Married At First Sight’s’ Pastor Says Black Men Who Audition Don’t Want Black Women

RUDY RAYYY MO

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Look at the bolded. Niggas out here super cooning and black women bed wenching is at an all time high.WTF is going on these days

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Some might be surprised that there’s so many people willing to marry a perfect stranger on the show “Married at First Sight” but that’s the case every season.

If you’re not familiar with the series, relationship experts select six men and women who don’t know each other and marry them off. The first time the couples actually see each other is at the altar before they exchange vows in front of their families.

During an interview, Pastor Cal, one of the relationship experts on the show, spoke about the selection process and how those who audition have to go through intense questioning.

And during that Q&A process, a lot of the Black men said they wanted to marry someone outside of their race,” which the Pastor finds problematic.

“How can I say this?” he began. “Here’s a big problem I have: One of the biggest problems we have on the show when we’re trying to match is finding Black men who want Black women. I can say that, and that’s a problem. But I believe it’s bigger than ‘Married at First Sight.’”

“There’s something in our society where, you know, we’ve been affected by this whole colorism thing,” Pastor Cal added. “And it’s sort of like a survival of the fittest type thing, you know, ‘I want to be on the side that’s winning.’ So it’s a very serious thing. It pervades our society. It’s there and it’s unfortunate, but we’re all victims of it.”

Elsewhere in the interview, Pastor Cal said he and the producers get a lot of requests for older, same-sex and interracial couples to be on the show. With same-sex couples, he said it would be a logistical challenge, but they’re not opposed to it.

In regards to marrying an interracial couple, they’ve tried repeatedly but haven’t been able to do so because some who audition are more enthusiastic about the idea than others.

“As far as interracial, I would love to see an interracial couple,” said the Pastor. “We tried every season to do that. It’s very difficult because when it comes to Black men and white women, we can find Black men who want white women, we can’t find as many white women who want Black men.”

“We have all these guys, I mean I’ve heard guys and I think you’ve seen them on previous seasons, guys who said ‘Hey, you know, I prefer white women.’ Then my thing is white women don’t prefer you. And so that’s a problem with the Black man-white woman scenario. I’m not saying that across the board. Just in the cases that I’ve seen, that may be it.”

And he sees the same thing among Black women who audition too.

And then on the other side, when you have Black women and white men, I’ve seen Black women who may want white men, but I haven’t seen a lot of white men who put on their profiles that I want a Black woman,” said Pastor Cal.

You can watch “Marry at First Sight” on Tuesday at 10:00 p.m EST on Lifetime.
 

BlackGoku

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So in reading this article..it sounds like these people are stuck between a rock and a hard place...they dont want black women, but the white women dont want them and vice versa...

I dont know man...I think it comes down to how you vibe with the other person...at some point dudes decided to just give up on black women...

I think the idea that "they want to be on the side thats "winning" is a bunch of BS and if you feel that way, youre a coward and front runner..
 

BitchI'llKillYa

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So in reading this article..it sounds like these people are stuck between a rock and a hard place...they dont want black women, but the white women dont want them and vice versa...

I dont know man...I think it comes down to how you vibe with the other person...at some point dudes decided to just give up on black women...

I think the idea that "they want to be on the side thats "winning" is a bunch of BS and if you feel that way, youre a coward and front runner..
We've been force feed a constant diet of negative images of black women and men...

Marketing is the most powerful tool in human history... believe that

 

BlackGoku

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We've been force feed a constant diet of negative images of black women and men...

Marketing is the most powerful tool in human history... believe that



I saw a cartoon a little while ago(it might have been here) that showed a black woman criticizing a black man with a white woman, but then praising meghan markle for finding her "white prince"...its kinda sad really.
 

Mrfreddygoodbud

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Anyone who goes on that show is a fucking idiot white or black.

*two cents*

exactly its a certain kind of mind fucked mentality that would audtion to do some stupid shit like that..

you taking something thats supposed to be sacred..

marriage and makin it a just for goofs shit for ratings...

its takes a certain kind of attention whore mentality for that...
 

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I likes um light , bright, damm near white wit hair like GeeeSusss ,that the way I was raised , I wants some lightskin chireen too, I already got some even though there is no lightskin green eyed peoples on my side of da family , I doesn’t see my dark skin kids too much cause they mama dont teach them right , plus dey look mean all the time.

Lightbrite who we all know is a half devil white. Hates himself and ingest the feces and dung of hogs and the schlop of pigs, goes to his devil bosses house just so he can co:raccoon:on it up and dance him a jig.
 
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ANGRY MAN

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I watch this with some of my lady friends, Season one had a thick sister in it, she smashed dude on the first night. After that it went down hill, I don’t know what season they on, but I haven’t seen a successful black couple on there yet.

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RUDY RAYYY MO

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So in reading this article..it sounds like these people are stuck between a rock and a hard place...they dont want black women, but the white women dont want them and vice versa...

