So now BGOL can be trolled behind posters posing as “females”?

[gene cisco]

I understand and agree...
But if I can' treat EntreFATnegro like shit I should be able theat Ester the same.

You All should have expected everyone to flip out creating a safe place for non existent members when the dudes that put this bitch on their backs get told to STFU.

You should know I'm the biggest fan of black women, but with out an established code of.conducr for women, this shit can easily spiral put of.control

Dudes with a 20yr history will get banned for a 15 day member, of they feel harassed

It's the new Internet man. That's the bottom line. Society isn't built for BGOL these days. Creating a safe space for women is the only way to attract new members. Being an online barbershop with the ultimate level of shit talking is probably even too harsh for what passes as young men these days. Folks just used to a different Internet.

Grown men run away from this board and join ecoli just to feel safe. There are threads on other forums about how brutal this place is. And that's from supposed men.

Shit, if this board lasts another 10 years it will probably be a way different board than this one. At the pace society is going, the last thing you would want to be outed for is owning and operating a transphobic message board.

 

[Camille]

So , you're the handler . T he mouthpiece to verbally control the masses . Y ou have stated " we must be grown enough to have learned how to speak to a woman..... ya'll over reacting....hold up!!!!! It just dawned on me...LOL ! That tone of authority, while you speak , HNIC is silent , both speaking the same mantra...........YA'LL FUCKING !!!

No. I'm not the handler. I hadn't seen the PM until it was posted. I just think that this was going to blow up into something bigger than it actually is. It's not like we are going to get an influx of members all at once, or that the old members will be mistreated. New members aren't better, they are only necessary to keep the board viable. If you like I'll gladly exit this thread and let you all debate amongst yourselves.

 

[ThaBurgerPimp]

Can there at least be a "Introduction" thread where new users post confirmation pics..? The"holding up a sign saying #new member" should work here

 

[Camille]

She’s been sent as the canary in the coal mine.

LOL. Y'all see conspiracy everywhere. I'm out unless I get quoted again.

 

[Sampson]

Can there at least be a "Introduction" thread where new users post confirmation pics..? The"holding up a sign saying #new member" should work here

You can’t even get alleged black members of this forum to post a hand shot. Good luck with that.

 

[Ill Paragraph]

Peace,

Ok soooo, if this was a white organization and we wanted to get more black members, would it be pandering to say you can't harass the black folks, make racist jokes, or tell black people to go back to Africa? Or would it be wanting to make the environment more welcoming to black people so they stick around, and bring more black folks to increase diversity? Would it be seen as infringing on the rights of white people that they can't be obnoxious to black folks? HNIC is trying to make the board more diverse, and increase membership and traffic. Women are underrepresented. IMO, it's not pandering to make the environment less hostile to women.

Are we continuing this sorry practice of comparing black men to white racists? BGOL is the Jim Crow South now? Come on, Sis. You’re better than this.

And can we be honest with ourselves and admit that this board was created to appeal to black men, and that women’s presence here is purely incidental? As much as I love you, Camille, I’m not on here for you or any other woman. I save that for my real life. Like most cats, I’m on here to talk shit, get the scoop on stuff and look at some titties every now and again.

 

[Sampson]

LOL. Y'all see conspiracy everywhere. I'm out unless I get quoted again.

Not a conspiracy, I’m just saying there’s got to be a representative when HNIC isn’t online deflecting. It’s all good, do your thing.

 

[EGO-TRIP]

LOL. Y'all see conspiracy everywhere. I'm out unless I get quoted again.

how well you know HNIC ?

 

[Camille]

What the fuck are you talking about? bgol always had one rule; Anything Goes. That's what this was based off of. Nobody got protection. This shit was never built for the weak. That's the exact reason why it became so popular. Look at you you never typed this much ever and now you got a little bit of power and you're making dozens of posts. But I digress

You realize I've been a mod for a few years now, right? I'm not sure about coco, but the other women years longer than I. This is also not the first board I've been a mod on. If you think this is me typing a lot, you haven't been paying attention.

 

[gene cisco]

no...just stop

What did I just read? That shit ain't even in the same universe as the things SOME members are bringing up. Racial comparisons? Seriously?

 

[Sampson]

Peace,



Are we continuing this sorry practice of comparing black men to white racists? BGOL is the Jim Crow South now? Come on, Sis. You’re better than this.

