Money Debate: Is 400 K per year considered middle class income by today's standards?

The Catcher In The Rye

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Give me 400k and I’ll be living magnificent
For how long, though?

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TENT

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400k in NYC as a single person is amazing.
If you are frugal and not flashy I might say you are rich. Add a kid and wife. You living ok but it is paycheck to paycheck.
 

VAiz4hustlaz

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What you need? 500k?

No. This is bullshit: “Add a kid and wife. You living ok but it is paycheck to paycheck.

<<<The AMI for all cities across the country is defined each year by U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD). The 2022 AMI for the New York City region is $120,100 for a three-person family (100% AMI).>>>


To get into the top 5%, a household income over $250,000 is needed. According to the New York City Independent Budget Office 2019 income tax data (the latest information I can find on NYC income), cracking the top 1% requires over $800,000 of income ($804,297).

 

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No. This is bullshit: “Add a kid and wife. You living ok but it is paycheck to paycheck.

<<<The AMI for all cities across the country is defined each year by U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD). The 2022 AMI for the New York City region is $120,100 for a three-person family (100% AMI).>>>


To get into the top 5%, a household income over $250,000 is needed. According to the New York City Independent Budget Office 2019 income tax data (the latest information I can find on NYC income), cracking the top 1% requires over $800,000 of income ($804,297).

Ok but thats an average - that means the 50k thats ppl get in Mississippi or Iowa or Montana mite be good there


Again for NY take home 400k you're doing well but take home 400k is different from 400k BEFORE TAXES

Those are two VERY different economic earning classes in NYC ....

That dynamic is not gonna be the same in some flyover city like Nashville or Arlington - but in LA or SF or DC you earning 400k is no where near like taking HOME 400k
 

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The fact that you are quoting me what average people do and percentages already shows me you aren't ready for a real convo.

You just want to be right.

So ok bro you are right!!!!!!

You got it bro! You got it.



No. This is bullshit: “Add a kid and wife. You living ok but it is paycheck to paycheck.

<<<The AMI for all cities across the country is defined each year by U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD). The 2022 AMI for the New York City region is $120,100 for a three-person family (100% AMI).>>>


To get into the top 5%, a household income over $250,000 is needed. According to the New York City Independent Budget Office 2019 income tax data (the latest information I can find on NYC income), cracking the top 1% requires over $800,000 of income ($804,297).

 

TENT

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Anyways.
In NYC you make a good amount of money and you have a wife and a kid or more than one kid this is what is going to happen:
1. You will need a nice home in a good community
2. Wife will not want to work.
3. Kids will need good schools
4. Kids AND wife will want fly shit.
5. You wil want fly shit.

All that will have you living pay check to pay check.

Private school is like 20k a year and up.
Vacations!
Cars!
Wives purses cost 5k minimum!!
 

tallblacknyc

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Anyways.
In NYC you make a good amount of money and you have a wife and a kid or more than one kid this is what is going to happen:
1. You will need a nice home in a good community
2. Wife will not want to work.
3. Kids will need good schools
4. Kids AND wife will want fly shit.
5. You wil want fly shit.

All that will have you living pay check to pay check.

Private school is like 20k a year and up.
Vacations!
Cars!
Wives purses cost 5k minimum!!
This is where you messed up at, I have the perfect group of young dudes that are in their late 20s to early 30s who pretty much are in the boat of several hundred thousand a yr

Pretty much All them dudes drive Hondas, Toyota, infinity, or something that’s not crazy expensive

All their main chicks got careers. No living free or being useless weight in their circle. Your chick should be an access not a burden

There’s plenty of nice public schools with great academic programs and resources throughout the city if you know you know. Do your research

They definitely be running out the country various times a yr and some got other cribs in diff states

As far as cribs.. condos, duplex, etc their money affords them access to diff situations

A couple have kids

None live pay check to pay check
 

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Ok. As soon as I saw Honda, I stopped reading.
Respect but we aint talking the same language.
Now I see why you don't get what I am saying.
I have been talking about living and exceptional life in NYC.

Not some average shit.

A chick with a career aint got type to look fly.

Kids of a baller aint going to public school homes.

What you look like pulling up in a crazy foreign living in a dope building and your kids go to school with regular people kids?



