after this, I'm not too sure
Keke Palmer Boyfriend doesn't approve of her attire with usher because she's a mother.
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after this, I'm not too sure
He can't control her behavior, he can influence, set standards and etc.....but ultimately if she wants to shake her hot lil ass at an Usher concert......she will and she did.
My point about him being there was this, he set the standard that her ass/ body on the net was ok when he was posting it. So he can't be mad when she has it out on the net without him. If he didn't want her ass on the net without him, then he should have been there.
So apparently she didn't know his feelings/ reaction would be (his fault for not communicating )
He chose to run to SM and try to shame her instead of calling /texting and handling his shit IN HOUSE! He invited the world into his household and that invited them into his past.....
The sum of my post(s) are this.....he needs to be accountable for his actions and inaction.
Many men on here have said their women wouldn't do that.....so either they set the standard and there is mutual respect or they know what the consequences are and want to avoid them.....
Either way HE DID NOT DO ANY OF THAT. He turned into Mr twitter fingers and wanted the world to gang up on his woman......
NO MFKR, YOU HANDLE THAT SHIT!
If she's supposed to be your queen, wife, rib and/or rock why would you ever want the world to shame her?!! You put the bravest face out to the world and behind closed doors handle your shit!!
Make no mistake, I'm not one of these lil dudes out here, been on the board since 01 so I'm not a youngin.....
I am not defending her, I am scolding him! If she is a reflection/ extension of him then he did a piss poor job of molding, talking,teaching....etc her.
And lastly I also said they are both young(er).....the internet is making this a thing right now, but next week they could be all boo'd up again making all of this hoopla a moot point.
Man chicks will be getting beat down by dudes, missing teeth etc.....and be back a few weeks / months later.... a bruised ego for a dude when she is really starting to climb towards her apex......? Man he better get out his own way or make way for someone else......this is nothing to really hold a beef over and mess up a good thing
I said almost everyone, not everyone. That’s a fact. Most people with a social media page always posting their personal opinions or matters on social media. It’s an addiction.
That’s been happening since the days of Black Planet (lmao), Facebooks start, MySpace, and so on. Once people were given a platform to write their thoughts for public consumption, it was over. Lmao!
It’s gained more traction over the years but it ain’t just young people or this generation. It’s people of all ages, races, shapes and sizes who live their lives through social media.
They aren't famous and publicly embarrassed
It's going to be hard for them to go anywhere without the eyes on them, and them worrying about whispers.
You already know he's insecure. What happens if they're out and some guy speaks or attempts to hug her?
I don't think it's almost everyone, it's a minority.
It's hundreds of celebs on social media....how many have public shit online? A few.
If it was everyone shit wouldn't make news. It would be a every day occurrence.
At the end of the day, we don’t know what happened behind closed doors with them. These are all assumptions being made about a couple that we don’t know personally. Both actions for both parties stand out for various reasons. Like I said, a lot of people are full of shit about this situation. Most people are either projecting or just outright being dicks over this situation. Social media is an evil entity that does more harm than good.
This is my TED talk. Lmao
This is my TED talk. Lmao
Some of y’all are choosing at this point. The point is that majority of people who have social media post their personal lives. That’s the point of social media.
Whether we agree with what’s being posted is null and void because at some point mostly everyone with a social media has posted a personal experience. Whether it be a written post, pic, or video. Almost everyone has posted their personal lives. Including celebs.
Celebs don’t have to make the post, they could be doing a public interview or whatever. Celebs do the shit all the time. Make statements about their personal lives. It may not be all of them but a good portion of them do.
While I understand your point re being accountable for his actions, the actions aren't equal. Me posting my woman, vs my woman with another man in close proximity is different regardless of who is comfortable with the actions or not. In my opinion, it's not apples to apples and a bad argument.
Re your next point about standards and such.. how do you know the conversation wasn't had prior between them as a couple? This is why I say this is goofy. Justifications such as the one you're using for your view can't be based on assumptions.
My only point is that man has a right to speak on his family if he so chooses. I personally think life should not be lived in social media, but that's me. As you stated, you can't control a women's behavior. If she respected him as her man, she simply wouldn't do this. We are living in a different time and my reference to youngin's wasn't to you directly.
I get that some people are cool with it and some aren't. To each his own... This dude clearly wasn't and who am I/we to scold him? Bruh, keep that shit offa SM is all that needs to be said imo. All this he broke talk and she could do bad all by herself and leave him is disgusting to me and pay close attention to who it's predominantly coming from...
Concurred - they'll be back together next week if they're even broken up. Half this shit be scripted too... smh
Posting pics and random comments is not posting situations within your relationship
How many people do that shit on this board
Nobody knew who this dude was or cared about him until he invited the world into his relationship. That shit is not something everyone does. That's why @Bullet gets teased up here.