And can we be honest with ourselves and admit that this board was created to appeal to black men, and that women’s presence here is purely incidental? As much as I love you, Camille, I’m not on here for you or any other woman. I save that for my real life. Like most cats, I’m on here to talk shit, get the scoop on stuff and look at some titties every now and again.

This whole situation is akin to NFL Pink October... why try and appeal to a small demographic of the patrons?

And where are these so called posters who PM’d HNIC saying this was a good idea? They’re mighty quiet right now.

 

[alexw]

This whole situation is akin to NFL Pink October... why try and appeal to a small demographic of the patrons?

And where are these so called posters who PM’s HNIC saying this was a good idea? They’re mighty quiet right now.

He clearly made that shit up

 

[Camille]

Peace,



Are we continuing this sorry practice of comparing black men to white racists? BGOL is the Jim Crow South now? Come on, Sis. You’re better than this.

And can we be honest with ourselves and admit that this board was created to appeal to black men, and that women’s presence here is purely incidental? As much as I love you, Camille, I’m not on here for you or any other woman. I save that for my real life. Like most cats, I’m on here to talk shit, get the scoop on stuff and look at some titties every now and again.

No, I'm not making that comparison, I was just trying to come up with an example people could relate to. Women in and of itself isn't the goal, new membership in general is, however, since there is a history of poor treatment specifically regarding women, that is what is being addressed.

 

[alexw]

You realize I've been a mod for a few years now, right? I'm not sure about coco, but the other women years longer than I. This is also not the first board I've been a mod on. If you think this is me typing a lot, you haven't been paying attention.

Not to be disrespectful even though you know I don't give a shit but that's exactly my point. What have you offered bgol? Why are you even a moderator? I see if you was a porn chick or a chick that drop nudes but who are you and why were you elevated. These rules would only make sense if they protected the chicks that posted pussy.

 

[Ill Paragraph]

Peace,

And where are these so called posters who PM’d HNIC saying this was a good idea? They’re mighty quiet right now.

Come on, bruh. The only PMs he got were from cats asking for their goddamned money back.

 

[Camille]

how well you know HNIC ?

I don't know him well at all. I don't think he would be willing to piss off his paid membership and stress everyone out if there was another way to go about things.

 

[Sampson]

Not to be disrespectful even though you know I don't give a shit but that's exactly my point. What have you offered bgol? Why are you even a moderator? I see if you was a porn chick or a chick that drop nudes but who are you and why were you elevated. These rules would only make sense if they protected the chicks that posted pussy.

Reported.

 

[Camille]

Not to be disrespectful even though you know I don't give a shit but that's exactly my point. What have you offered bgol? Why are you even a moderator? I see if you was a porn chick or a chick that drop nudes but who are you and why were you elevated. These rules would only make sense if they're protected the chicks that posted pussy.

Sorry you feel this way. I'm no one of significance. I offer absolutely nothing.

 

[daddyfatsacks9000]

Not to be disrespectful even though you know I don't give a shit but that's exactly my point. What have you offered bgol? Why are you even a moderator? I see if you was a porn chick or a chick that drop nudes but who are you and why were you elevated. These rules would only make sense if they protected the chicks that posted pussy.

Reported.

 

[alexw]

Sorry, you feel this way. I'm no one of significance. I offer absolutely nothing.

I agree shit

 

[alexw]

I remember the days where he made moderators from people who posted Hot Fire. I mean these dudes npo used to put in work. Now all you need is a vagina. And the sister already admitted that she's never even prove that she was a woman which used to be a major bgol rule.

 

[Capo]

So what's the problem? It's not like we can't see both side of an exchange in a thread. This isn't a get out of jail free card for women. It's simply asking y'all to let go easy on the newbies.

I get that, but it would be better if someone defined what is cool and what isn't. It seems like some guys are reading this to say that you can't disagree with a woman poster. I dont think that's what he meant with the new rules, but because the email was so vague, it can be interpreted that way. I think a little clarity would calm everyone down.

 

[Ill Paragraph]

Peace,

No, I'm not making that comparison, I was just trying to come up with an example people could relate to. Women in and of itself isn't the goal, new membership in general is, however, since there is a history of poor treatment specifically regarding women, that is what is being addressed.

