Unless you're the father, men should not be attending a baby shower. Fuck all that. That's a strictly women's thing. Men are supposed to do drop off and pick up after, along with getting a take-home plate of food.
That logic been changed.. your male family member / boy having a kid he have a baby shower you come through with money, presents, etc for your fam/ people new member to the world.. gathering for your fam, boys, excuse to get out chill, eat , drink.. if you single your fam/ boy babymama/ wife side gonna be there which includes some of her female friends and also some of her female family.. so possible pussy connections.. definitely pussy potential there… hell my female cousins would always have chicks at their baby showers and there definitely was connections there.. shittttt I could of fucked this bad ass Dominican chick who was engaged at one of my female cousin baby shower.. she was throwing the pussy at me so much, to the point she was literally riding me in a chair moaning during this dancehall song for whatever reason my dumbass morals kicked in cause she was engaged( all my cousins even female, uncles was mad at me for not taking that down) damnit you made me remember that fumble I did yrss ago… but yeah definitely lots of things changed