Man I have this conversation with women ALL THE TIME! She wsnts a man that makes 6 figures but she's on the internet talking with an 8th grade English student. "I feel if I could approve myself"
They are financially irresponsible and want a man with money to cover for their lack of fiscal responsibility.
Plus there are plenty of men that have great careers that make less than 6 figures that don't need you to push them to be great.