I noticed my white "friends" wont let me in their world

[LEs Stroud]

Ok so I live out here in savage ass philadelphia where the dating scene for progressive brothers is terrible. Surrounded by nothing but ignorant fake sunni muslim beard wearing criminal and ghetto grimey weave wearing "sistas" So being from NY I hang out in the City in places like Fairmount and Old city by myself.

Everyone knows me in the bar and a lot of my white drinking friends women and men will hang out and drink with me all night. BUT when I hear about the fun shit they do on the weekend, like hiking, wine tasting, white water rafting, whiskey tastings, concerts I'm never invited. They even have my phone number but our relationship is strictly at the bar stool. So I stopped going there


Even at work there are a few white girls who I thought were more than co-workers but I noticed they dont call me after work or invite me to concerts of bands that are on my fucking IPOD and they know I like.

I've tried going to black clubs only to have them shot up or someone robbed outside or security with bullet proof vest patting you down before you enter.

Maybe its just this city but being in my late 30's younger white chicks arent attracted to me and older ones are into joe white trash eagle fan # 1 The latin chicks or asian chicks dont fuck with brothers cuz they'r so grimey and dirty out here. This city is trash for real. But maybe other cities are like this too.

 

[DAYNE]

travel please

 

[Flawless]

you must be fat without much of a personailty.

 

[therealjondoe]

maybe your ugly
just fucking with you.
the older you get the less you hang with folks.
especially if you havent been tight with them for a long time.
they might not think you are into that shit

 

[DAYNE]

you must be fat without much of a personailty.

damn bruh your a coon for real

when anybody comes with real criticism of cac's you cape up like a mofo

 

[doggish_098]

you need to get some better "white friends" was out with some white people i use to work with today and one is big into hiking has invited me several times to go, been to their homes and so on. Maybe the problem doesnt lie with the white people maybe you are the problem.

there are a lot of things to do in philly for socially progressive black males like you claim you are maybe if you spent less time bitching and moaning on here about how much you hate philly and more time finding enjoyable things to do you would see it.

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

its not really..

your energy level is really too much for them.... and the only they can tolerate it, is if they are drinking..

there is a reason why they have segregated communities and it doesnt have a damn thing to do with property value..

you are too busy trying to socialize, while they are studying your ass...

sunbleseed man you make white men feel insecure in your presence... not white woman white men...

do a little less socializing and a little more observing young man..

study them like they study us, and you will be surprised what you find out...

for one

we are totatlly judged my the way we dress and what we have... but if you have too much or more... you become a threat...

etc.................

so dont take it personal... o sunblessed one.

 

[Flawless]

damn bruh your a coon for real

when anybody comes with real criticism of cac's you cape up like a mofo

this dont mean much coming from a faggot ass nigga who calls him self dayne and is obsessed with 50 cent

 

[Cock Head Jones]

travel please

billy slowhands u idiot.

 

[LEs Stroud]

you need to get some better "white friends" was out with some white people i use to work with today and one is big into hiking has invited me several times to go, been to their homes and so on. Maybe the problem doesnt lie with the white people maybe you are the problem.

there are a lot of things to do in philly for socially progressive black males like you claim you are maybe if you spent less time bitching and moaning on here about how much you hate philly and more time finding enjoyable things to do you would see it.

In a way I cant argue with you. But there was a time when you had a tangible progessive scene out here like first fridays and Nubian outlets. But what places, lounges or events would you recommend for a 30 plus progressive black male?

 

[DAYNE]

this dont mean much coming from a faggot ass nigga who calls him self dayne and is obsessed with 50 cent

not only are you a simp, your also a coon

 

[DAYNE]

billy slowhands u idiot.

you got issue with me keep it in that thread simp

 

[LEs Stroud]

its not really..

your energy level is really too much for them.... and the only they can tolerate it, is if they are drinking..

there is a reason why they have segregated communities and it doesnt have a damn thing to do with property value..

you are too busy trying to socialize, while they are studying your ass...

sunbleseed man you make white men feel insecure in your presence... not white woman white men...

do a little less socializing and a little more observing young man..

study them like they study us, and you will be surprised what you find out...

for one

we are totatlly judged my the way we dress and what we have... but if you have too much or more... you become a threat...

etc.................

so dont take it personal... o sunblessed one.

sometimes I go after work and I'm dressed up. But I didnt look at like that. I felt I was friends with them for over a year now but I kept noticing they would leave and go to after hour spots and I was never invited. I wish I had more of my people to hang out with but that isnt the case out here.

