Bgol Parents...how would you handle this...

[geechiedan]

So there's a couple of different things going on in this video.

First that kid has terrible parents because they recorded him having a tantrum and put it on the internet. Who does that to their kids?

Second maybe it's me but I get the vibe that kid is special needs. Something feels a little off about him.

Finally you can't let him get his way after something like that. I completely understand kids being crazy because sometimes they get nuts for no fucking reason. But you can't reinforce that kind of behavior because then you're teaching him that's how he gets his way.

but he didnt get crazy for no reason...it was objectively a shitty looking burger... he didn't imagine it or blow it out of proportion...for all we know that may have been his birthday meal or a you got an A on something in school celebratory meal. Or that might have been his day to pick dinner and thats what dad brought home.

That was a great opportunity to teach the child how to deal with disappointment. Sometimes in life you don't get what you want. You have to learn how to deal with it. How do we make the best out of a bad situation. But there is no yelling period. We correct that first then the tantrum then maybe we fix the hamburger problem.

is a shitty hamburger the time for a lesson in disappointment tho...because disappointment happens when you have to deal with something you can't change..there will be PLENTY of opportunities for life to fuck him over. Not on a burger tho thats fixable.

Well, damn. Some of you typing like you would risk a visit from BCW. That child was able to smell, feel, and see that fugazy burger.

The type of burgers mom made from ground beef with the big onion pieces, when were children, are now sold at Smash Burger.

I can't fault that child for calling bullshit on that burger.

Did you see the disappoint and disgust on face when he held that bullshit beef patty with two fingers.

He was beyond disgusted. He asked for a burger and instead of going to Five Guy's or Smash Burger. They bought that bullshit.

That's how I read the situation.
Little man ain't want that cheap McDonald's shit. He asked for a burger and got a flat jack with two pickles.

Fuck McDonald's. That's not a burger. That bullshit is barely food.

hindsight is 2020 but the best course would have been for the father to agree that its a bad burger...and take him to the grocery store to get the makings he wants to make a better burger together. Fix the things that can be fixed cuz there will be plenty of time to help him through the things that can't be changed.

 

[Temujin]

is a shitty hamburger the time for a lesson in disappointment tho...because disappointment happens when you have to deal with something you can't change..there will be PLENTY of opportunities for life to fuck him over. Not on a burger tho thats fixable.

At the time this is a child who couldn't change it because he doesn't know how to communicate what he wants. So we teach him how to be calm and communicate. There is no excuse for raising your voice in my house unless it's a real emergency so we have to start there.

If we don't teach this kid how to regulate his emotions will grow up to fight people in waffle house when his eggs are overcooked. Very little in life should cause you emotional stress. Funny shit is my son did the exact same shit for a different reason. Granted he was like 3 but I got him a hamburger and it had Ketchup on it and he freaked out. Like the Ketchup was blood. LOL I taught him how to tell people how he wanted his hamburger. Plain with cheese JUST CHEESE. lol We had a long talk about emotional regulation and dealing with disappointment. When you are flipping out you can't even tell people whats wrong with you (as we can see in the video). The first step is to control the flip. That means being aware that you are yelling and crying. I would put a mirror up or mimic my son's behavior. Sometimes the child doesn't realize how crazy they are acting. The emotions have taken over.

So many times in my life I have seen adults not learn this lesson. As soon as disappointment hits they loose it. Why? Because they flipped out as kids and somebody acquiesced. Nobody taught them how to get what they want without flipping out. It's actually easier than the flipping out to say "I would like a more prodigious hamburger with all the amenities and fixins, please" You will end up with a great burger and less stress.

 

[peterlongshort]

Looks like a kid being a kid and is not afraid to express his feeling without fear of being beaten.

I feel the little bastard. I remember one Christmas I couldn't stop talking about wanting an Optimus Prime Transformer. My mother, bless her heart, got me a gotdamn Go-Bot

 

[Flawless]

can we all admit that SOME of that shit we grew up with was low grade abuse...looking back

Black folks need some self reflection because if being strict with our kids at home was working there wouldn't be so many YN's out there causing a ruckus.