Here’s something that you all NEVER acknowledge: most cats on here bomb on dudes who attack black women.

What HNIC is doing is akin to subjecting the board to an aggressive round of chemotherapy to remove a small tumor.

He’s also trying to have his cake and eat it too. If he really had a problem with women being chased off the board, he wouldn’t be selling t shirts with a mascot comprised of Femme’s breasts and belly.

 

[LSN]

Reported.

 

[EGO-TRIP]

I remember the days where he made moderators from people who posted Hot Fire. I mean these dudes npo used to put in work. Now all you need is a vagina. And the sister already admitted that she's never even prove that she was a woman which used to be a major bgol rule.

oooooohhhhh ! Nigga , you are soooo banned !

 

[Camille]

I get that, but it would be better if someone defined what is cool and what isn't. It seems like some guys are reading this to say that you can't disagree with a woman poster. I dont think that's what he meant with the new rules, but because the email was so vague, it can be interpreted that way. I think a little clarity would calm everyone down.

I agree. I think there is too much vagueness. I think most people are ok with boundaries if they know what they are. Hopefully we can get some clarification. It's not going to be a situation where someone can come at you, but you can't respond at all, it's the unnecessary personal attacks. There was a time I could be going back and forth with someone in a thread, and then suddenly a third party would come in and quote me, say something like STFU, go back to SOL etc. Unwarranted personal attacks, clowning people who post personal pics, etc. Is that really so hard to avoid that? We have the mother of all ignore features, if someone annoys you or you consider them suspect, put them on ignore.

 

[alexw]

oooooohhhhh ! Nigga , you are soooo banned !

Man that nigga banned me over blunt so it's highly possible but I don't give a shit

 

[Cross]

BGOL is gentrifying

 

[Camille]

Peace,



Here’s something that you all NEVER acknowledge: most cats on here bomb on dudes who attack black women.

What HNIC is doing is akin to subjecting the board to an aggressive round of chemotherapy to remove a small tumor.

He’s also trying to have his cake and eat it too. If he really had a problem with women being chased off the board, he wouldn’t be selling t shirts with a mascot comprised of Femme’s breasts and belly.

I have to respectfully disagree. Y'all might bomb on dudes who attack both men and women, like tots, but I think I've had one maybe two guys come to my defense when someone got out of pocket with me. Unless y'all handle that stuff in PM's I've never seen it, and I've had some horrible stuff said to me over the years.

 

[alexw]

There was a time I could be going back and forth with someone in a thread, and then suddenly a third party would come in and quote me, say something like STFU, go back to SOL etc. Unwarranted personal attacks, clowning people who post personal pics, etc. Is that really so hard to avoid that?

what the fuck that is classic bgol but because you're a woman you should be immune to that? It's like he's made mods out of people who don't understand the history of the board

 

[^SpiderMan^]

Peace,



Come on, bruh. The only PMs he got were from cats asking for their goddamned money back.

I PMed him about my bread and he said he needed my address but was going to bed.

 

[alexw]

I PMed him about my bread and he said he needed my address but was going to bed.

Lmao

 

[EGO-TRIP]

I agree. I think there is too much vagueness. I think most people are ok with boundaries if they know what they are. Hopefully we can get some clarification. It's not going to be a situation where someone can come at you, but you can't respond at all, it's the unnecessary personal attacks. There was a time I could be going back and forth with someone in a thread, and then suddenly a third party would come in and quote me, say something like STFU, go back to SOL etc. Unwarranted personal attacks, clowning people who post personal pics, etc. Is that really so hard to avoid that? We have the mother of all ignore features, if someone annoys you or you consider them suspect, put them on ignore.

I'm sorry . I just cant agree with the politically correct shit.sometimes folks say some dumb shit that make you want to get in that ass . If they wanted a safe space they can crawl under their bed.

 

[Camille]

what the fuck that is classic bgol but because you're a woman you should be immune to that? It's like he's made mods out of people who don't understand the history of the board

I get it. I'm still here. However, how many others have left?

 

[^SpiderMan^]

what the fuck that is classic bgol but because you're a woman you should be immune to that? It's like he's made mods out of people who don't understand the history of the board

Watch the tone of your voice young man. That's a lady you are speaking to. We don't behave that way around these parts!