I’m mid 40s eat above average and workout above average and financially stable. My Lady is 51 gorgeous personality beautiful chocolate face and making more money than she’s made in her entire life, base salary is 150k and we live in the Midwest. My sons love her and family does as well. She’s gained 25 lbs and stopped working out as much, I’ve been supportive and sent her pics of herself and told her I’m a big fan of her, I’m in it for the long haul but she knows being obese is a deal breaker for me. We had the conversation of if we were to break up I’m sure she would hit the gym and her lack of discipline is effecting my attraction to her.
I’m paranoid of how she will revert back to this laziness if we were to get married.
What can I do or what advice do y’all have ?
I’m paranoid of how she will revert back to this laziness if we were to get married.
What can I do or what advice do y’all have ?
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