Is cheating wrong or a mistake?

[REDLINE]

Thanks for the responses.

What’d he do?

 

[ansatsusha_gouki]

Cheating is not a mistake.
You're making a CONSCIOUS CHOICE to betray/hurt someone you are in a relationship/marriage with. (Even if they don't know and never find out).
- It's not a mistake.
- It's a deliberate choice.
Folks can try to "justify" or "absolve" themselves by calling it a mistake. But it's still making a choice to hurt someone who trusts you...

100% agree

 

[geechiedan]

Would you consider cheating wrong or a mistake? A friend of mine recently caught his lady in bed with someone else and when he confronted her, she said she made a mistake. Thoughts? Opinions?

if its his wife its a violation of their marriage...its its his GIRLFRIEND...its at least a violation of his trust but their not bonded like marriage so its to him on how he deals with it.

 

[Pworld297]

Some people like the thrill of cheating, I know I did when I was younger. I was doing something I wasn't supposed to be doing and the thrill of getting caught turned me on lol.

 

[knightmelodic]

Yes. No.

 

[AtomAnt]

You knew exactly what you were doing nigga

 

[KunningLinguist]

I’m not condoning cheating but if you’re going to go that route, don’t do it around places your wife or people she knows be around. I have slept with two married women when I was younger one of them I smashed in her husband house. I was young and silly back then but as I got older, I knew not to do that shit again. Oh one more thing when I used to do deliver furniture and it’s a lot of lonely housewives out there. You better make sure your wife is happy before you go off to work man because people like me could come around and well you know what could happen.

i was just telling somebody that ANYONE is capable on anything under the right circumstances

 

[easy_b]

i was just telling somebody that ANYONE is capable on anything under the right circumstances

Exactly because some of those women’s was very hands on if you get my drift. Now, remember this was back in the 90s, but I still have fun memories of that job delivery furniture and again you know why.

 

[jack walsh13]

You make a mistake and knock over a cup of juice

you make conscious decisions to fuck someone.. can it be a bad decision, yes, can it be a decision you regret, yes, can it be a decision that you only regret cause you were caught in the act and the repercussions can be negative for future scenarios, yes.. but it wasn’t a mistake like some accidental shit

Right.

 

[4 Dimensional]

To fuck another person while in a relationship is a choice.

A mistake is one of my students forgetting to put a negative sign in their answer that caused them to get it wrong.

I don’t like playing with semantics when it comes to people’s bad decision making.

 

[Sloboogie]

Those of us who DO "cheat" have not had many options in regard to sex (you can tell by some of the post that our members contribute), so we fantasize about new pussy in some sort of carnal desire to fulfil a self induced quota that disappears just like cotton candy in water

The equivalent of getting a good job and financing a car, while not understanding that you cannot be as financially reckless as you were before purchasing. Afterwards we feel terrible (PNC-Post Nut Clarity), but just like the wolfman....when that full moon comes out again....

....we end up shopping for something else.

Solution: Before settling down, you gotta get rid of "The Madness". Fuck MANY. Fuck OFTEN. Fuck INDESCRIMINATLY. The desire for chasing pussy will fade, and you'll find yourself looking for a woman who you just wanna talk to and protect. A legit friend.


Sidenote: PIS (Pussy Impulse Syndrome) will soon be labeled as a disability, so some of y'all might be eligible to get a monthly check soon. - Joke

 

[Mrfreddygoodbud]

Femenism told women its ok for them to fuck all the men

they want to, and to stay out the kitchen and fuck the nurturing

housewife life... Most women are wired to be happy, nurturing

and raising children.... but they been tricked into the man world

where loneliness and depression awaits, or life with a spineless simp they settled for

because ain't no real knigga, living with no whiney bossey bitch.... fuck that life!!

As a real knigga Matures a real knigga needs PEACE..

Real kniggas don't cheat, they just interview for potential new wives...

Its meant for a man to be with more than one woman...

Only a society led by faggots would make you think otherwise..

 

[jimmiewine]

What’d he do?

He’s in the process of leaving her.

 

[REDLINE]

He’s in the process of leaving her.

I'm sorry that he had to go through this and have his relationship end, but