This is where you messed up at, I have the perfect group of young dudes that are in their late 20s to early 30s who pretty much are in the boat of several hundred thousand a yr

Pretty much All them dudes drive Hondas, Toyota, infinity, or something that’s not crazy expensive

All their main chicks got careers. No living free or being useless weight in their circle. Your chick should be an access not a burden

There’s plenty of nice public schools with great academic programs and resources throughout the city if you know you know. Do your research

They definitely be running out the country various times a yr and some got other cribs in diff states

As far as cribs.. condos, duplex, etc their money affords them access to diff situations

A couple have kids

None live pay check to pay check
 

shonuff

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This is where you messed up at, I have the perfect group of young dudes that are in their late 20s to early 30s who pretty much are in the boat of several hundred thousand a yr

Pretty much All them dudes drive Hondas, Toyota, infinity, or something that’s not crazy expensive

All their main chicks got careers. No living free or being useless weight in their circle. Your chick should be an access not a burden

There’s plenty of nice public schools with great academic programs and resources throughout the city if you know you know. Do your research

They definitely be running out the country various times a yr and some got other cribs in diff states

As far as cribs.. condos, duplex, etc their money affords them access to diff situations

A couple have kids

None live pay check to pay check
But they single .

The key phrase here is a FAMILY

And again earning 400k and taking HOME 400K are two DIFFERENT things

You earn 400K you mite take HOME 200k which in NYC is not a lot of cash if you live and run in middle class circles- not that great but not that bad

You can take home 200k for a family and live as i said -

but a divorce will crush you with just ONE kid ( your child support will be about 30k for two at that income.level you're losing about 40k ) if you have a ok apt at 2000 a month that 24 k - a car costs a lot plus expenses to.keep it - and God help.you if you trying to save for retirement or college for you kids becuase all that is about 40k min ( a 401k would allow you to offset max about 25k )

So off just taking home that 200k you already down almost a 100k and thats before you get into regular shit expenses for yourself and your kids

If you're CLEARING 400K you are earning way more than that 400k and your circle and strata of ppl are completely and totally on another scale
 

tallblacknyc

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Ok. As soon as I saw Honda, I stopped reading.
Respect but we aint talking the same language.
Now I see why you don't get what I am saying.
I have been talking about living and exceptional life in NYC.

Not some average shit.

A chick with a career aint got type to look fly.

Kids of a baller aint going to public school homes.

What you look like pulling up in a crazy foreign living in a dope building and your kids go to school with regular people kids?
You not even from the 5 boroughs or from Manhattan so you don’t even know what you’re talking about. One of my aunts and her husband literally are millionaires. They’ve been millionaires for decades. They own several brownstones as well as other real estate, plus both use to work for the board of Ed making 6 figs b4 they decided to retire. They lived in a brownstone since early 90s. My older cousin aka her son always went to public school even though they could afford private for him. My aunt and husband never owned a car that cost more than 35,000 dollars, my cousin never owned a whip that cost 40,000. My older cousin brought a brownstone himself and had it for over a decade b4 he sold it for more than 2 and a half million dollars. Then he brought other rental property. He also worked for the feds making 6 figs a yr. His bank account got 6 zeros plus another number in the beginning. His mother account is even larger. He owns property in multiple states and has 2 kids and guess what they both in public school. Why cause there’s a bunch of public schools with great programs if you do your research. In fact there’s public schools that’s connected to all kinds of fields like medical , engineering, etc that put you into programs if your grades are good that connect you to great colleges, certain careers, open doors for you life after highschool. If you actually grew up in the 5 borough’s you would know all about this but you didn’t. You really think every millionaire owns a 6 fig car or splurge on dumbshit, no some actually don’t. As I said b4 on here many times a lot of millionaires actually like to move around in silence cause they don’t want all that attention or the wrong people around them. You do know being rich actually attract a lot of haters, con artist, thieves/robbers don’t you? Why you want to give them bait? Like I tell people if you destroyed the idiot box most nigs wouldn’t even know what a millionaire was cause they don’t know lot of these people in person. All they know is celebs on tv
 

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Nothing wrong with that you said bro. I agree actually.

However that is not what I am talking about. We talking about two different things.

You talking about living frugally.

