True Story: Avoid White girls

[deeboj]

There are alot of threads about dating white girls and here comes my real life story why one should avoid them. It might be seen as generalizing but based on my current situation, I would not advice anyone to get in a serious relationship with a white girl.

I live in a European country and ever since I was teenager, i swore to never get serious with a white girl because my first love was a black girl and i never saw anything special with white them white girls. WIth my strong African cultural background, I always wanted to stick to my roots and saw no reason in getting involved with a white girl.

But all changed 4 yrs ago when this girl i had known at my work came back from her maternnity leave. Yes, she had a kid with a black guy who treated her like shit and left her alone with the child. My warning bells rang from the beginning to avoid this girl because of the drama she had with her baby dad and other personal issues. At the same time, i started seeing a black girl in a smiliar situation with two kids whos Baby Dad had taken off. With this girl, we come from he same countrya and speak the same launguage and basically understand each others. So they both wanted me and I had a choice to make.

The white girl had self-esteem issues and has been raised the white way and i saw many things that warned me not to get with her. Otherwise, she is a generous person with a good heart and what attracted me was her ideas, the way she got my back and agreed to venture with me in any business idea i came up with because what i like in a partner is someone who got your back and whom you can share ideas and achieve things together.

The black girl is a survivor and tough and had raised two kids by her own struggling to make ends meet. On top of that, she had no relative around to help her out while the white girl somes from a well off family. Anyways, i doubted many times to choose the white girl, somewhere i knew it would not work and that it was wrong. All the relationship i had ended before, i had taken good decisions and was happy with them. But this time around, i dont know what got into me. She was also good at selling herself, that she would do everything i want. she cooks, cleans and bascially i never needed to lift a finger. So those things attracted me in making my decision as well. Needless to say that the black girl would do thoes things as well.

To make my story shot, we bought a place together after 2 yrs and moved in and got a baby in our 3rd year. All this time, the black girl has been on me because to tell the truth, i belong with the black girl. We would have it much better and the relationship would be better off. I love her kids and felt very comfortable, something i did not do with the white girl's kid or in her company.


What i noticed with the white girl, when we get in a fight, the white chick becomes somebody else and start saying thing i never thought she would. She basically shows her evil white side. The black girl is straight and never holds anything back if there is an issue bothering her. But the white girl saves it up and waits until you get in an argument and everything will come up. So now I'm fed up and am drawing up a plan to leave her in a year or so since i have to think of our little baby. So my story is to avoid white girls at any cost, at least getting serious with them or getting babies with them. If i had to make a choice again, I would not choose a white girl. So learn from me.

The mistake i did was to base my decision that me and the white girl would have better life based on empty promises she was drawing up. I knew it was wrong but i went ahead and choose her. I guess I have to blame my wrong decision making. So any advice on the break up? I have to add that with her other kid, the white girl has really tried her best to get the Dad involved but he is not interested. She is trying to teach the kid the language and culutre of her kids Dad altought she doenst know much herself. So when it comes to kids, she is really down to let them know their fathers culture and language. She is even learning my language so that shows he devotion but i have made up my mind that I will leave her. And of course the black girl is very happy about that. I'm getting back to my roots.

 

[M3MD]

 

[DAYNE]

fuck black or white, you don't need to be messing with single mothers period bro

 

[bighurt2k7]

There are alot of threads about dating white girls and here comes my real life story why one should avoid them. It might be seen as generalizing but based on my current situation, I would not advice anyone to get in a serious relationship with a white girl.

I live in a European country and ever since I was teenager, i swore to never get serious with a white girl because my first love was a black girl and i never saw anything special with white them white girls. WIth my strong African cultural background, I always wanted to stick to my roots and saw no reason in getting involved with a white girl.

But all changed 4 yrs ago when this girl i had known at my work came back from her maternnity leave. Yes, she had a kid with a black guy who treated her like shit and left her alone with the child. My warning bells rang from the beginning to avoid this girl because of the drama she had with her baby dad and other personal issues. At the same time, i started seeing a black girl in a smiliar situation with two kids whos Baby Dad had taken off. With this girl, we come from he same countrya and speak the same launguage and basically understand each others. So they both wanted me and I had a choice to make.

The white girl had self-esteem issues and has been raised the white way and i saw many things that warned me not to get with her. Otherwise, she is a generous person with a good heart and what attracted me was her ideas, the way she got my back and agreed to venture with me in any business idea i came up with because what i like in a partner is someone who got your back and whom you can share ideas and achieve things together. Pick better quality women.

The black girl is a survivor and tough and had raised two kids by her own struggling to make ends meet. On top of that, she had no relative around to help her out while the white girl somes from a well off family. Anyways, i doubted many times to choose the white girl, somewhere i knew it would not work and that it was wrong. All the relationship i had ended before, i had taken good decisions and was happy with them. But this time around, i dont know what got into me. She was also good at selling herself, that she would do everything i want. she cooks, cleans and bascially i never needed to lift a finger. So those things attracted me in making my decision as well. Needless to say that the black girl would do thoes things as well.

