It's like this... imagine that YOU HAVE TO DRINK POISON. One poison is slow action and will kill you slowly, while the other is Fast acting and will kill you faster. No matter what, both are poisons, both will kill you and you have no choice to drink. No if, ands or buts, you must drink the poison. Which one do you choose and why? Every election, we complain about the choices but act like we have better choices to pick from. Candidates will never come to you and ask you what you want from them and do that very thing. The best we can do is select the best candidate who represent our represents our views about things and hope they actually do something about it. Nothing more or less. Every candidate is flawed because we are flawed human beings. Just like you are not perfect in ALL aspects of your life, a candidate is no different. Remember you must drink the poison, it's only a question of which poison YOU choose to drink.
ps. for those on that, fuck that I'm not drinking any poison, you are that voter, the candidate knows, you will not vote for them or anyone so, they don't factor you in the equation. The candidate don't try to woo your demographics, will not present an argument for your demographics, will work to suppress your vote, and will not spend the resources to do anything about your situation because you do not matter and he is counting on you to do nothing about his attempt to win the election. He is only going to focus on the poison drinkers.