Great topic.
I don't have any children, but my mate does.
We both were into the arts as children. She was in the band and loves music.
I was in the band, drama, and a gotdamn bibliophile to boot.
The oldest of her sons really just might be a musical genius. ANY sound he hears, he can mimic it pitch perfect, no differentiation from the original sound to his sound.
He can dance like Michael Jackson and when he hears a song for the first time, it's damn near memorized by songs end.
Only problem is, he is completely aloof. Sh!t comes so natural to him, he doesn't even realize how it could change his life.
Now, his younger brother ain't even in kindergarten yet and already a hapless romantic. He plays the piano and the drums and sings ballads to the girl schoolmates at the pre-K school yard. Right now, John Legend's, All of Me is his jam.
The have both been to a puppetry arts center and the oldest just went to the Atlanta Symphony two weeks ago, so they are off to a pretty good start.
Oh, and the youngest likes to draw, and is such a good actor, I am getting his ass lessons this summer. He is not my blood kid, so I am not blinded by "that's my boy", but the ninja is a straight NATURAL. Can start/stop crying on a dime and already knows how to die in multiple situations.
Girls, yes. But boys, no. That kind of stuff will turn them gay.
Scientists especially need the arts for creativity.
I know that my exposure has allowed me to leapfrog my contemporaries in the sciences
So thinking it's on or the other is not good.
Back in the day Africans mastered the arts and science
A mofo would be an astronomer, surgeon, philosopher
These days, single career humans are the stupid way forward
Potential doesn't always immediately reveal itself. There are many careers opportunities in the arts besides being on stage or putting brush to canvas. Entertainment companies need lawyers, graphic designers, IT specialists and accountants just like any other business they aren't just limited to creative types. On the creative end of things, the arts also need more producers, curators and content developers from communities of color to keep pathways open for stories by communities of color.
A big part of parenting is reminding children to keep their minds open and to always be looking at the world as a place where they have many options to excel and express themselves. Taking the arts off the table removes a path that they can explore.
While I encourage my kids to follow the arts (music, theater, dance, etc) and make sure that they are exposed and knowledgeable, I do not encourage them to follow those things as a career. While they can make it their career if they choose, I will not be paying college tuition for them to study studio art or music or theater or any other artistic endeavor. Math, science or engineering will get me to open the wallet and my kids know that. They may not like that but, hey, life isn't fair.
If any of them have "the gift", trust me, you will at minimum consider shelling it over for them to do what they LOVE for a living.
I always take my 11yr old son to local art galleries. He's even painted some pictures and displayed them. People have actually purchased a few of them!! I also encourage him to play instruments as well. He plays the Violin, and Clarinet. Had no freakin clue how damn loud that Clarinet is by the way either.
Wife took him to the music store to get the Clarinet and he sits down and starts playing the Piano. Wife was life
Said he sounds good too. Told me he just watches the music teacher play in between breaks from the violin. Encourage your kids to get into as many positive and productive things as possible.
Man, ain't it something to see they little minds just develop. The sh!t is AMAZING!
damn I was looking on bringing the kids to see The Lion King on Broadway...
tix START at around $116
Then you better be prepared to build a lap stack in one seat and tell everybody to lean in opposite directions so all of you can see.