This disagreement didn’t seem to come from the fact u said u wouldn’t do it, I mean neither would I, but your reasoning being because “she was 18 and made her choices” being the reason for not tryna do nothin about it makes it seem like u either don’t have children or are a different kinda dude. No father that loves his children the way a father should would allow his child to be out there like that without tryna help to somehow let her live in it to maybe learn a lesson or sumn. That sounds like a non parent giving parenting advice IMO. I could be wrong tho
No offense but nothing you wrote makes any sense in this context. First of all, 18 is an adult so there really isn't anything he could've done to stop her. You can't "allow" an adult to do anything unless you have some kind of power over their lives.
More to the point, you can't change shit that already happened. He can't make his daughter unsuck some dicks she already sucked. He might as well have invested his money in trying to invent a time machine to go back in time and stop her from doing the porn. That would've been as successful as what he did.
Last I heard he died. I'm not sure from what but the stress he caused himself likely didn't help. And for what -- the movie is still out there and it didn't hurt his daughter's life at all.
I have a question -- if your daughter did a video like this but at age 28, would you still blame yourself? Why or why not? At a certain point you have to realize they are adults.