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I'm good broPosting pics and random comments is not posting situations within your relationship
How many people do that shit on this board
Nobody knew who this dude was or cared about him until he invited the world into his relationship. That shit is not something everyone does. That's why @Bullet gets teased up here.
Nigs done started catching strays in this thread.
My point still stands, fam. Most people are being highly hypocritical with this situation. Mostly everyone is projecting. You open the doors to your relationships when you post any form of media about your relationship publicly. Good or bad, that’s my point. People will form opinions based off of what you decide to share publicly. Unfortunately this was no different.
Most didn’t know him until Keke posted that she was pregnant by him. That’s when their relationship became more publicly known, not when he posted about his thoughts on the matter. Some may have knew they dated prior to that, but that’s when you most knew about him. Several threads were made about her pregnancy announcement and who the dude was.
We don’t know the ins and outs of their relationship but only what THEY have decided to share on social media. That’s ALL we know.
Members may not share their lives on this platform but that doesn’t mean they don’t on others. I don’t know anybody in here personally to confirm or deny that fact, but it’s more likely than not.
What she did was public and what he did was public, outside of that, what do we really know about how the situation was handled between them at home prior to and after?
I believe both parties played their roles in this but that’s only because of what I have seen take place, not what I know. I’m faulting both parties because they did what they did publicly.
Most didn’t know him until Keke posted that she was pregnant by him. That’s when their relationship became more publicly known, not when he posted about his thoughts on the matter. Some may have knew they dated prior to that, but that’s when you most knew about him. Several threads were made about her pregnancy announcement and who the dude was.
We don’t know the ins and outs of their relationship but only what THEY have decided to share on social media. That’s ALL we know.
Members may not share their lives on this platform but that doesn’t mean they don’t on others. I don’t know anybody in here personally to confirm or deny that fact, but it’s more likely than not.
What she did was public and what he did was public, outside of that, what do we really know about how the situation was handled between them at home prior to and after?
I believe both parties played their roles in this but that’s only because of what I have seen take place, not what I know. I’m faulting both parties because they did what they did publicly.
Posting pics and random comments is not posting situations within your relationship
How many people do that shit on this board
Nobody knew who this dude was or cared about him until he invited the world into his relationship. That shit is not something everyone does. That's why @Bullet gets teased up here.
I think my neighbors heard me laugh on that one!Nigs done started catching strays in this thread.
:lol: :lol::lol:
Nah brah. Everytime a good looking sister is posted here with her cheeks out, like 50 dudes type "wife'd up" or wifey. How you meet a woman is how she is. If you meet her with the cheeks out, they gonna be out the whole time. Also, why does the woman have to change when she becomes a mom? Does the man change? For example, did anyone on the board STOP looking at porn when they had daughters? Do dudes actually stop trying to get side coochie when they have kids? Come on man. We can't be asking sisters to drop it low and be the freak that we looking for and then criticize them when they get to the ground and start shaking they booties.
Nah brah. Having a child doesn't make a woman stop wanting to be sexy no more than it does for a man. Nobody calls out the famous brothers for being shirtless and being sexy symbols after they have kids. Heck, most of the women that are posted on the board are mothers, but we still posting em. That brother got jealous. As you said, that's fine. But the sister didn't do anything wrong either. I mean, how many dudes have gotten that lab dance from Janet Jackson, but their women ain't posted nothing. Just saying.
His original tweet was about the outfit. As men we "know" it wasn't about the outfit. It couldn't have been about the outfit because he's posted her in less and doing more.....
So, he's already "lost" saying it was one thing when we are assuming it was another.
That's the point of me stating, "If the outfit was the problem, he posts her doing more, wearing less then maybe he should've been there. Because it's all cool when he's there."
"IF" they had those conversations and she still did all that, then he knows how to act / move / proceed accordingly.....
if he wants to continue the relationship, you have a conversation about it, in house.......you don't run to the world and invite them into your household hoping they criticize her....
He can't speak on her "outfit" when he posted himself in just his boxers, thirsting for likes.
Agree
Bingo, but that's on him to, why doesn't she?
Cool
he needed a stern talking to, cuz the past few days have got to be rough......they were on his ass and sending strays to everyone in proximity.....
Probably
I fault him more.
He can't fake the posture of "my family, standard of morals and such," because if he was really on his square he would be emotionally / socially mature enough to not run to SM. No one was thinking about him when that clip of her first came out.
He saw she was getting attention, (looking good, but also being thirsty as well) he got into his feelings and thought going to SM was the move?!! He got called out and instead of playing MR PR and saving face he doubled / tripled down. So that's when they really started to investigate him and "drag" him....
