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Flawless

Flawless One
BGOL Investor
So it's ok to drive up with your pants off?

Do you walk into a strip club with no pants on?
There is a difference between driving in your own car with no pants and walking into a place of business with no pants.
 

Piff Henderson

Stage Manager of Stage Managers
BGOL Investor
This one of the ones where I’m like you getting mad at the very energy you inviting. You selling coffee and sex, two things that ain’t got shit to do with each other and you trying shame the same customers that‘s paying you? How bout put some clothes on and see how much coffee you sell?
Is this one of those nude coffee shops?
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Duece

Naked Women
BGOL Investor
What we have on BGOL are incels who believe that just because a woman is serving you coffee in a bikini you should be able to drive up and expose yourself.

Even though you assholes know good and fucking well that if you did that shit in a strip club or Hooters, you would get thrown out or worse.

You idiots want to blame the women SO fucking bad, yet you don't hear these white dickflashers who openly talk about going to Black neighborhoods and flashing Black women and girls becuase they feel they are easy targets who won't call the police.

When you give this freak a pass, you give those assholes a pass as well.

Then again, I'm not talking to Black men on BGOL anymore.
 

Amajorfucup

Rising Star
Platinum Member
I’ve read the story before it was posted here. So that makes what he did right by going to the window what appears to be more than once again with no pants on and dick in hand because they were half dressed?

Not sure why this is upsetting you because worse has been said on here about others who has died . However he needed to make better decisions.

You’re still one of my favorites, bu don’t handle me like that.
My point was you misread why some of us took offense. We were saying the thread title was tasteless and offputting considering we've recently lost members. Poorly timed at the very least saying BGOL has lost a member in the title.

Also, i maintain that if they're attention whoring and selling sex as a means to push coffee then that will predictably invite nefarious characters. Both parties were half naked in public doing weirdo shit imo.
 

Costanza

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My point was you misread why some of us took offense. We were saying the thread title was tasteless and offputting considering we've recently lost members. Poorly timed at the very least saying BGOL has lost a member in the title.

Snowflakery. I think making fun of a dead member would be in bad taste. Joking that this man was a BGOL member is only offensive to someone looking to take offense.

Also, i maintain that if they're attention whoring and selling sex as a means to push coffee then that will predictably invite nefarious characters. Both parties were half naked in public doing weirdo shit imo.

Look at the reflection on his car door and tell me what you see.

 

Costanza

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Registered
What we have on BGOL are incels who believe that just because a woman is serving you coffee in a bikini you should be able to drive up and expose yourself.

Even though you assholes know good and fucking well that if you did that shit in a strip club or Hooters, you would get thrown out or worse.

You idiots want to blame the women SO fucking bad, yet you don't hear these white dickflashers who openly talk about going to Black neighborhoods and flashing Black women and girls becuase they feel they are easy targets who won't call the police.

When you give this freak a pass, you give those assholes a pass as well.

Then again, I'm not talking to Black men on BGOL anymore.

Wild to attack all black men on the board based on a few incels. I agreed with everything up until that point.

What’s really pathetic about the woman haters is, like someone who hears about a rape and asks what the woman was wearing, they just assumed she was dressed suggestively. That wasn’t even the case.
 

Duece

Naked Women
BGOL Investor
Wild to attack all black men on the board based on a few incels. I agreed with everything up until that point.

What’s really pathetic about the woman haters is, like someone who hears about a rape and asks what the woman was wearing, they just assumed she was dressed suggestively. That wasn’t even the case.

I did not attack all Black men.

I simply stated that I'm speaking to Black men on BGOL because it's obvious this place is full of non-Black men.
 

Amajorfucup

Rising Star
Platinum Member
Snowflakery. I think making fun of a dead member would be in bad taste. Joking that this man was a BGOL member is only offensive to someone looking to take offense.
What you joked about- and i objected to- is BGOL losing another member. Not sure why you continue to die on this hill. A simple rewording to "which BGOL member is this?" would have corrected that titular concern. But to instead double down and continue to be the obtuse intransigent bitch that you always are is typical.
 

