Men Over 35 Without Kids

BGOL Fatherhood Status By Age


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Costanza

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  • About 1% of white, Asian and Hispanic men ages 15 to 19 are fathers, compared with about 3% of black men of the same age.
  • Among men ages 20 to 29, 21.2% of white men, 24.9% of black men, 12.4% of Asian men, and 29.4% of Hispanic men are fathers.
About 61.6% of men (74.7 million men) age 15 and over are fathers, and of those, 72.2 million men have a biological child, according to a new Men’s Fertility and Fatherhood: 2014 report released today by the U.S. Census Bureau. More than one in four men have a biological child under the age of 18. Of the men with biological children under age 18, four out of five live with at least some of those minor children.​
2017: In 1972, the average age of fathers of newborns in the U.S. was 27. Now, it's closer to 31 years old


Pew’s recent study examined two groups of U.S. adults: Americans ages 18 to 49 who say they are unlikely to have children and those 50 and older who do not have children. The survey – which polled more than 3,000 people – included both “childfree” Americans who chose not to have children and “childless” adults who are not parents due to circumstances out of their control.​
Pew’s recent study examined two groups of U.S. adults: Americans ages 18 to 49 who say they are unlikely to have children and those 50 and older who do not have children. The survey – which polled more than 3,000 people – included both “childfree” Americans who chose not to have children and “childless” adults who are not parents due to circumstances out of their control.​
The study follows a 2023 Pew survey that found 47% of U.S. adults younger than 50 without kids said they were unlikely to have children, up 10 percentage points from 2018.
The most recent Pew survey, published Thursday, found nearly 40% of the older group said parenthood “just never happened,” while the majority of the younger group without kids (57%) said they “just don’t want to” have children.​
Other popular reasons for not having children among those 49 and younger include:​
  • Wanting to focus on other things (44% versus 21% for the older group)
  • Concerns about the state of the world (38% versus 13% for the older group)
  • Costs of raising a child (36% versus 12% for the older group)
  • Concerns about the environment (26% versus 6% for the older group)
Meanwhile, older adults were more likely to say they didn’t have kids because they didn’t find the right partner (33% versus 24% for the younger group) or due to infertility or other medical reasons (15% versus 13% for the younger group).​
 

havelcok

Rising Star
Platinum Member
Had my first at 34
Got another on the way at 39

I sometimes wish I had started earlier
But I know I needed to get my money right first

The pressure is to stay healthy for them
I see other 40 year olds with worn down bodies and out of shape
It’s hard but trying to stay lean and strong so I can kick my sons ass at 60
 

Costanza

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dtownsfinest

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Early 40s no kids, I'm not a Targaryen so I'm not worried about my legacy.
Plenty of nieces and and nephews to spoil and pass knowledge to.
I know too many people with kids who shouldn't be parents fucking up their kids anyway with their mental health issues.
You got mental issues?
 

dtownsfinest

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Had my first at 34
Got another on the way at 39

I sometimes wish I had started earlier
But I know I needed to get my money right first

The pressure is to stay healthy for them
I see other 40 year olds with worn down bodies and out of shape
It’s hard but trying to stay lean and strong so I can kick my sons ass at 60
Yeah I’m an older parent I had my first at 28….had my last one 3 years ago I’m out the game. I always said though if I met a female with no kids I might be willing to do one more. I love parenthood though. I know I wasn’t ready plus I’m glad I got to experience no kids on my early and mid 20s.
 

Costanza

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Costanza

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Yeah I’m an older parent I had my first at 28….had my last one 3 years ago I’m out the game. I always said though if I met a female with no kids I might be willing to do one more. I love parenthood though. I know I wasn’t ready plus I’m glad I got to experience no kids on my early and mid 20s.

That's not old-- It's right at where the statistical average has been! Maybe a little younger even if it was in the last 20 years or so.

2017: In 1972, the average age of fathers of newborns in the U.S. was 27. Now, it's closer to 31 years old
 

ThaS

International
International Member
39

2 Kids (8 & 9)
Went through a divorce 4 years ago.

I don't want anymore kids. I love my kids to the death. But don't like the stress of a divorce..
It was too much for me (and too much for them).

Also not dating women with kids anymore.
Been there done that. Not gonna spend my money on someone else's kids. It's like i'm paying for pussy FUCK THAT! :lol:

There are MANY women without kids.
 

305

Rising Star
Registered
3 kids of my own, plus 2 adopted from my wifes sister becoming paralyzed.

Waited till I was 37 to get started. I really only had started at 37 cuz my old man died when I was 36 and our last convos while he was in hospital was about life only being about that (He had 12). And how I wont understand that till i have that.

He was right
 

Darkness's

" Jackie Reinhart is a lady.."
Registered






  • About 1% of white, Asian and Hispanic men ages 15 to 19 are fathers, compared with about 3% of black men of the same age.
  • Among men ages 20 to 29, 21.2% of white men, 24.9% of black men, 12.4% of Asian men, and 29.4% of Hispanic men are fathers.
About 61.6% of men (74.7 million men) age 15 and over are fathers, and of those, 72.2 million men have a biological child, according to a new Men’s Fertility and Fatherhood: 2014 report released today by the U.S. Census Bureau. More than one in four men have a biological child under the age of 18. Of the men with biological children under age 18, four out of five live with at least some of those minor children.​
2017: In 1972, the average age of fathers of newborns in the U.S. was 27. Now, it's closer to 31 years old

