I was watching a TikTok debate between men and women on this today and everybody was agreeing that what Puffy did was wrong but the minute a man would say what Cassie should have done at the first signs of abuse the women would throw a fit saying all men trying to make excuses for Puffy and how Cassie was young and a grown man manipulated her. All they wanted to hear was Puffy was wrong, he should be in jail, stoned, etc...if a man said anything more he was labeled an abuser, rapist, reason why women chose the bear.