Men Over 35 Without Kids

[4 Dimensional]

Got one and she turned 16 and I turned 40 this year. At first I wanted more, then I realized I’m not good at this parenting thing. I’m too selfish with my time.

I’m married (been with my wife since 2005). Wifey and I built income together, closed on a house, and beginning to travel more.

Mostly a positive experience with some real life shit happening from time to time.

Ultimately, do what makes you happy. Kids and marriage ain’t for everyone.

I’m not sure what type of person I’d be if I was single, but I could imagine I would never date another woman seriously and would deal with people much less than I do now.

 

[christop]

I'm 38, and I have no kids, and I'm not married. Society not pressuring me into being broke and miserable lol.

 

[Gods_Debris]

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[APOPHIS]

Good thread.

 

[Smoke Van Gundy]

Had my first at 34
Got another on the way at 39

I sometimes wish I had started earlier
But I know I needed to get my money right first

The pressure is to stay healthy for them
I see other 40 year olds with worn down bodies and out of shape
It’s hard but trying to stay lean and strong so I can kick my sons ass at 60

Your 40's is pressure. You can either look like your in your 30's or 60's. Good luck

Had my first at 21. Scary as it was I was glad I had him early. I'm 37 now. Will have more when its time. I'd say you want to enjoy your 30's. That is low key one the best times in life to truly be free before you really start to take on more responsibilities and start becoming less risky with decisions.

This my story. Had my oldest at 19, Started over at 39 and had 3 more.

 

[BGLR1212000]

Finding a really good spouse is luck, blessings, and destiny. It ain't meant to happen for everybody.

 

[bgbtylvr]

None.

 

[ThaS]

Embrace being lonely. I was in a relationship for 11 years. Wifie was cooking daily, cleaning the house daily, sucking the D daily. Hell... she even was cutting my toe nails once a week. Life was great....but in the end it didn't worked out.
First year being alone was hard. But now i feel great. I got in the best shape in my life. I'm near 40. But i feel and look like 25.
I can do my own thing, when my kids are not around.

I think all men should live alone for a while. It can be hard and lonely, but if you can learn to be happy when living alone, then it means you can be self-sufficient and you don’t need anyone else to thrive.

 

[kidmegaii]

44. 1 kid, a teenager. Divorced. Was not even remotely interested in marrying again & only interested in dating women my age & older. Women in their 30s want families. Women my age and older are usually wrapping up their parenting bid like I am, and I could deal with that. Not dating a woman with children younger than my own.
However; wanna make God laugh? Tell him your plans.

It has already backfired on me. I was dating this chick 2 years older than me from my gym. A real health nut with adult kids. I thought, "perfect. I'll coast out with her." Wrong. When I met her, her oldest was expecting a child. I thought nothing of it. Cut scene, years passed, and the kid is cool. Calls me "papo". Im even on the list to pick the kid up from school. To the point the school thought I was his father, of a 5 year old, with a 22 year old baby mama. Whole bunch of side eyes in my direction, but that is a story for another time. Anyway, that wasn't the problem. The problem came in where we, my lady and I, couldn't do shit because she was on babysitting duty.

Her whole thing was since she had kids early too, and her family, latinos, were there for her to help watch her kids while she got her shit together and she wants to do the same for her kids. Respectable, and I get it. Do for your family. However; I spent my teenage years and 20s pulling out to avoid such madness & now I'm being hoisted on my own pertard. Now I'm a bonus abuelo, due to a fat ass, pretty feet, and I get treated like a king when I'm that house.

Plus, I slide most of the babysitting duties to my teenager for pennies on the dollar. So, now I have a reason for my daughter to be in the house. Plus, a little snitch that I pay in Robux and oreos to rat on what she's doing.

Nigga you sound happier than a motherfuckimg pig in slop, stop frontin!!!!!!! Nergo eating mofongo while getting his feet rubbed.

 

[the13thround]

Got married at 38.
Just turned 40, and my first baby is on the way right now.
I've had fun, traveled the world, and done a lot of things.
But I'm finally ready to keep my legacy going.
I'm excited as shit for this new chapter.

 

[dtownsfinest]

I suspected he was not talking about women his age from the comment...

Well if he dating them young hoes at 51 then he got bigger issues. They brains fried for real.

 

[dtownsfinest]

That's not old-- It's right at where the statistical average has been! Maybe a little younger even if it was in the last 20 years or so.

Well let me say that's my first. I had two boys during the epidemic in my 30's so I'm more so talking about them.

And I say OLDER because I grew up with kids having kids.

I was just thinking about it the other day with my boys I got a homeboy who he sent off to college I'm like shit man....All them teen parents kids is 20 now.

