What Happened to Respecting A Lady???

[majestic_retired]

One of the main issues with this board and every other one on the net is the lack of respect. A lot of these cats get away with calling women all sorts of names bc many women don't demand their respect. Some would accept being disrespected just to say that they have someone then to stand up for themselves and be single with dignity. If there was more respect between the brothas and sistas on this board it would be a lot more interactive.

 

[owl]

One of the main issues with this board and every other one on the net is the lack of respect. A lot of these cats get away with calling women all sorts of names bc many women don't demand their respect. Some would accept being disrespected just to say that they have someone then to stand up for themselves and be single with dignity. If there was more respect between the brothas and sistas on this board it would be a lot more interactive.

standing ovation....

 

[Mo-Better]

The truth has been spoken. I too have wondered why so many women permit men to speak to them disrespectfully. Then they wonder why men cheat and beat on them. The answer is self-respect. It's a fact, if you respect yourself then others will respect you.

 

[Chicutie]

I agree. . but majority of the time when a woman stands up for herself she's labeled a "bitch". .

 

[Imhotep]

The truth has been spoken. I too have wondered why so many women permit men to speak to them disrespectfully.

You do know it's a two way street. Women can just as easily be disrespectfully, verbally and non-verbally. If your not feeling the e-conv just keep it moving.

Finally your on a porn board, check out the main page. Do you honesty think your going to get respected here?

"Self-respect" is one step on a "esteem" scale...............

 

[MCP]

Porn board or not, if there is no respect especially from the men calling out to some of the women here, then that convo should be cut off right there and then. Also some men/boys feel that its ok to call women out like that bc there are on the internet.

 

[majestic_retired]

I agree. . but majority of the time when a woman stands up for herself she's labeled a "bitch". .

I agree with what you said and it's because certain men aren't used to a real woman putting them in their place. Their only response reflects their immaturity and lack of growth. They feel disrespected and call women out to feel like men still, but the fail to realize the irony of the situation because you respect works both ways. Respect others and for the most part they will respect you as well.

 

[MCP]

I like to think that your upbringing also has an effect on how you do treated women generally on a everyday level.

I would consider myself fortunate when growing not to see my parents having blazing arguments in front of me and my siblings.

I never ever saw my dad hit or threaten to hit my mum as well. In all the years living at home my dad has never ever called my mum a 'bitch' etc.

 

[charlie dark]

I may be wrong but I think that the fact that this is a porn board and the women in the porn business are probably not viewed as pillars of society, might have some bearing as to the pervading attitude towards women on the board

 

[followup]

One of the main issues with this board and every other one on the net is the lack of respect. A lot of these cats get away with calling women all sorts of names bc many women don't demand their respect. Some would accept being disrespected just to say that they have someone then to stand up for themselves and be single with dignity. If there was more respect between the brothas and sistas on this board it would be a lot more interactive.

WOW!!! Just wow!!

We used to have a female member who always spoke about this constantly, but most of the women here don't feel like dealing with it. I figure since there are mostly men, maybe some of the more intelligent men could address the issue on the main board easier than a single woman against 10,000 morons. I don't care who you are: If you say something and 100 people cosign you, you're not gonna change your behavior. Here the word "bitch" or "ho" or "broad" is synonymous with black woman. I choose to put such ignorant users on ignore, others simply reply to them as if the name fits

Thank you for addressing the issue.

 

[nukdollars]

One of the main issues with this board and every other one on the net is the lack of respect. A lot of these cats get away with calling women all sorts of names bc many women don't demand their respect. Some would accept being disrespected just to say that they have someone then to stand up for themselves and be single with dignity. If there was more respect between the brothas and sistas on this board it would be a lot more interactive.

co-sign

 

[Noir]

One of the main issues with this board and every other one on the net is the lack of respect. A lot of these cats get away with calling women all sorts of names bc many women don't demand their respect. Some would accept being disrespected just to say that they have someone then to stand up for themselves and be single with dignity. If there was more respect between the brothas and sistas on this board it would be a lot more interactive.

I agree with your statement that women on the board are insulted and disrespected often. However, I disagree that the women on the board are not demanding their respect and most women on the board (especially the SOL ladies) carry themselves with dignity.