He didn't have to post a thing, handle it at home. Was the "embarrassment" public? sure but the world would've gotten over it in a day, They were ready to tear into India Arie, but nah they been on his neck for 5/6/7 days now
Some of you niggas are hilarious on this thread. Im reading some of this shit and I'm like wow.
First off, for the ones who are cool with keke being half naked and having her ass out with a singer and her dancing seductive with him, a lot you niggas that are married or have a girlfriend wouldn't like that shit, so keep capping all y'all want like that shit is cool because she's KEKE.
As far as porn goes and dudes being married, it goes both ways, women love porn just as much as men do even the ones who don't want to admit it or say it's nasty and they're a Christian and don't watch that stuff is all bullshit and cap. Still that has nothing to do with your wife or girlfriend going out there half naked for the world to see.
Also, for the dudes that are fathers co-signing keke, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want your daughter to wearing a see through dress exposing her titties and ass going to the prom.
I say this to say that respect goes both ways, a women has to know where you stand and what you wouldn't tolerate and either she gets with the program or get left!
So, dudes need to have some BALLS and stop being a PUSSY, let her know how you feel when it comes to her wearing certain shit, she can still look sexy without showing the world her goodies.
First off, for the ones who are cool with keke being half naked and having her ass out with a singer and her dancing seductive with him, a lot you niggas that are married or have a girlfriend wouldn't like that shit, so keep capping all y'all want like that shit is cool because she's KEKE.
As far as porn goes and dudes being married, it goes both ways, women love porn just as much as men do even the ones who don't want to admit it or say it's nasty and they're a Christian and don't watch that stuff is all bullshit and cap. Still that has nothing to do with your wife or girlfriend going out there half naked for the world to see.
Also, for the dudes that are fathers co-signing keke, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want your daughter to wearing a see through dress exposing her titties and ass going to the prom.
I say this to say that respect goes both ways, a women has to know where you stand and what you wouldn't tolerate and either she gets with the program or get left!
So, dudes need to have some BALLS and stop being a PUSSY, let her know how you feel when it comes to her wearing certain shit, she can still look sexy without showing the world her goodies.
I never said her being a mother would make her stop but the fact dude that got her pregnant thought she wouldn't show her ass and titties no more and dress classy since she's a mother now. Also, a women can still be sexy without showing the world her goods. Also, a lot of people are hypocrites with this shit, if people are cool with keke showing her ass and titties then people should also be cool with their daughter doing the same thing and please don't say THAT SHE ISN'T GROWN BECAUSE that doesn't mean shit. A mother should want to set a better example of the women they want their son's to be with.
Janet Jackson don't be giving every dude a Lapdance and yeah everyone can see it, you gotta be lucky to get picked for a lapdamce from her.
A lot of these mothers that get posted on this board don't live with their kids or they their kids are grown or they still have kids they have to take care of. It's an embarrassment that a kid would have to deal with that shit in school because he's being teased about his momma being a hoe for the world to see.
But hey, some of y'all are cool with it, as long as y'all don't have no problem with the same thing happening to your wife or girlfriend then more power to y'all.
The outfit wasn't the problem, but he said it was the problem......I agree, I didn't like her behavior.....but that's not my relationship. Obviously she felt cool enough to do it. And he needed to address that with her, not SM
Have you seen these prom "dresses?"
These lil broads got double slits damn near to the waist, sides out/ key hole this and that......
aye go into the thread about being able to tell a chick is going commando, pick damn near any dress.....this past prom season, saw some shit like that all in my suburban mostly white neighborhood.....I don't even wanna talk about what my male lil cousins was posted up with.......these are definitely wild times.....
I mean that goes to show their mother's are dressing the same way showing it all which of course their daughters would follow their lead.
But I'm just saying that any father wouldnt be cool with their daughter going out the house like that dressing like KEKE going to the prom.
Being a Mother is what got her out here flossing that post birth ass. Of course niggas agree she cut worthy....but she wasn't considered a bad bitch. Now she has sexy and bad bitch dm's. And loving the attention
Both parties were wrong. Don’t care who was more wrong. At the end of the day, both parties were wrong.
I’m done with this shit! Lmao
I’m done with this shit! Lmao
Hmmmm, makes a lot of sense...and that is why he focused on the mama shit, because that's all he had. Couldn't come with her disrespecting her man, because he didn't have that anymore.
Mfkrs always trying to troll for attention / likes.....
She has well documented her skin struggles, but has also stated after the baby damn near all of it is gone, this is clearly a pre baby pic.....
Once again a mfkr runs on the net looking for validation from strangers......only for the wave to turn on him.
#message
Honestly now I see why so many of these Hollywood females are single with children