IF I gave advice to people though I'd say wait until your 30's and enjoy them 20's. By the time you 30 you don't even really care about that club shit no more you burnt out on it by then.

 

[Flawless]

You’re supposed to. The idea of loving your children is a recent phenomenon. The idea of loving your wife is a recent phenomenon.

What does this mean?

 

[dtownsfinest]

Got married at 38.
Just turned 40, and my first baby is on the way right now.
I've had fun, traveled the world, and done a lot of things.
But I'm finally ready to keep my legacy going.
I'm excited as shit for this new chapter.

Congrats. Lowkey this is probably the right way to do it. Society gonna tell you this and that. Have kids and a family when you ready if it's 30 or 40 fuck it. Society not gonna tell me when I should or shouldn't be ready.

Fatherhood is fun as hell. I say that because nobody never told me. My parents use to act like I Got on they nerves and I did but no one never sat me down and told me "You know what? Fatherhood" is fun. But I think I found out you only hear that shit from your boys or your friends. Parents ain't gonna tell you that shit.

But enjoy that shit bro. It's gonna come a time your kid or kids gonna get on your nerves. Probably will happen soon as they are born when they have you up at 2 in the morning..........then it's gonna be a moment....not long after that's gonna remind you why you did it and why its all worth it.

And take all the pictures in the world you got the space on your phone and the cloud.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

What does this mean?

You were sold an idea that has no basis in human history. But go ahead and seek it.

 

[Flawless]

You were sold an idea that has no basis in human history. But go ahead and seek it.

SInce we are at it, not owning slaves is a recent phenom as well. We need to get rid of this sheepish mentality right?

 

[jimmiewine]

I’m about to be 50 in February and I have no kids. Was married for 17 years and we traveled the world, had fun, and enjoyed life. Sometimes I do wish I had a kid but I am enjoying life and having a good time.

And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

 

[kidmegaii]

It's mangu & my johnson, pause. However; I feel like an old dog in a yard with that invisible fence shit around their neck. I front like any minute I'm out this bitch, but we all know that I'm not going anywhere. Outside is painful for real

Living in a Swedish prison, which basically a full furnished studio apartment lol. My man is living an episode of twilight zone where it's an happy ending. Enjoy the life sentence.

I went from a, Chinese prison labor camp to Guatemala prison. I pray I make to the humiliating thai prison where your forced to dance to micheal jackson music.

 

[peterlongshort]

Finding a really good spouse is luck, blessings, and destiny. It ain't meant to happen for everybody.

Amen brotha.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

SInce we are at it, not owning slaves is a recent phenom as well. We need to get rid of this sheepish mentality right?

There are various forms of slavery happening right now.

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

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[smoovejazz]

As I've said before, I sometimes get depressed about not having kids at my age...

...but when I think about the women I was with that I could've had kids with, that depression goes away with the quickness. I have to look to the sky and say, "Good looking out, God. Thanks."

 

[Yahweh]

As I've said before, I sometimes get depressed about not having kids at my age...

...but when I think about the women I was with that I could've had kids with, that depression goes away with the quickness. I have to look to the sky and say, "Good looking out, God. Thanks."

Bet.

 

[Mr. Met]

So they’re going to roast KD but not Aaron Rodgers?

BTW, how many kids does Diddy or Dwight Howard have?

 

[BGLR1212000]

So they’re going to roast KD but not Aaron Rodgers?

BTW, how many kids does Diddy or Dwight Howard have?

Without going to Google, Dwight got bout 8 kids. Diddy has 4 or 5 biological kids I believe.

 

[Gods_Debris]

Your 40's is pressure. You can either look like your in your 30's or 60's. Good luck

This my story. Had my oldest at 19, Started over at 39 and had 3 more.

I got a kid I'm 40 and I look like I could be a senior in highschool

 

[Complex]

Without going to Google, Dwight got bout 8 kids. Diddy has 4 or 5 biological kids I believe.

He has more than that. He has about three or four young ones. I noticed that during the passport shit.

 

[Mr. Met]

Without going to Google, Dwight got bout 8 kids. Diddy has 4 or 5 biological kids I believe.

The point is people are taking shots at his manhood for not having kids while Dwight and Diddy are gay as hell and got a gang of kids.

 

[kdogg3270]

this dude can eat a fat dick

 

[BGLR1212000]

The point is people are taking shots at his manhood for not having kids while Dwight and Diddy are gay as hell and got a gang of kids.

There's something innately masculine about having kids. It's kinda what we were put here to do. Now if you're a deadbeat, there's nothing masculine about that at all. If child support and baby mothers weren't so crazy, some childless folks would probably have kids.