I am talking about living in NYC and balling. I have always said that. Balling!!!

400k with a family is paycheck to psych check in NYC.

How much is a bottle of champagne these days?
You not even from the 5 boroughs or from Manhattan so you don’t even know what you’re talking about. One of my aunts and her husband literally are millionaires. They’ve been millionaires for decades. They own several brownstones as well as other real estate, plus both use to work for the board of Ed making 6 figs b4 they decided to retire. They lived in a brownstone since early 90s. My older cousin aka her son always went to public school even though they could afford private for him. My aunt and husband never owned a car that cost more than 35,000 dollars, my cousin never owned a whip that cost 40,000. My older cousin brought a brownstone himself and had it for over a decade b4 he sold it for more than 2 and a half million dollars. Then he brought other rental property. He also worked for the feds making 6 figs a yr. His bank account got 6 zeros plus another number in the beginning. His mother account is even larger. He owns property in multiple states and has 2 kids and guess what they both in public school. Why cause there’s a bunch of public schools with great programs if you do your research. In fact there’s public schools that’s connected to all kinds of fields like medical , engineering, etc that put you into programs if your grades are good that connect you to great colleges, certain careers, open doors for you life after highschool. If you actually grew up in the 5 borough’s you would know all about this but you didn’t. You really think every millionaire owns a 6 fig car or splurge on dumbshit, no some actually don’t. As I said b4 on here many times a lot of millionaires actually like to move around in silence cause they don’t want all that attention or the wrong people around them. You do know being rich actually attract a lot of haters, con artist, thieves/robbers don’t you? Why you want to give them bait? Like I tell people if you destroyed the idiot box most nigs wouldn’t even know what a millionaire was cause they don’t know lot of these people in person. All they know is celebs on tv
 

tallblacknyc

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Nothing wrong with that you said bro. I agree actually.

However that is not what I am talking about. We talking about two different things.

You talking about living frugally.

I am talking about living in NYC and balling. I have always said that. Balling!!!

400k with a family is paycheck to psych check in NYC.

How much is a bottle of champagne these days?
Wholesale you probably can get a bottle of Moët rose for $60 the rich rose is a lil more.. you do know they said Costco was basically made for the upper middle class right? Wholesale aka saving money by buying in bulk.. these wholesale liq stores a baller would buy his liquor for the cheap or buy cases and see if there’s a case discount.. kinda like a baller dosent have to go to a club he brings the club to him. So you would get a rental hall and invite people and charge them for the exclusivity meanwhile you save and make money while literAlly controlling the environment


My young boys do shit like this from time to time. Or run to the wholesale food places and buy food in bulk and throw bbqs and then invite a bunch of chicks, people to come out to the exclusive gathering. You got the liqs on wholesale and they come to me just in case they need liq after dark
 

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Ok. As soon as I saw Honda, I stopped reading.
Respect but we aint talking the same language.
Now I see why you don't get what I am saying.
I have been talking about living and exceptional life in NYC.

Not some average shit.

A chick with a career aint got type to look fly.

Kids of a baller aint going to public school homes.

What you look like pulling up in a crazy foreign living in a dope building and your kids go to school with regular people kids?

This is some broke mindset, many wealthy people send their kid to public school.
 

TENT

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Sure they do. What is the neighborhood worth though? You know how much more they pay in taxes?

There is no wealthy person sending their kid to a hood public school. So I don’t know what you talking about if that is what you mean.

Everything costs and there is a premium for nice public schools.
This is some broke mindset, many wealthy people send their kid to public school.
 

TENT

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Of course. You are right on the below.

I am talking about a bottle in the club.

We talking about 2 different types of people.

I am not talking about renting out a hall.

I am talking about renting out Nobu!!!
Wholesale you probably can get a bottle of Moët rose for $60 the rich rose is a lil more.. you do know they said Costco was basically made for the upper middle class right? Wholesale aka saving money by buying in bulk.. these wholesale liq stores a baller would buy his liquor for the cheap or buy cases and see if there’s a case discount.. kinda like a baller dosent have to go to a club he brings the club to him. So you would get a rental hall and invite people and charge them for the exclusivity meanwhile you save and make money while literAlly controlling the environment


My young boys do shit like this from time to time. Or run to the wholesale food places and buy food in bulk and throw bbqs and then invite a bunch of chicks, people to come out to the exclusive gathering. You got the liqs on wholesale and they come to me just in case they need liq after dark
 

tallblacknyc

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Of course. You are right on the below.