 

[bigjayler]

Throw the burger in the trash and give him the nuggets.

 

[geechiedan]

Black folks need some self reflection because if being strict with our kids at home was working there wouldn't be so many YN's out there causing a ruckus.

strict is one thing.....whipping a kid with an extrension cord or whatever you can get youre hands on in the moment is something else.

 

[Darrkman]

but you didnt address his point...was he wrong about how a hamburger is supposed to be??

It depends on what the kids saw that he considers a hamburger. It looks like he's pissed off of something he saw on TV so he probably saw something with lettuce tomato onions the whole thing.

He's so Burger King but he got McDonald's and when you're that age that's just not working.

 

[tallblacknyc]

Throw the burger in the trash and give him the nuggets.

That lil girl will eat it.. she eating fries with no ketchup and she loving it, no complaints, no problems… that lil girl became the favorite child that day.. most kids complained about having vegetables on their burger this lil sissy boy wants vegetables on his

 

[geechiedan]

That lil girl will eat it.. she eating fries with no ketchup and she loving it, no complaints, no problems… that lil girl became the favorite child that day.. most kids complained about having vegetables on their burger this lil sissy boy wants vegetables on his

dude....what??

here's a question for any hardline parents: While your teaching your kid thru food denial and beatings to accept whatever is given to them no matter how soggy and fucked up...when exactly do you teach them stand up for themselves and call out bullshit when they see it??

I have yet to see anyone here say that that burger was fine and acceptable and no problem. It cost all of 2 bucks if that.. All the hardliners are saying is shut the fuck up and take whatever we give you. So when is the lesson to push back on bullshit??

 

[Texas Catdaddy]

that nukka went all Michael Douglas ( Falling Down ) about that burger ..... there will be firearms in his future .....

 

[tallblacknyc]

dude....what??

here's a question for any hardline parents: While your teaching your kid thru food denial and beatings to accept whatever is given to them no matter how soggy and fucked up...when exactly do you teach them stand up for themselves and call out bullshit when they see it??

I have yet to see anyone here say that that burger was fine and acceptable and no problem. It cost all of 2 bucks if that.. All the hardliners are saying is shut the fuck up and take whatever we give you. So when is the lesson to push back on bullshit??

Life isn't fair and the world exist whether you don't or do, so be happy you have time on this rock and make the best out this situation.. see that homeless man eating out the garbage can that could've you , you think he enjoyed that burger with no tomato yes he would, would you rather be in his shoes, no I don't think so, so eat that fucking burger and br happy you lil entitled shit. You wanted a burger and than got mad at your order.. be careful of what you ask for you just might get it . Hey your lil sis is now the new favorite child

 

[geechiedan]

Life isn't fair and the world exist whether you don't or do, so be happy you have time on this rock and make the best out this situation.. see that homeless man eating out the garbage can that could've you , you think he enjoyed that burger with no tomato yes he would, would you rather be in his shoes, no I don't think so, so eat that fucking burger and br happy you lil entitled shit. You wanted a burger and than got mad at your order.. be careful of what you ask for you just might get it . Hey your lil sis is now the new favorite child

We get that you tell your kids to eat soggy food, shut the fuck up and knuckle under....but when do you tell them to stand on business and call out the bullshit? Seems the only lesson ya;ll want kids to learn is to accept whatever is given to even when its shitty...especially when its shitty.

 

[tallblacknyc]

We get that you tell your kids to eat soggy food, shut the fuck up and knuckle under....but when do you tell them to stand on business and call out the bullshit? Seems the only lesson ya;ll want kids to learn is to accept whatever is given to even when its shitty...especially when its shitty.

