It sounds good on paper but it is not realistic. Male and Female energy is different. I see the two parts as more integrally complimentary than equal.
Poverty moves to the suburbs
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It sounds good on paper but it is not realistic. Male and Female energy is different. I see the two parts as more integrally complimentary than equal.
What in the hell are you talking about?!? Some weak, petty-azz niggas on this board.
Not only am I a dominant personality, I like to see how far I can go with sistas. They pussies get wet when they encounter a strong Black man.
I ended up marrying the only woman I've ever encountered who made more $$$ than me. And while it was initially hard for her, she's grown to appreciate my type A personality. Shit, she even likes the fact that I manage the household finances...she barely remembers when she gets paid anymore!
But there is a caveat...you have to have your shit together at least as much as they do. Otherwise, they can see its all an act.
Brothas...man up!
How is stoping toxic masculinity not realistic? Or rape culture?
If women were physically as strong as men.....because men stronger physically women are stronger mentally
I should've been more specific. I agree you about respecting females and what they offer. However I don't agree that true equality can truly exist. It does not exist in nature. I accept the fact that there are things that men are made for and excel at and there are things that women are made for and excel at.
With that said I know you was responding to another poster for their comments, but let's save it for another thread. Let's keep the focus on the topic.
I'mma keep it real.....Them cac can't find the job security they once were guaranteed to have once they finish college so they are looking for a cheaper way of living and the biggest cost of living in the suburbs are the higher taxes,the over priced homes,the shopping,ect... and to avoid them they have to move back to neighborhoods and area's they once lived in in the urban area's.While on the flipside some black's whole aspiration is to "move on up to that deluxe apartment in the sky..." which in their minds are the suburbs where it's safer,better for this and that and all types of excuses that they've been fed and continue to regurgitate to any and all that will listen.
The truth is that most really can't afford to live in the suburbs,they take out loans,beg peter to pay Paul,barely make ends meet and there's a lot of subsidizing housing going on out there in those area's and usually when something goes on criminal those apartments,section 8 houses,trailor parks,run down area's get the blame,some of it is true those are small pockets of nothing but trouble but one thing that get's over looked is the people who usually quick to do the finger pointing are the people related to the one's doing most of the crimes in those area's,it's their kids,grandkids,great grands .
Not to focus on the bullshit we already know,what we as black people need to do is find the value in our own area's in urban america before they come in and push you out again unwillingly and especially the black middle,you niggas have to get off of you're high horse turn that expensive car back in,sell off your prized material items and reinvest into your community or some black community that you see and know is changing so you can be ahead of that curve when that "change does come".
Don't fall for the hype,it's something we know is happening across the country in our communities and why shouldn't you,your family,and future family benefit from it?You grew up there when they moved out and abandoned it,generations later they want back in? well it's going to cost them,a whole lot of a little bit of nothing.
The number 1 populated area of section 8 users in ny and is in bk are jews lots of them are men
Them Hasidic Jews are the #1 scammers of Government benefits of any group in this country
You right. Some of you niggas are very matriarchal in your thinking. You grew up around women your whole lives and have been programmed to see black men as "hopeless". And most of you bitch niggas will talk shit about black men on this board all day long no problem, but the second one holds black women to a standard you start sassing and finger snapping like a bitch.
You're woman makes more than you so really brother, you need to "man" up. Sounds like she got you on a leash. Evaluate your life. I was raised by my dad and uncles to create my own and not depend on a woman. Your mom taught you otherwise I see.
Broke niggas like you that hide behind women and expect them to always lead are part of whats wrong with our community.You right. Some of you niggas are very matriarchal in your thinking. You grew up around women your whole lives and have been programmed to see black men as "hopeless". And most of you bitch niggas will talk shit about black men on this board all day long no problem, but the second one holds black women to a standard you start sassing and finger snapping like a bitch.
You're woman makes more than you so really brother, you need to "man" up. Sounds like she got you on a leash. Evaluate your life. I was raised by my dad and uncles to create my own and not depend on a woman. Your mom taught you otherwise I see.
I see you're bone of these bitch-ass niggas who evaluate their manhood on the $$$ they make. I can pretty much guarantee that I make more than you, Sparky. The IT field has been very good to me...
(In my trump voice) "Sad"
Mormon Fundamentalist Polygamist out here in the West ranks up there with the Hasidic Jews on the East Coast.
There excuse is the US Govt is evil, so the Govt money they receive is legit being they are “stealing” it from Satan.
I don't want to derail a thread, but are you HERE to win hearts and minds on THIS board?
You sound like Jaques from the Grapevine.
Lol @ niggas arguin' over their finances. "I make more than you".