To make my story shot, we bought a place together after 2 yrs and moved in and got a baby in our 3rd year. All this time, the black girl has been on me because to tell the truth, i belong with the black girl. We would have it much better and the relationship would be better off. I love her kids and felt very comfortable, something i did not do with the white girl's kid or in her company.


What i noticed with the white girl, when we get in a fight, the white chick becomes somebody else and start saying thing i never thought she would. She basically shows her evil white side. The black girl is straight and never holds anything back if there is an issue bothering her. But the white girl saves it up and waits until you get in an argument and everything will come up. So now I'm fed up and am drawing up a plan to leave her in a year or so since i have to think of our little baby. So my story is to avoid white girls at any cost, at least getting serious with them or getting babies with them. If i had to make a choice again, I would not choose a white girl. So learn from me.

The mistake i did was to base my decision that me and the white girl would have better life based on empty promises she was drawing up. I knew it was wrong but i went ahead and choose her. I guess I have to blame my wrong decision making. So any advice on the break up? I have to add that with her other kid, the white girl has really tried her best to get the Dad involved but he is not interested. She is trying to teach the kid the language and culutre of her kids Dad altought she doenst know much herself. So when it comes to kids, she is really down to let them know their fathers culture and language. She is even learning my language so that shows he devotion but i have made up my mind that I will leave her. And of course the black girl is very happy about that. I'm getting back to my roots.

I have bolded the mistakes you made in this situation.

Dude, it has nothing to do with white or black women. You made some major mistakes fucking with 2 women (yes, both of them are questionable) without seeing the glaring warning signs.

So, stop blaming the white girl and look in the mirror and blame yourself. Why are you chasing single mothers with baggage? The white girl just dropped a seed and you decided to fuck with her? Then while you fucking with her you fuck with a sister with 2 of her own kids? There's all types a fail here and it all lands on you.

Also, women tend to go for the jugular when the argue...white, black, red,etc.

 

[Naha-Nago]

Stop blaming her "whiteness" (or 'blackness' to BLUNTPROOF my point...) on the fact that you choose the wrong chick.



*two cents*

 

[cbeezy]

well first off sorry things aren't goin so smooth for ya. nobody likes to go thru the drama and tough times.

but if you do not like her being someone that keeps things to herself and throws them out at you when she gets really upset or starts arguing.....that's something you have to (i know the girls are goin to get mad at me for sayin this) train her not to do.

if you have told her repeatedly say what's on her mind and just communicate with you, and she persists on doin something that you just DO NOT see yourself tolerating in your loved one, then yes it might be time to move on.

but get real with her. let her know that you can't go for that and if she understands that you don't have a problem leavin her a** if she stays stuck in her ways, she might learn to change for you and her relationship.

i'm just talking real to you because you and her have spent some time together and have some big responsibilites between you all (child). IMO, it's worth it to let her know this is what you expect to at least give you some peace of mind and if she can't handle it, then it's time to go.

 

[PsyenceRawk]

NIGGA...

 

[Autobot8655]

fuck black or white, you don't need to be messing with single mothers period bro

this is true...and im 32 years old...

id NEVER fuck with a single mom...NEVER

 

[mr_mantel_216]

fuck black or white, you don't need to be messing with single mothers period bro

Stop blaming her "whiteness" (or 'blackness' to BLUNTPROOF my point...) on the fact that you choose the wrong chick.

*two cents*

This +

PsyenceRawk's avatar = my final answer

 

[kewlphucker]

 

[Money Machine]

Ummmmmmm wqhere are the pictures?

 

[Rick Ronson]

Thanks for the heads up....

I personally don't trust them.

They be too nice

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[nyeleman]

With all the obvious red flags you only have yourself to blame. Theres a thread somewhere on here that talks about red flags with women I suggest you print it out and study it, it has saved me many times.

 

[the Imm font]

money thats an every woman issue lol i never dated a white chick but i have the issue with black chicks. chick with issues is a chick with issues

 

[marchetta]

With all the obvious red flags you only have yourself to blame. Theres a thread somewhere on here that talks about red flags with women I suggest you print it out and study it, it has saved me many times.

Dude should find the thread about the guy who criticized his girl online and left his page open after he left the computer. She found it, and wrote her side of the story, which was very critical of him. Then, she announced her intentions to divorce him, and everyone in "his" forum backed her.

 

[Va te faire foutre Lex]

The coons came out to save their precious white women

 

[woodchuck]

My warning bells rang from the beginning to avoid this girl because of the drama she had with her baby dad and other personal issues.

