I feel you and I agree on the surface, but the LGBTQ is pushing a major Agenda and have amassed power to the point forcing themselves into all things mainstream and now it's a mortal sin to not even want to deal with their sexuality.
For instance, Don Lemon trying to pressure Kevin Hart into becoming an LGBTQ ally, as though they are some helpless group. On a National news platform no less.
It's not about him HAVING to downplay being Gay. The point is that he's not flamboyant to the point that you SUSPECT that he's Gay.
If he hadn't come out, who'd have even thought as much.
Same with Don, Anderson Cooper, and Shepard Smith. They all outed themselves to much praise and fanfare.