 

[LennyNero1972]

 

[RepostKing]

I'm not going to clown you because I lived in Philly. I know the areas you're talking about. I met decent people down there but I cant say I hung out with the folks on the weekend. Kinda sounds like you want to do more than hang out with white folks, and more like you want to be white or live their lifestyle

But having lived there and knowing the people I can see where that despair comes from.
But brugh get out some more and stay away from the college type scenes. You'll get no love in
there as a brother. Not a good look. Try center city mid town. A lot of transplants. Also make sure you're in shape. If you're fat and not looking good but looking desperate, it will be the same in any city

 

[Lola]

sometimes I go after work and I'm dressed up. But I didnt look at like that. I felt I was friends with them for over a year now but I kept noticing they would leave and go to after hour spots and I was never invited. I wish I had more of my people to hang out with but that isnt the case out here.

Like somebody said, TRAVEL.

Why would you want to hang out with some white assholes who snubbed you? Be glad they didn't invite you--some racist crap might've broken off.

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

sometimes I go after work and I'm dressed up. But I didnt look at like that. I felt I was friends with them for over a year now but I kept noticing they would leave and go to after hour spots and I was never invited. I wish I had more of my people to hang out with but that isnt the case out here.

uh yeah....

dude do you realize in your quote you say...

females and in all thier "IMPERSONATIONS"

dude define "IMPERSONATIONS"

because only fucking fags "IMPERSONATE" female any fucking thing??

do you frequent those lady boy shows?

do you sympathize with eddie murphy picking up a tranny in the wee hours of the night and being rightfully accused of tranny trickin??

that fucking line aint just suspicious it fuckin screaming heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeyyyy

talking bout this crap:
Maybe its the internet, but I just cant bring myself to be ashamed of my fetish. The female figure or its impersonation in all its forms is amazing.

 

[HALO2]

Stop calling yourself and other black people nigga and you wont' have a problem. Sell ignorance scares people.

 

[freshnclean]

Fuck them, do you. If you wanna go wine tasting, and hiking, do that shit on your own. Dont wait for them to validate you, and invite you along. If you are too afraid to do shit on your own, then you need to gain more self-esteem and confidence. Personally, I would fall back if I was always excluded amongst my "friends".

I've tried going to black clubs only to have them shot up or someone robbed outside or security with bullet proof vest patting you down before you enter.

If you think all black clubs are wild west shootouts, you need to get out more. There are plenty of black lounges, and mature spots to go and chill, you just have to check them out. Leave those hood spots, and young spots alone, and you will be fine


Oh yeah, and leave that Old city shit alone, it aint for us...

 

[pollux]

You reek of bitchassness. Kill yourself.

 

[malaki]

man listen let me tell you I am real used to being around white people, can speak proper etc. without a flaw, talk about white topics, yadda yadda. but I just for some reason don't have ONE white friend that is on that homey level where we gonna go on a road trip together or that type of shit. I did but cut that shit off they just weren't trustworthy and had that weird superiority shit. I got a couple of jewish or mixed asian/white friends but thats it and they are at arms length. maybe one white guy who is half asian and a wigger basically so he relates to how we like to do shit. all of my friends are black, asian, or latino. and this is in the bay area! I have white "associates" who I can call up on some business deal type shit but close friends?

I'm not even going to waste time analyzing it at this point. bottom line I just am not going out of my way to waste time when its proven that 99.0% of white americans I just can't be close friends with. l can't call it.