Pew’s recent study examined two groups of U.S. adults: Americans ages 18 to 49 who say they are unlikely to have children and those 50 and older who do not have children. The survey – which polled more than 3,000 people – included both “childfree” Americans who chose not to have children and “childless” adults who are not parents due to circumstances out of their control.​
Pew’s recent study examined two groups of U.S. adults: Americans ages 18 to 49 who say they are unlikely to have children and those 50 and older who do not have children. The survey – which polled more than 3,000 people – included both “childfree” Americans who chose not to have children and “childless” adults who are not parents due to circumstances out of their control.​
The study follows a 2023 Pew survey that found 47% of U.S. adults younger than 50 without kids said they were unlikely to have children, up 10 percentage points from 2018.
The most recent Pew survey, published Thursday, found nearly 40% of the older group said parenthood “just never happened,” while the majority of the younger group without kids (57%) said they “just don’t want to” have children.​
Other popular reasons for not having children among those 49 and younger include:​
  • Wanting to focus on other things (44% versus 21% for the older group)
  • Concerns about the state of the world (38% versus 13% for the older group)
  • Costs of raising a child (36% versus 12% for the older group)
  • Concerns about the environment (26% versus 6% for the older group)
Meanwhile, older adults were more likely to say they didn’t have kids because they didn’t find the right partner (33% versus 24% for the younger group) or due to infertility or other medical reasons (15% versus 13% for the younger group).​

They laughing at him for being childless when there's sucker ass nba players who seeded up models and influencer thots like Brittany Renner
 

Non-StopJFK2TAB

Rising Star
Platinum Member
What a primitive mindset. Assholes like this should be made to adopt or pay for every unwanted and uncared for child ever produced by some shit parent.
Let’s just agree that these richassholes should start off with paying to make the storm-drains capable of handling the anticipated rain surges due to global warming that they have caused.
 

neptunes007

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
Had my first at 21. Scary as it was I was glad I had him early. I'm 37 now. Will have more when its time. I'd say you want to enjoy your 30's. That is low key one the best times in life to truly be free before you really start to take on more responsibilities and start becoming less risky with decisions.
 

ThaS

International
International Member
My big brother has 5 kids with 3 different women.
His current wife has also 3 other kids from another marriage. He's taking care for all of them. Huge props to him.

But he's aging like hell. Stressed all the time. Working 6-7 days a week. It's crazy.

Having kids is one of the best things that's ever happened to me. But living with stress will kill you, sooner or later.
 

BrownTurd

Rising Star
BGOL Investor






  • About 1% of white, Asian and Hispanic men ages 15 to 19 are fathers, compared with about 3% of black men of the same age.
  • Among men ages 20 to 29, 21.2% of white men, 24.9% of black men, 12.4% of Asian men, and 29.4% of Hispanic men are fathers.
About 61.6% of men (74.7 million men) age 15 and over are fathers, and of those, 72.2 million men have a biological child, according to a new Men’s Fertility and Fatherhood: 2014 report released today by the U.S. Census Bureau. More than one in four men have a biological child under the age of 18. Of the men with biological children under age 18, four out of five live with at least some of those minor children.​
2017: In 1972, the average age of fathers of newborns in the U.S. was 27. Now, it's closer to 31 years old

Pew’s recent study examined two groups of U.S. adults: Americans ages 18 to 49 who say they are unlikely to have children and those 50 and older who do not have children. The survey – which polled more than 3,000 people – included both “childfree” Americans who chose not to have children and “childless” adults who are not parents due to circumstances out of their control.​
Pew’s recent study examined two groups of U.S. adults: Americans ages 18 to 49 who say they are unlikely to have children and those 50 and older who do not have children. The survey – which polled more than 3,000 people – included both “childfree” Americans who chose not to have children and “childless” adults who are not parents due to circumstances out of their control.​
The study follows a 2023 Pew survey that found 47% of U.S. adults younger than 50 without kids said they were unlikely to have children, up 10 percentage points from 2018.
The most recent Pew survey, published Thursday, found nearly 40% of the older group said parenthood “just never happened,” while the majority of the younger group without kids (57%) said they “just don’t want to” have children.​
Other popular reasons for not having children among those 49 and younger include:​
  • Wanting to focus on other things (44% versus 21% for the older group)
  • Concerns about the state of the world (38% versus 13% for the older group)
  • Costs of raising a child (36% versus 12% for the older group)
  • Concerns about the environment (26% versus 6% for the older group)
Meanwhile, older adults were more likely to say they didn’t have kids because they didn’t find the right partner (33% versus 24% for the younger group) or due to infertility or other medical reasons (15% versus 13% for the younger group).​

Damn, this could be his last season :smh: Also Curry and Lebron could hang it up
 

veewee77

Rising Star
BGOL Investor
The whole concept of marriage is outdated and needs to be rethought. I’m saying this as I’m going through my second divorce! Marriage should be a short term renewable contract that can be opted out of after x amount of years. The conditions for exit should be preset based off the number of years of the contract and/or if you renewed a previous contract or not.

I’m far from perfect, but the mindsets of today’s modern women are delusional and I don’t see myself putting myself through this shit again. I will be 50 in a few weeks and I have to concentrate on rebuilding myself mentally, spiritually, physically and financially from this shit. They don’t tell you that part before you sign up! I take my hat off to KD! Take your time young man! He’s probably seen his teammates wife up, knock up and wife the same internet thots that have been passed around the entertainment industry and wants no part of it. What I’ve learned is it takes a while to find quality. We as men just get impatient or lonely and end up settling. NEVER settle!!! If you can’t find what you want, love yourself enough to be content being alone and ride it out!

I have two daughters from my first marriage that I love with everything and I wouldn’t trade that in for the world. They are the only thing that was beneficial out of this marriage shit. But they’re expensive though lmao!!! I would say, get your financial house in order before you have kids! Create and execute your plan first! It’s easier that way. Just my two cents for the young bloods on the board biased off of my experiences!
 
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