No you tell your kids to let white women call you nig and to take advantage of vulnerable females Mr rapey.. don’t think we didn’t forget about your last rapey thread

My kid would’ve been specific on what they want cause there’s something called communication.. black people have that with their children, white people dont,.. cacs have Nannie’s cause they don’t take care of their kids or have any connection.. when you not letting them calling you nig or trying to rape handcuff Spanish women you would find out the difference to white people and black people

 

[geechiedan]

No you tell your kids to let white women call you nig and to take advantage of vulnerable females Mr rapey.. don’t think we didn’t forget about your last rapey thread

My kid would’ve been specific on what they want cause there’s something called communication.. black people have that with their children, white people dont,.. cacs have Nannie’s cause they don’t take care of their kids or have any connection.. when you not letting them calling you nig or trying to rape handcuff Spanish women you would find out the difference to white people and black people

1. you debate like a bitch...both those threads were not serious but like a dumbass you take them serious..which makes it hard to take you serious

2. now youve never seen black kids throw tantrums and attitudes for gettin some bullshit.

3. When ordering a hamburger it USUALLY comes with LTO unless you specifically say you DONT want those things moron.
even his mother had to concede that..

you the one who thinks beating and starving your kid is the proper way to teach them how to deal with disappointment.

 

[Darkness's]

They couodve easily gotten a timato out of the fridgeand sliced then arded some mayo and a little lettuce but instead chose to record him......

Spoiler

HE'S still a little faggit though

 

[tallblacknyc]

1. you debate like a bitch...both those threads were not serious but like a dumbass you take them serious..which makes it hard to take you serious

2. now youve never seen black kids throw tantrums and attitudes for gettin some bullshit.

3. When ordering a hamburger it USUALLY comes with LTO unless you specifically say you DONT want those things moron.
even his mother had to concede that..

you the one who thinks beating and starving your kid is the proper way to teach them how to deal with disappointment.

Where did I say I beat my kids over him wanting tomatoes? I’ll wait? See how you stay lying?

But you did create threads talking about taking advantage of females in cuffs.. you say you were playing, but the fact you copy the link, made a thread, posted it said your thoughts were put out there, next it’s possibly action.. this is how serial killers and rapist usually start..with thoughts, than blurting stuff out, than actions

As far as letting white women call you nig that’s not funny at all rapey doormat.. these things are truth about you..meanwhile you have to create lies about me.. once again where did I say I’ll beat my kids?

 

[geechiedan]

Where did I say I beat my kids over him wanting tomatoes? I’ll wait? See how you stay lying?

naw nigga you just get shitty burgers for you kid and force them to deal with it because homeless men blah blah blah...

the kid's SIX...jesus...fuckin moron

and the thread was if you were a cop how would you handle that stop..thats it..so put your tampon back in..

 

[tallblacknyc]

naw nigga you just get shitty burgers for you kid and force them to deal with it because homeless men blah blah blah...

the kid's SIX...jesus...fuckin moron

and the thread was if you were a cop how would you handle that stop..thats it..so put your tampon back in..

I’m not white, I don’t have white baby mothers, I don’t have white kids.. so this is a random white vid that you posted..probably was thinking about that white chick calling you nig and that’s why you really enjoyed the vid.. this white family doesn’t know what their kid wants.. I’m black I know how to communicate with my family, my kid would tell me what he wants and he would’ve got it

You mad cause like most of your threads it sucked, it bombed, And you in here arguing with everybody like a lil sissy cause you enjoy having estrogen rants being Mr opposite.. this is you in every thread..you make threads to argue.. if the thread was 2+2=4 you would be in here going how you know it’s not 5 or 3..this is you..sassy pants geech..estrogen filled rant

 

[geechiedan]

estrogen filled rant

exactly what youre doing now...

 

[Deezz]

He's having an attention fit

Pre-planned fake crying attention fit to parlay that sissy fit into future Playstations ans Disneyland trips.

Little extortionist fucker!!

Just ignore his ass and that burger would magically disappear into his belly later that night once that hunger set in.

 

[tallblacknyc]

exactly what youre doing now...

Why haven’t you showed where I say I’ll beat my kids yet for not getting tomatoes? Oh cause you lied..this is why you have estrogen rants.. sassy talking with a bunch of lies in it.. Mr sassy geech

 

[Coldchi]

Boy if you don't shut yo faggot ass up and eat that burger, I'ma beat the dog shit outta you.

 

[DWBass]

I'd sit there and eat that shit right in his face!

 

[Texas Catdaddy]

I'd sit there and eat that shit right in his face!

lil mf getting a pb&j .....