However, the problem is that we are in cyberspace. The anonymity and virtual nature of the board allows these punks to insult the women and ignore them when the women demand respect. Unfortunately the women cannot kick these punks asses in cyberspace (though the punks are thoroughly clowned and their stupidity exposed). In an equal and free medium of the board even the idiots can have a voice.

Seriously, how many of these punks would even dare utter 1% of what they say online if they were face-to-face with the women they seem to get their rocks off insulting?

 

[jucurious]

One of the main issues with this board and every other one on the net is the lack of respect. A lot of these cats get away with calling women all sorts of names bc many women don't demand their respect. Some would accept being disrespected just to say that they have someone then to stand up for themselves and be single with dignity. If there was more respect between the brothas and sistas on this board it would be a lot more interactive.

I agree. . but majority of the time when a woman stands up for herself she's labeled a "bitch". .

yeah...i post on the main board often cuz well...i just find some of the commentary to interesting to resist and i yall know i'm sarcastic debater as all get out...so yeah i've had a few ppl tell me to go over to SOL w/ that mess and once or twice i've been called out my name. did i just let it slide...nope. i addressed it, how immature it looked, how the rest of the ppl posting in the thread were having an INTELLIGENT discourse and how they need to chill w/ all the name calling. one person didn't post anymore in the thread while another person said somethin like my bad, i just get excited blah blah blah or somethin like that

WOW!!! Just wow!!
Here the word "bitch" or "ho" or "broad" is synonymous with black woman.

Thank you for addressing the issue.

i asked that question on the main board about the word bitch and ho being synonymous with women but i got told i was taking things to seriously and that this was a men's porn board blah blah blah

but yeah thank you for addressing the situation....shout out to the other male posters who hold conversations without name calling and disrespecting women

 

[bigirl]

.

However, the problem is that we are in cyberspace.

and on a porn board on top of it. i think that has alot to do with it you know.

 

[charlie dark]

What no Blunt?
If this is not the perfect forum to condemn the inappropriate behavior of some black men, I don't know what is?
You must have been waiting 14000 posts for this platform....Come wid it!!!!

 

[Rudey]

I really think some of the men on here hate women.

Sad thing is, sometime I see men compliment women and it is consider simpish behaviour.

 

[followup]

What no Blunt?
If this is not the perfect forum to condemn the inappropriate behavior of some black men, I don't know what is?
You must have been waiting 14000 posts for this platform....Come wid it!!!!

That's all you have to contribute to this topic?

 

[bigirl]

I really think some of the men on here hate women.

Sad thing is, sometime I see men compliment women and it is consider simpish behaviour.

OK but I seriously doubt many if any of the guys who talk that shit on here are actually the same way in real life.

 

[MCP]

OK but I seriously doubt many if any of the guys who talk that shit on here are actually the same way in real life.

How so true. Some men seem to get off talking about women like that in cyberspace but in the real world, bet you there totally differet.

 

[onyxfemme]

Exactly!!!!! It isnt hard...And if you want to address how you were spoken to, do it and KEEP IT MOVING!

Porn board or not, if there is no respect especially from the men calling out to some of the women here, then that convo should be cut off right there and then. Also some men/boys feel that its ok to call women out like that bc there are on the internet.

I really think some of the men on here hate women.

Sad thing is, sometime I see men compliment women and it is consider simpish behaviour.

I have seen this too....And those are the men that I convo with and show nothing but love too.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

WOW!!! Just wow!!

We used to have a female member who always spoke about this constantly, but most of the women here don't feel like dealing with it. I figure since there are mostly men, maybe some of the more intelligent men could address the issue on the main board easier than a single woman against 10,000 morons. I don't care who you are: If you say something and 100 people cosign you, you're not gonna change your behavior. Here the word "bitch" or "ho" or "broad" is synonymous with black woman. I choose to put such ignorant users on ignore, others simply reply to them as if the name fits

Thank you for addressing the issue.

C/S

 

[IR_King]

WOW!!! Just wow!!