 

[EATUGOOD1]

hey if anybody missed that ESPN 30 FOR 30 about Marcus Dupree i'm going to post it in alil bit after its done uploading

 

[bklynswag6]

 

[pyramidbuilder]

quite obvious.... you think they are your friends, and you would love for them to be, but they are only associates who don't really want to have to do anything with you on an intimate and true friendshipBECAUSE YOU're BLACK. It's like the girl you can't bring home to meet your mom's. Wake up ans welcome to the real world.

 

[nofrillz]

you should check out the internet dating game. thats a whole different ball game.

white people are not going to invite you out to shit, you got to be looking for fun shit to do and meet crazy white people there. if you are looking for a car the worst place to look for one is in a scrapyard, so why when people are looking to meet people they would like they go to a bar (the scrapyard of human interaction everyone there is getting wasted) find a hobbie something you like and you'll meet people there who also like the same thing.

also you don't want to turn into TOKKEN BLACK they invite you out like the midget in a rappers crew, the only reason the creep looking short nigga is out is because its cool to have a short dude in the crew

the white girl that im fuckin loves going out with me because i take her to fun shit that her lam ass white friend dont go too... the fuck you want to go white water rafting for anyways, wine tasting is some of the most pampas shit ive ever seen!! people getting drunk trying to tell the difference between one spoil grape flavour and another, i know any chick white, black, red, fuck blue would rather be at a mos def concert

 

[kotf]

I was going to clown on you bro but my internet giving some problems so I guess it was devine intervention......

But on a serious note you need to get out and do you.........

Work on your self confidence and you can have any woman you want after that....

Also You have to learn people before you bitch a them and learn them for what they are for and understand everybody isn't you, so how you might deal with people on a whole others might not and you have to learn to accept them for who or what they are.......

 

[Killacut]

Sounds a like a sad life you got there

 

[Cock Head Jones]

Havent gotten into the internet dating game because I dont know FREE sites to go to. I tried match.com and got no hits at all. I sent a few notes and winks. I'm trying to loose weight but its hard. I think my wide face is turning chicks off to be honest. My face is broad like a Samoan and I'm 260, 5'11.

I know confidence is everything but chicks dont see confidence in an internet pic. I think they see my wide broad face and move on. You should see how big and wide my sun glasses are just to fit my fuckin face- just a little down now but its temporary. Just not attracting the chicks I want, like when I was younger and slimmer

i cant take this thread.

 

[cbm_redux]

...when I hear about the fun shit they do on the weekend, like hiking, wine tasting, white water rafting, whiskey tastings, concerts I'm never invited. They even have my phone number but our relationship is strictly at the bar stool.

Please tell me that you're being ironic? If not, you might have an autism spectrum disorder and you can't pick up on non-verbal communication. Obviously, they don't want to be bothered with your black ass. What's more intriguing to me is why you are so desperate to impose yourself on a group of crackers in the first place. You do realize that you can go to all of those places and engage in all of those activities without having a cracker to vouch for you, right?

 

[malaki]

Havent gotten into the internet dating game because I dont know FREE sites to go to. I tried match.com and got no hits at all. I sent a few notes and winks. I'm trying to loose weight but its hard. I think my wide face is turning chicks off to be honest. My face is broad like a Samoan and I'm 260, 5'11.

I know confidence is everything but chicks dont see confidence in an internet pic. I think they see my wide broad face and move on. You should see how big and wide my sun glasses are just to fit my fuckin face- just a little down now but its temporary. Just not attracting the chicks I want, like when I was younger and slimmer

man you need to start eating better and exercising, no way around it.

 

[kewlphucker]

That's too bad I was hoping they would let you in their world so you can leave ours.

 

[EATUGOOD1]

Man the board is really falling off!!!! Yall acting like billy slowhands is cool or something.. Wtf

 

[Amajorfucup]

I see what OP is getting at. I dont see why he's getting so much grief. I agree on his general sentiment about philly too. Its a shithole and the outlets for progressive young professionals is lacking at best. Hopefully some of the locals can give the guy some useful info on the matter.

 

[malaki]

Sounds a like a sad life you got there

some of yall are cold blooded

 

[BCAA2009]

The OP has many life problems that can only be solved with a violent but quick suicide. You'll be etched into the obituary section of your local newspaper and no one will be able to take that from you.