Depends on the girl(s) and situation. Sometimes it's just partying and hanging out.... Getting dances and dranking and shooting the shit with the girls....strippers and friends
Sometimes it is with a chick who just likes the music and drinks and vibe. Instead of going to a regular bar, hang at a strip bar...damn good music
Sometimes it is with a chick who I'm vibing with and yeah, I'll be getting dances and the stripper and my girl will be talking about this and that...rubbing me an each other...
It's whatever....but chicks seem to dig it...and I am an old man....55 and I been taking square chicks to strip clubs for 30 years...