Costanza

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Registered
What you joked about- and i objected to- is BGOL losing another member. Not sure why you continue to die on this hill. A simple rewording to "which BGOL member is this?" would have corrected that titular concern. But to instead double down and continue to be the obtuse intransigent bitch that you always are is typical.

This was a "Which BGOL member is this" thread. The fact that the guy died and I referenced him dying has you with your panties all in a bunch. So be it. You speak only for yourself. If the title was as offensive as you suggest, more people would have expressed offense. Most people understand that this is just a variation on "Which member is this" and the dude happened to have offed himself. I wasn't making light of any actual known member's death so I apologize for nothing and I'm done addressing your Gen Z-esqe snowflake bullshit.


And I notice your bitch ass didn't address the proof I posted that your women-blaming was totally off-base. You were wrong. Admit it, don't skip over it.
 

Costanza

Rising Star
Registered
I did not attack all Black men.

I simply stated that I'm speaking to Black men on BGOL because it's obvious this place is full of non-Black men.

Oh, I see what you meant now, I didn't read it that way.

"I'm not talking to Black men on BGOL anymore." :lol:

That's some funny shit to imagine someone proclaiming and still continuing to post here if you read it thinking of BGOL as a black forum (which I believe it mostly is).
 

Amajorfucup

Rising Star
Platinum Member
This was a "Which BGOL member is this" thread.
Then why not title it as such? Why title it "BGOL losses another member" or whatever it was that implied such. I wasnt the only one to voice that sentiment.
And I notice your bitch ass didn't address the proof I posted that your women-blaming was totally off-base. You were wrong. Admit it, don't skip over it.
Where did i blame women you mentally disconnected weirdo? How the fuck can your mashed potato brain fail to acknowledge how blatantly joking about a dead member is offensive yet concoct some alternate reality where i "blamed women"? You're one sick nigga.
 

DaMostHy

Troll Hunter
BGOL Investor
They gotta imprison y'all motherfuckers at the first light of dawn tomorrow morning. Y'all cannot be allowed to see another day of freedom. :lol:

I'm not surprised. That's same dude who raised virtual hands in solidarity with Bullet. His tagline should read "contrarian".

 

notreally

Rising Star
Registered
What you joked about- and i objected to- is BGOL losing another member. Not sure why you continue to die on this hill. A simple rewording to "which BGOL member is this?" would have corrected that titular concern. But to instead double down and continue to be the obtuse intransigent bitch that you always are is typical.

Agreed, with one caveat: bitches are female dogs. Dogs are loyal and lovable. I see no reason to sully the good name of canines to describe that sack of shit, Cantstandzya.
 

Hey Julian!

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
What we have on BGOL are incels who believe that just because a woman is serving you coffee in a bikini you should be able to drive up and expose yourself.

Even though you assholes know good and fucking well that if you did that shit in a strip club or Hooters, you would get thrown out or worse.

You idiots want to blame the women SO fucking bad, yet you don't hear these white dickflashers who openly talk about going to Black neighborhoods and flashing Black women and girls becuase they feel they are easy targets who won't call the police.

When you give this freak a pass, you give those assholes a pass as well.

Then again, I'm not talking to Black men on BGOL anymore.
Even though I’ve never been to a Hooters in my life, much like a strip club I ain’t going there for the food. While most men aren’t pulling their dicks out and being pervs, don’t work in one these establishments and act surprised when that shit happens. We know that is some shit that will happen in these places. Stop acting like women have an agency or ability to understand this shit. They not selling coffee in bikinis because the coffee is so good and it sells itself. It is what it is. Don't join the police and talk about fearing for your life. You knew what it was when you joined the force. That’s all I’m saying.
 

