Nobody can you tell you how to go about mourning....dealing with death ...a loss of a loved one. A good friend of mine died...and I couldn't bear going to his funeral...because alot of us grew up believing shedding tears is a sign of weakness!! I'm one of them!!!
I'm someone who doesn't attend funerals. I usually go in real quick to see the deceased, say my goodbyes and either leave all together or I'll wait outside.
My grandmother passed last fall and a few of us did just that and waited respectfully outside.
However that is different than what someone like Game is doing with the Instagram internet bullshit.
While everyone has the right to grieve in their own way I couldn't respect duke doing all that internet shit and then being ghost for his service (although I've never had much respect for him anyway.)