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joegrine said:
Technically, I'd say I don't care all that much about what people think or say. I can look past that.

But the thing that would make it hard for me to seriously date or marry a pornstar is the fact that in certain aspects of the Black American culture, there's a tendency towards hypermachismo and (unfortunately) normalized misogyny. In short, in certain hoods you're gonna be dealing with not just people whispering behind your back, but all kinds of ignant niggas disrespecting your lady right to your face.

I'm a laidback dude, man. I don't like drama. I can't be out here getting into fights with random-ass goons three times a week. And sooner or later, one of these motherfuckers might end up killing your ass behind this shit. I can't deal with that burden.

But.... if we lived far away from such an environment? I could probably handle it.
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I grew up in the hood and I have jokesters on BOTH sides of my family so if someone in my family showed up with a porn star mate people are gonna crack jokes on 'em. It's a given. They would know that going into it. Plus, in the hood, "ya mama's a hoe" is like one of the original snaps. They did that in "Cooley High" and that was made in '75 and set in '64 so this whole mentality has been around for a while.

But for me it isn't even about all that. Personally a chick that sells/sold pussy has never been one of the qualities that I look for in a mate. I wouldn't want a chick like that to be the mother of my kids. Life is hard enough as a Black person. Having a parent that sucks and fucks for money is just adding another unnecessary burden to an already full plate. In my opinion everybody is not for marrying or cuffing. Just because a chick is fine or has a beautiful face, doesn't mean she should be my partner. This life shit is way deeper than pussy. But that's just my take on it. Other folks see the shit differently I suppose.
 
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joegrine said:
Technically, I'd say I don't care all that much about what people think or say. I can look past that.

But the thing that would make it hard for me to seriously date or marry a pornstar is the fact that in certain aspects of the Black American culture, there's a tendency towards hypermachismo and (unfortunately) normalized misogyny. In short, in certain hoods you're gonna be dealing with not just people whispering behind your back, but all kinds of ignant niggas disrespecting your lady right to your face.

I'm a laidback dude, man. I don't like drama. I can't be out here getting into fights with random-ass goons three times a week. And sooner or later, one of these motherfuckers might end up killing your ass behind this shit. I can't deal with that burden.

But.... if we lived far away from such an environment? I could probably handle it.
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Co-sign everything you said. My other question has always been how as a man are you supposed to respond when your kid comes home upset because some punk kid decided to go online and show all the other kids and them what their mom was doing for work.
 
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xxxbishopxxx said:
Co-sign everything you said. My other question has always been how as a man are you supposed to respond when your kid comes home upset because some punk kid decided to go online and show all the other kids and them what their mom was doing for work.
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I'm curious to know how long that effect lasts and if it's true across the board. There's so much porn out there and new stuff being made, that if a chick did a scene or two 15 years ago, I doubt the kids would know unless someone older told them or they overheard it from someone.
 
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I'm curious to know how long that effect lasts and if it's true across the board. There's so much porn out there and new stuff being made, that if a chick did a scene or two 15 years ago, I doubt the kids would know unless someone older told them or they overheard it from someone.
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For real. No one is really checking for them except for people like us.
 
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1. Yes, older people talk. Especially about stuff like sexual peccadilloes and kids often overhear it.
2. There are a lot of people that watch porn and never comment about it on or forum like this but all of those folks are watching nevertheless.
3. However there are quite a few forums like this. I saw one thread where a dude basically was finding old porn chicks personal info and posting it along with their old scenes. Then you have the youtube sites where people post old porn chicks info.
4. These companies re-release old scenes like they are new. Just yesterday I saw a scene from one of the old Barrio Booty movies being advertised like it had just come out. The joint was like 15 years old.
5. Even if these chicks only did a scene or two, a lot of them also strip and escort so they have ads and stuff that got posted on various places on the web.

I remember seeing one thread where dudes were looking for a chick that did like one scene back in like '98 or '99 and had posted what they thought was her current name and info. If anybody ever googles that chick's name eventually that thread is gonna come up. Once you put something on film and it gets put on the internet, isn't it pretty much always out there? All of these kids have electronic devices. A lot of them have multiple devices at that.
 
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