I dont know man...I think it comes down to how you vibe with the other person...at some point dudes decided to just give up on black women...

I think the idea that "they want to be on the side thats "winning" is a bunch of BS and if you feel that way, youre a coward and front runner..
Excuses. You may as well say " love doesn't see color" bullshit
 

RUDY RAYYY MO

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You'd be hard pressed to find a Black couple on tv shows or commercials. This shit is by design which is why propaganda like this can be easily passed off as reality.
Black men and women are at war with one another. If some shit would go down we could easily be conquered . I've heard in Cali it's bad there for Black Women
 

RUDY RAYYY MO

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You'd be hard pressed to find a Black couple on tv shows or commercials. This shit is by design which is why propaganda like this can be easily passed off as reality.
Black men and women are at war with one another. If some shit would go down we could easily be conquered . I've heard in Cali it's bad there for Black Women
 

RUDY RAYYY MO

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You'd be hard pressed to find a Black couple on tv shows or commercials. This shit is by design which is why propaganda like this can be easily passed off as reality.
Black men and women are at war with one another. If some shit would go down we could easily be conquered . I've heard in Cali it's bad there for Black Women
 

slewdem100

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Maybe that's exactly what's needed.


Have you noticed EVERY commercial features a black woman with a white man...



All within the last 10 years...since that push for Black women to consider White men...was on social media, Oprah's show and a few other outlets around 10, 11 years ago...the proliferation of White man Black woman commercials after that was amazing to behold...much more of those commercials than the more common in real life Black man White woman relationships...think i have said this on here before but it would be very interesting to see a before and after count of Black woman White man interracial commercials around the time of that social media push
 

BitchI'llKillYa

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All within the last 10 years...since that push for Black women to consider White men...was on social media, Oprah's show and a few other outlets around 10, 11 years ago...the proliferation of White man Black woman commercials after that was amazing to behold...much more of those commercials than the more common in real life Black man White woman relationships...think i have said this on here before but it would be very interesting to see a before and after count of Black woman White man interracial commercials around the time of that social media push
And folks have been so conditioned that they dont even notice
 

BitchI'llKillYa

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So fucking dumb

Check the ACTUAL numbers

The overwhelming majority of us marries us

We shouldn't even spread this bullshit. I swear 90% of these inflammatory articles be horseshit and we can't wait to go repost it and start arguing and talking bad about each other

Man gtfohwtbs
All true.

But that does NOTHING to slow down the marketing. It's not me and you they are after it's the 6,7,8,9 yr olds being hunted.

I went to Santa Cruz with my wife and some kids... we actually had to count black couples. Same in LA and San Diego


 
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Moving Target

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all this is ...is trudging up publicity by creating more drama. these people know which buttons to push to stir up advertising and notoriety...enough to get the shows ratings up otherwise, they are out of work.

yeah they hit on allthe problem areas...the nerve/sensitive point of black issues but dont fall for the okey doke and this is more BS.
 

bgbtylvr

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1) tv concept is dumb. Speaks to the stupidity of who would even be on it, they don’t count as an accurate measurement.

2)I notice the commercials and ads years ago. Didn’t think it did much to indoctrinate us.

3)The Majority who date out of their race either didn’t grow up around many who looked like them or dated poorly (the wrong ones) and ran to the other side hoping the strife isn’t there.

4) I never dated out of my race until my 40’s. As I traveled white women made advances at me. Didn’t hint or play games, straight wanted to fuck or just kick it. I found white women to be relentless. I realized I was slipping early on. I’ve said it a million times on here that white women are fully in touch with their whoreness. It doesn’t bother them to do whorish things. White women have the luxury of being whores because society judges them harsher on other prettt shit that would destroy a woman forever.

5) Lastly, most black men don’t think women of other races are better, just easier to deal with. Black Women are perceived to be rough around the edges, sassy, or with too much attitude. And far too many DO fit that description. That’s the MAIN thing stifling black/black relationships. Each gender says and does dumb shit that never gets corrected. We just Bitch about it while never doing a thing to fix it. They say we ain’t Shit, we say it they ain’t shit nobody listens.
 

Autobot8655

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Cats are getting their feelings hurt with this one....

Pink women will have sex with brothas in New York minute...but marriage...

Marriage is a contract about passing down and sharing generational wealth.

If you are a black American (you know what I mean) who can trace his/her lineage for generations in this fucked up land, the probability of you having generational wealth is slim to none.
 

Dannyblueyes

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I don't watch this show, but maybe there's a practical reason.

Marriages don't last and white women tend to have more inherited wealth than Black women. Perhaps the Black men auditioning are playing the odds and hoping they can stick it out long enough for a healthy settlement with a monthly check.

If so I can't be mad at anyone trying to reclaim their stolen wealth. It just sucks that you have to go through so much bullshit to get it.
 

Nzinga

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I am not surprised, and if you asked me, I could have
said this same thing myself... But I am out of here
 
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