Duece

Naked Women
BGOL Investor
Even though I’ve never been to a Hooters in my life, much like a strip club I ain’t going there for the food. While most men aren’t pulling their dicks out and being pervs, don’t work in one these establishments and act surprised when that shit happens. We know that is some shit that will happen in these places. Stop acting like women have an agency or ability to understand this shit. They not selling coffee in bikinis because the coffee is so good and it sells itself. It is what it is. Don't join the police and talk about fearing for your life. You knew what it was when you joined the force. That’s all I’m saying.

So what about the men who flash their dicks on public transportation, what about the situation I mentioned earlier where men on other forums and platforms have spoken of going to Black neighborhoods to flash Black women and girls because they are easy targets and perceived to be less likely to call the police? What about people who do this shit to homeless women?

You're trying to validate his behavior because the women were selling coffee in bikinis but what you don't understand is that these exhibitionist men aren't going to keep their behavior exclusive to places like Bikini Bean, they are going to flash any woman or girl they want to or feel they can without punishment.

Like I said, I don't care if these women are selling coffee naked in high heels, that behavior is never appropriate because if you validate it for women in bikinis or what you deem to be slutwear, you validate it for the woman on the bus, the homeless woman or the woman who is just minding her business and doesn't want to see a naked male.
 

Temujin

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Even though I’ve never been to a Hooters in my life, much like a strip club I ain’t going there for the food. While most men aren’t pulling their dicks out and being pervs, don’t work in one these establishments and act surprised when that shit happens. We know that is some shit that will happen in these places. Stop acting like women have an agency or ability to understand this shit. They not selling coffee in bikinis because the coffee is so good and it sells itself. It is what it is. Don't join the police and talk about fearing for your life. You knew what it was when you joined the force. That’s all I’m saying.

This is some super dumb logic right here. So a woman working at a strip club or not even a strip club a risky coffee shop. LOL should expect to be sexually assaulted because they are wearing a bikini? Do beaches not exist. Do you expect people to pull their dick out at a beach or a pool. What kind of society are we living in where anyone should expect sexual deviant behavior?

This is the same incel thought pattern that made that dude think it was cool to pull his dick out in the drive through.
 

Piff Henderson

Stage Manager of Stage Managers
BGOL Investor
This is some super dumb logic right here. So a woman working at a strip club or not even a strip club a risky coffee shop. LOL should expect to be sexually assaulted because they are wearing a bikini? Do beaches not exist. Do you expect people to pull their dick out at a beach or a pool. What kind of society are we living in where anyone should expect sexual deviant behavior?

This is the same incel thought pattern that made that dude think it was cool to pull his dick out in the drive through.
I get deviant behavior but not incel in this case. This dude was married with a kid. That's pretty rare, if not nonexistent, for incels.
 

Hey Julian!

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
So what about the men who flash their dicks on public transportation, what about the situation I mentioned earlier where men on other forums and platforms have spoken of going to Black neighborhoods to flash Black women and girls because they are easy targets and perceived to be less likely to call the police? What about people who do this shit to homeless women?

You're trying to validate his behavior because the women were selling coffee in bikinis but what you don't understand is that these exhibitionist men aren't going to keep their behavior exclusive to places like Bikini Bean, they are going to flash any woman or girl they want to or feel they can without punishment.

Like I said, I don't care if these women are selling coffee naked in high heels, that behavior is never appropriate because if you validate it for women in bikinis or what you deem to be slutwear, you validate it for the woman on the bus, the homeless woman or the woman who is just minding her business and doesn't want to see a naked male.
I'm not condoning any of it, it's wrong, but like my example of walking down a dark alley with a bunch jewelry you can't surprised that you come out robbed on the otherside. It's a free country and you should be able to wear you jewelry, but you tell me that story expect my reaction to be "Well, what did you expect?"
There's no context for flashing on public transportation, there is in strip club, there is anytime sex is the draw. Yes, it's still unwanted, but if a stripper told me they've caught multiple guys jerking they dicks in the strip club, I wouldn't be surprised at all. Sorry, we can all understand the context of a job hazard and if you doing shit adjacent to sex work, the hazard is pervs. You don't have psychoanalyze on some deep level. If you doing shit to get men horny somebody in that group is gonna cross the line.
 

