madness!
Tommy Sotomayor is that you?That HAIR-HAT Hooligan celebrating the destruction of a black family because the wife leaves with millions in assets.
No concern about the children and how this affects them.
This makes zero sense. Just because you MADE alot of money doesn't mean you WILL continue to make alot of money.
If this has very little impact on his life I doubt he would be fighting the judgement.
If you are worth 60 million and have to pay 20 million. You are not hurting.
If you make 60k and ordered to pay 20k. That shit hurts.
Father Time: "Draya, your timer went off like 2 years ago deary."
Courts don’t have time for no testifying. What she going to say on the stand. That man over there had unprotected sex in June 2023.
Courts just going to make them do a DNA test. Then wait for the results!
Just my 2¢
I've been married and divorced in my 30's, at 51 years old today, with no children.
I'm not trying to have any children ever. For me, no reason to get married again.
I'll be damn if I get married to a chick at this age with the wealth I'm building and she wants to leave me in 5 to 10 years and take half when I'm in my late 50's or early 60's. My house been paid off since 2016, with today's housing prices can't see a chick taking half the value of my home.
Average man don't have time to start over and live a good quality of life rebuilding in your 60's from scratch.
I've been married and divorced in my 30's, at 51 years old today, with no children.
I'm not trying to have any children ever. For me, no reason to get married again.
I'll be damn if I get married to a chick at this age with the wealth I'm building and she wants to leave me in 5 to 10 years and take half when I'm in my late 50's or early 60's. My house been paid off since 2016, with today's housing prices can't see a chick taking half the value of my home.
Average man don't have time to start over and live a good quality of life rebuilding in your 60's from scratch.
It's this fcking simple.
I like being married
I love my wife
And I like reading bedtime stories to my kid and seeing her grow up everyday
I also made more money once I got married.
Someone I trust to take care of shit while I am out there improving my skills and advancing my career.
That being said, I do think what life would be like if I had staid single
But I doubt I would have the drive to make as much as I do now if I did not have a mouth to feed.
I love my wife
And I like reading bedtime stories to my kid and seeing her grow up everyday
I also made more money once I got married.
Someone I trust to take care of shit while I am out there improving my skills and advancing my career.
That being said, I do think what life would be like if I had staid single
But I doubt I would have the drive to make as much as I do now if I did not have a mouth to feed.
I would like for people like this to talk about their 'partnership'' what it is like for retirement or healthcare. Why did they choose this arrangement?
Tempestt Bledsoe - Wikipedia
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You don't have to follow the crowd with everything. I know Kirk Russell a white actor had done the same thing. Wikipedia calls them 'partners'.
I know many of you before gay marriage was legalized had 'partners'
Everything now is promoting marriage because of religious beliefs similar to buying a house and chaining yourself to a 30 year mortgage. The average cost is $30,000 the black community should be investing that money unless they start coming out with reparations. Quit trying to imitate white people.
This might be ideal solution for the black community.
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This mentality reveals far more than you think.
The answer is: they want to give away their money away but the idea of a charity offends them to their core.
Imagine getting married so you can read bedtime stories to a child.
It looks good on paper. Judgments and decrees are written on paper too.
Was the ball emptying, circulation stopping head worth it in the end?
Dayum! Dude got screwed over. I thought child support was for people who were poor or middle class. Teyana has her own money.
This is why married couples be trying to kill each other, if they were partners you can walk away.
If you need a formal agreement to stay with somebody maybe you should not be together. It is the daily mounting of your women, buying a house together and children that bind you together.
Many black women are religious fundamentalist like the Taliban and can't think outside the box at the financial detriment of the black community. Many of them turn into witches with black cats and no kids.
If you need a formal agreement to stay with somebody maybe you should not be together. It is the daily mounting of your women, buying a house together and children that bind you together.
Many black women are religious fundamentalist like the Taliban and can't think outside the box at the financial detriment of the black community. Many of them turn into witches with black cats and no kids.
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That entire system is ridiculous!!
A lot of this is on the attorneys as well. The higher the settlement is, the more time it takes to negotiate and put in motions. They just keep billing hours and getting paid!!!!
It's a ruthless system not set up to help men out at all!!!!
I don't understand why this is public information. Family and civil court proceedings should not be public information. What good does this do for society to know what happened in their agreement? What good does this do for their families and friends? Their children? Now the lonely bitch brigade and the loser niggas on the net are going to use them as an example for what's wrong with everything because their private business is public fodder.