I am talking about a bottle in the club.

We talking about 2 different types of people.

I am not talking about renting out a hall.

I am talking about renting out Nobu!!!
You talking about dumb balling vs smart balling… if I spend over a thousand for food and liqs and throw a bbq in a park or backyard or private area outside that can fit hundreds of people that is still balling . Than there’s the dummy that will spend over a thousand for a bottle that he could buy for under $200 at a liquor warehouse.. if I sold everyone a bottle of water in the street for a dollar than walk up to somebody and said you have to pay $20 for the same bottle I’m charging everybody else a $1. A smart baller would say get the fuck out my face a dumb baller would pay for it
 

tallblacknyc

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Of course. You are right on the below.

I am talking about a bottle in the club.

We talking about 2 different types of people.

I am not talking about renting out a hall.

I am talking about renting out Nobu!!!
Also here’s a lil secret some nigs buy bottles b4 they get to the club and depending on their pull , they either slide the bottles in the spot in there for free or pay the bouncer a few dollars to slide the bottles in the spots. It’s a lot of behind the scenes shit nigs don’t be knowing. I know about that bottle shit cause I know a lot of nigs that done came to me to get cases of certain bottles cause they were bout to go to certain big spots and sneak those bottles in. Been going on for yrs, even some celebs and athletes do it
 

tallblacknyc

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Of course. You are right on the below.

I am talking about a bottle in the club.

We talking about 2 different types of people.

I am not talking about renting out a hall.

I am talking about renting out Nobu!!!
Here’s another thing . You like being around sausages ( aka nigs)? The reason why you would rent out your own location is cause you can minimize the sausage to pussy ratio by only inviting certain nigs you roll/cool with and invite mad chicks. In a random club you gonna be in there with a bunch of other nigs that you don’t know , which increase the sausage to pussy ratio. You don’t want that, you always want less dudes way more pussy. Smart balling understands this and understands controlling environment and likes exclusivity
 

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Here’s another thing . You like being around sausages ( aka nigs)? The reason why you would rent out your own location is cause you can minimize the sausage to pussy ratio by only inviting certain nigs you roll/cool with and invite mad chicks. In a random club you gonna be in there with a bunch of other nigs that you don’t know , which increase the sausage to pussy ratio. You don’t want that, you always want less dudes way more pussy. Smart balling understands this and understands controlling environment and likes exclusivity


haha bro maybe that works in ATL or TX or maybe even Jersey

but you arent throwing a BBQ in a park in NYC with bottles of Liquor and dozens of people

and you arent renting a club in NYC - ( IE Manhattan or maybe Downtown BK ) thats not gonna cost you some major money ....and people who take home 400K arent fucking with anyplace other than lower Manhattan ( below 59th St ) or Brooklyn ( near Williamsburg / Greenpoint ) but thats YOUNG poeple doing that - i dont know any married or in the familyway - parents that are earning even 400K that are going to clubs and BBQs unless its something REALLY special.

and lastly - in the neighborhoods where you take home 400K - youre kids arent going to a regular public school ...

you can see even in manhattan in even well off rich neighborhoods that most of the kids in the public schools are from other poorer neighborhoods or "working class" neighborhoods ( ie they travel from someplace shitty to a school thats less shitty )

so you seems to revert to single persons and what single persons do - on that salery - 400K take home.... not earned.
 

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The problem is that most of you guys that ballling means quality lifestyle or if you can’t waste money on bullshit you are struggling :smh:
 

tallblacknyc

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haha bro maybe that works in ATL or TX or maybe even Jersey

but you arent throwing a BBQ in a park in NYC with bottles of Liquor and dozens of people

and you arent renting a club in NYC - ( IE Manhattan or maybe Downtown BK ) thats not gonna cost you some major money ....and people who take home 400K arent fucking with anyplace other than lower Manhattan ( below 59th St ) or Brooklyn ( near Williamsburg / Greenpoint ) but thats YOUNG poeple doing that - i dont know any married or in the familyway - parents that are earning even 400K that are going to clubs and BBQs unless its something REALLY special.

