Agreed. “Raw is life” is just a thing these fools on her say. Most aren’t hitting raw or eating as much taint as they boast of. I got a vasectomy years ago (I’m early 50’s) never wanted kids. I wanted to marry two exes, both are highly successful and I can’t tell you those types don’t want marriage, they often want to blend assets and incomes to meet a certain standard of living. They don’t want to, nor are most capable of being wives. Most of their friends aren’t married or even committed. To alpha and skrong. They can be soros and church lady, don’t want a husband.
Flip it and you have highly-desired men that can have their pick—nobody should marry them, but many want him and try to. Nobody is marrying for the right reasons and social media has done a huge disservice to dating and marriage. I know 3 men with 5 baby mommas minimum, and a lot with 2 or 3 baby mommas. Those men swim in pussy STILL. All my chill, go-getter homies with no kids have to chase women—almost make em submit like MMA. Then they find out she has a baby daddy or two that she can’t stand. Or, she was a career woman into her 40’s and never had time for a man; but nooooow, would like to find a nice guy with no baggage. Standard shit. The only man who will take a 40+ career woman who’s also a sorority chick is a player. Men of substance need you present, not pulled in 100 directions on some “My people neeeeed me!” shit. Ha! Most of these men women choose were neeeeeeever boyfriend or husband material; pregnant by em at 37! Lmao! Heartbroken over em. Women don’t like nice guys until that wall hits em; hence, why so many “bad boys” get all that dime pieces pregnant. Not all (I hate saying that) but the prettiest women in my family and that I know as friends ALLLLLL have kids by assholes; even my mother. My dad had 7 kids when she met him. Two kids by him.
I believe a man with a kid shouldn’t be able to rule out a woman with one. I believe once a man has plateaued in life: career, income, assets, he should not get married unless she has equal or more assets. I know 3 women (2 white, one black) divorced from successful men who are rich simply because of who they divorced. These SAME women won’t date a man making under 100k. My friend is divorced from a prominent retired atlanta falcon. Know what she says “I can’t find a man on my level!” What? You took half this mans shit, own tons of rental properties you bought with HIS game checks and alimony, but you can’t find a guy who also has multiple 6-figure free money and dozens of rental properties and 30k a month in residual income????? Lmao! You mean THAT guy is rare??? She won’t remarry because she’ll lose her alimony (she said this) EVEN THOUGH the rental properties bring in 30k a month!
Get married for what? It’s fools gold and a poor man’s game.
For those reasons; I am also out.