The white girl had self-esteem issues and has been raised the white way and i saw many things that warned me not to get with her.

YOU fucked up, not them.

 

[Oracle21]

hasa nothing to do with race. sheisty people are sheisty people. no i forgot all black chicks are perfect LOL

 

[yureeka9]

 

[TheKingofVa]

fuck black or white, you don't need to be messing with single mothers period bro

 

[deeboj]

Stop blaming her "whiteness" (or 'blackness' to BLUNTPROOF my point...) on the fact that you choose the wrong chick.



*two cents*

I titally agree that i made the wrong choice but she played her part too. I kept telling her from the beginning that it would not work but she managed to convice me otherwise although i knew it was wrong. So i totally blame myself because i knew what was coming.

 

[deeboj]

well first off sorry things aren't goin so smooth for ya. nobody likes to go thru the drama and tough times.

but if you do not like her being someone that keeps things to herself and throws them out at you when she gets really upset or starts arguing.....that's something you have to (i know the girls are goin to get mad at me for sayin this) train her not to do.

if you have told her repeatedly say what's on her mind and just communicate with you, and she persists on doin something that you just DO NOT see yourself tolerating in your loved one, then yes it might be time to move on.

but get real with her. let her know that you can't go for that and if she understands that you don't have a problem leavin her a** if she stays stuck in her ways, she might learn to change for you and her relationship.

i'm just talking real to you because you and her have spent some time together and have some big responsibilites between you all (child). IMO, it's worth it to let her know this is what you expect to at least give you some peace of mind and if she can't handle it, then it's time to go.

Thanks man. I have dont all that since day one and she had promised to improve but nothing much has happened. My last two girlfriends, we had to terminate the relationship because they had communication issues and i let this girl from the beginning but what i have realised is that it is hard to change somebody.

 

[ljinsane]

But all changed 4 yrs ago when this girl i had known at my work came back from her maternnity leave. Yes, she had a kid with a black guy who treated her like shit and left her alone with the child.

I stopped reading here......

this ain't got shit to do with white women...this is about your own poor decision making

 

[tonystarks1]

 

[youngfocus]

 

[LennyNero1972]

 

[mrbillcollecta]

agreed to venture with me in any business idea i came up with because what i like in a partner is someone who got your back and whom you can share ideas and achieve things together.

This is what yall arent paying attention too. Nigga you were using this woman and she more that likely got tired of yo ass.

 

[mallorquin]

NIGGA...

And enough said!

 

[DaAssWatcher]

You must have lived in a shitty country if all you had to pick were two bitches with babies.

 

[Built4Life]

this is true...and im 32 years old...

id NEVER fuck with a single mom...NEVER

I said the same thing at your age, and I am only a few years older. The older you get reality sets in. People have children, and in order for you to date a woman without kids you have to date significantly younger women. Now, if you can deal with their immaturity then that is all good. Also, childless women in their 30's are usually in a hurry to have children. So, you have to be careful because they are ready for you to impregnate them at any costs that is unless they don't want kids. The fact is that they all have some type of problem. You have to determine if you have the patience to deal with them so you can have a secure relationship because getting to know someone is difficult especially as people age because of all the baggage.

 

[Race Harley]

At least you know you're a dumbass.

 

[woodchuck]

You must have lived in a shitty country if all you had to pick were two bitches with babies.

 

[DAYNE]

 

[oolong tea]

I said the same thing at your age, and I am only a few years older. The older you get reality sets in. People have children, and in order for you to date a woman without kids you have to date significantly younger women. Now, if you can deal with their immaturity then that is all good. Also, childless women in their 30's are usually in a hurry to have children. So, you have to be careful because they are ready for you to impregnate them at any costs that is unless they don't want kids. The fact is that they all have some type of problem. You have to determine if you have the patience to deal with them so you can have a secure relationship because getting to know someone is difficult especially as people age because of all the baggage.

I respectfully agree. except for highlighted in red. The problem is, the woman that refuse to have children until they're married are overseas. I dated a broad from Asia who's now in her 40s and unmarried. In East Asia, Europe,Africa, and depending in all cases, Latin America, women are still ashamed to have children without husband present. And they're scorned or resort to leaving their area not to shame their family members. But America loses shame each day.

 

[SALEM]

Otherwise, she is a generous person with a good heart and what attracted me was her ideas, the way she got my back and agreed to venture with me in any business idea i came up with because what i like in a partner is someone who got your back and whom you can share ideas and achieve things together.

[BITTERNESS]From my experiences, I'd estimate that only about 0.0000000000003% of women worldwide are capable of doing this. And out of that 0.0000000000003%, I'd say about 3/4 of those women are too damn incompetent to help you achieve shit anyway. The remaining 1/4 just haven't been confirmed dead.[/BITTERNESS]

Good luck!