and lastly - in the neighborhoods where you take home 400K - youre kids arent going to a regular public school ...

you can see even in manhattan in even well off rich neighborhoods that most of the kids in the public schools are from other poorer neighborhoods or "working class" neighborhoods ( ie they travel from someplace shitty to a school thats less shitty )

so you seems to revert to single persons and what single persons do - on that salery - 400K take home.... not earned.
Every yr we throw a bunch of bbqs in parks with liquor, even know a few areas you can rent that’s gated off from public. All through Covid till now this is what people been doing. Hell if you go all over Harlem and bx during summer it’s a bunch of people doing it. Hell the pier on 25th was doing this bigtime during covid

I said rental hall when it comes to throwing events. It’s lot of places you can rent out

You do know I throw parties for living so this is my expertise as far as renting spots, throwing private events, etc

Idk why you mentioning families when we were talking about comparing popping bottles in the club to throwing your own private event in a rental hall, rental place, air bnb, park, etc
 
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Every yr we throw a bunch of bbqs in parks with liquor, even know a few areas you can rent that’s gated off from public. All through Covid till now this is what people been doing. Hell if you go all over Harlem and bx during summer it’s a bunch of people doing it. Hell the pier on 25th was doing this bigtime during covid

I said rental hall when it comes to throwing events. It’s lot of places you can rent out

You do know I throw parties for living so this is my expertise as far as renting spots, throwing private events, etc

Idk why you mentioning families when we were talking about comparing popping bottles in the club to throwing your own private event in a rental hall, rental place, air bnb, park, etc
Well.the discussion is about a family being middle class if they earn 400k in NYC ( or a city similar ) and decidedly a family can earn 400k and yet be very much middle class if they live in NYC ...

In Tennessee or Iowa or Ohio or Montana or Arizona or Misissippi and places like them a family earning 400k is def upper middle class ..but in NYC or SF a family earning that amount of money is mid and it will be mid becuase the cost of living in NY SF DC and the like is pretty high - and someone earning 400k is going to do or want to do the shit that someone of means would want to do ...so living here its not a cake walk but its not a chore ...

Earning 400k is not the same as taking home 400k ....guys seem to confuse or conflate the two - they aren't. If you earn 400k you still have to es and life expenses and shit so your 400k will be more like 80 or maybe even a 100k

If you're clearing 400k after taxes then you are living pretty well in NYC becuase you're income is way above a person just EARNING 400K
 

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I know that. I would do that before the strip clubs. Get drunk before and leave all the money to the girls. Fun times.

“When I was close to the ledge I was up in the Wedge”
Also here’s a lil secret some nigs buy bottles b4 they get to the club and depending on their pull , they either slide the bottles in the spot in there for free or pay the bouncer a few dollars to slide the bottles in the spots. It’s a lot of behind the scenes shit nigs don’t be knowing. I know about that bottle shit cause I know a lot of nigs that done came to me to get cases of certain bottles cause they were bout to go to certain big spots and sneak those bottles in. Been going on for yrs, even some celebs and athletes do it
 

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Well.the discussion is about a family being middle class if they earn 400k in NYC ( or a city similar ) and decidedly a family can earn 400k and yet be very much middle class if they live in NYC ...

In Tennessee or Iowa or Ohio or Montana or Arizona or Misissippi and places like them a family earning 400k is def upper middle class ..but in NYC or SF a family earning that amount of money is mid and it will be mid becuase the cost of living in NY SF DC and the like is pretty high - and someone earning 400k is going to do or want to do the shit that someone of means would want to do ...so living here its not a cake walk but its not a chore ...

Earning 400k is not the same as taking home 400k ....guys seem to confuse or conflate the two - they aren't. If you earn 400k you still have to es and life expenses and shit so your 400k will be more like 80 or maybe even a 100k

If you're clearing 400k after taxes then you are living pretty well in NYC becuase you're income is way above a person just EARNING 400K
Cut the bullshit
 

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I can see it. Did 4 days down there for new years and the cameras tolls I got back last month were crazy. Just for riding the strip of I-4 around international down to the stadiums.
Why didn't you just buy a sunpass?
 
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