Hey Julian!

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
This is some super dumb logic right here. So a woman working at a strip club or not even a strip club a risky coffee shop. LOL should expect to be sexually assaulted because they are wearing a bikini? Do beaches not exist. Do you expect people to pull their dick out at a beach or a pool. What kind of society are we living in where anyone should expect sexual deviant behavior?

This is the same incel thought pattern that made that dude think it was cool to pull his dick out in the drive through.
Ok, talk to some strippers tell me what they say. The fact that a majority of men are in control doesn't eliminate the fact they are some that aren't. You think rapists don't exist because most men don't rape? You can call it incel thought all you want. I'm raising two daughters so don't think I'm sitting here looking at society as if shit can't happen. When I'm at the beach you fucking right I'm looking at any out of place weird dudes looking at my daughters/kids the wrong way. Y'all niggas can pretend like that shit don't happen ,but we have empirical data that says otherwise. Teach you sons how to be good men, teach your daughters how to avoid the bad ones.
 

Temujin

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Ok, talk to some strippers tell me what they say. The fact that a majority of men are in control doesn't eliminate the fact they are some that aren't. You think rapists don't exist because most men don't rape? You can call it incel thought all you want. I'm raising two daughters so don't think I'm sitting here looking at society as if shit can't happen. When I'm at the beach you fucking right I'm looking at any out of place weird dudes looking at my daughters/kids the wrong way. Y'all niggas can pretend like that shit don't happen ,but we have empirical data that says otherwise. Teach you sons how to be good men, teach your daughters how to avoid the bad ones.
I think my problem with your expectation of assault is that implies that the woman shouldn't be traumatized because she should expect to get assaulted working at a bikini coffee shop or a beach a strip club or anywhere else a man could be aroused. It excuses the behavior because the woman put herself at heightened risk by working at a place where a man might get aroused. It's ok he showed up with his dick out because that shit happens working at a coffee shop. No that shit don't happen and it shouldn't happen and when it does happen we should stand up like men and not give excuses for that behavior.

We should have zero tolorence for this type of bullshit fuck that what do you expect working at a strip club bullshit.
 

Hey Julian!

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
I think my problem with your expectation of assault is that implies that the woman shouldn't be traumatized because she should expect to get assaulted working at a bikini coffee shop or a beach a strip club or anywhere else a man could be aroused. It excuses the behavior because the woman put herself at heightened risk by working at a place where a man might get aroused. It's ok he showed up with his dick out because that shit happens working at a coffee shop. No that shit don't happen and it shouldn't happen and when it does happen we should stand up like men and not give excuses for that behavior.

We should have zero tolorence for this type of bullshit fuck that what do you expect working at a strip club bullshit.
Alight, bruh. We clearly ain't seeing it the same way. I'm just not jumping out the window for this occupation.
 

Costanza

Rising Star
Registered
Then why not title it as such? Why title it "BGOL losses another member" or whatever it was that implied such. I wasnt the only one to voice that sentiment.

The fact that only a couple of people have taken issue and the vast majority have not shows you to be a fringe snowflake.

Where did i blame women you mentally disconnected weirdo? How the fuck can your mashed potato brain fail to acknowledge how blatantly joking about a dead member is offensive yet concoct some alternate reality where i "blamed women"? You're one sick nigga.

You fabricated a whole scenario about both sides being wrong, Sleepy Joe.

All involved parties are pervs imo.
Both parties were half naked in public doing weirdo shit imo.

This is some Trump level gaslighting to claim you didn't blame the woman-- You called her a perv and accused her of doing weirdo shit.

This is your last chance to salvage a shred of credibility by admitting your misogynistic impulses led you astray and there were not pervs and weirdos on both sides, Donald.
 
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