We used to have a female member who always spoke about this constantly, but most of the women here don't feel like dealing with it. I figure since there are mostly men, maybe some of the more intelligent men could address the issue on the main board easier than a single woman against 10,000 morons. I don't care who you are: If you say something and 100 people cosign you, you're not gonna change your behavior. Here the word "bitch" or "ho" or "broad" is synonymous with black woman. I choose to put such ignorant users on ignore, others simply reply to them as if the name fits

Thank you for addressing the issue.

Aren't those words synonymous with women in America in general? I call all women broads not just black women. It's just a bad habit. I can't stop smoking either. I'd quit smoking cigarettes before I'd stop calling women broads. I've been doing it longer.

 

[shanebp1978]

There are few ladies.

Next.

 

[actinanass]

One of the main issues with this board and every other one on the net is the lack of respect. A lot of these cats get away with calling women all sorts of names bc many women don't demand their respect. Some would accept being disrespected just to say that they have someone then to stand up for themselves and be single with dignity. If there was more respect between the brothas and sistas on this board it would be a lot more interactive.

....ahhh you don't visit the chat rooms much eh?

I'm one of the type of people that really don't care about RESPECT on the INTERNET. I'll say what I wanna say, and leave it at that. If it disrespect you, offends you, maybe you need to check your sensitivity level. Lets face it, there's a couple things that black people are sensitive with RIGHT NOW.

1. obama

2. women when you talking about women

3. religion

4. President Bush in a whole.

5. sports

6. Black people failures.

7. hip hop

8. racism

9. doing anything thats not the "norm".

10. if you are rich... *niggas get sensitive if they money ain't right, and you are making it*

Any of these 10 things can make someone feel that they are being disrespected if you believe anything other than what they believe in. So to put it in many words, I don't respect PUSSY I fuck it.... If a chick is sensitive with a pussy, she is a jumpoff. If a chick is head strong, with great pussy, she is a wifey. Just the law of the land dude...

 

[Mo-Better]

You do know it's a two way street. Women can just as easily be disrespectfully, verbally and non-verbally. If your not feeling the e-conv just keep it moving.

Finally your on a porn board, check out the main page. Do you honesty think your going to get respected here?

"Self-respect" is one step on a "esteem" scale...............

It's the woman's initial response as to how she will be perceived by not only others but by the man she's addressing. If she takes the low road and lashes back in a tirade laced with foul language she loses her respectability and lowers herself to his level.

One the other hand if she takes the high road elects to ignore and not engage in gutterish trash talking she stays out of the arguement and the man in turn looks bad, she maintains her self esteem and respect.

As for SOL yeah the women here can, have and should be respected here. Again its the woman's initial response that will determine how others respond to her. Bottom line is it's her choice. (some do handle their business )

As for the mainboard no one there respects anyone unless they post something they need or want.

 

[followup]

Aren't those words synonymous with women in America in general? I call all women broads not just black women. It's just a bad habit. I can't stop smoking either. I'd quit smoking cigarettes before I'd stop calling women broads. I've been doing it longer.

Only if you're a moron

 

[Rudey]

OK but I seriously doubt many if any of the guys who talk that shit on here are actually the same way in real life.

They must suffer from schizophrenia.

I'm the same offline and online.

Is like some of these people are robots,a different personality switch turns on once they log on.

 

[destrehan]

I really think some of the men on here hate women.

Sad thing is, sometime I see men compliment women and it is consider simpish behaviour.

IT'S ONLY SIMPISH ONLINE BECAUSE THESE LAMES LAY IT ON THICK AND THEY OBVIOUSLY DON'T GET WOMEN IN REAL LIFE. IT'S COMICAL ACTUALLY. I DON'T TREAT WOMEN BAD IN REAL LIFE, BUT I DON'T TAKE NO SHIT OFF THEM EITHER. I DON'T RESPECT THE WOMEN ON THIS BOARD BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE STRAIGHT CORNBALLS. JUST LIKE ALOT OF THE NIGGAS ON HERE.

 

[kurrupt]

IT'S A FREAKIN PORN BOARD!!! WTF DO YOU EXPECT?? SITE IS FLOODED WITH PICS AND MOVIES OF MEN FUCKING WOMEN AND DOING SOME REAL HARSH SHIT TO THEM. (FACIALS, CHOKIN, DP, ETC)
WTF YOU EXPECT!???
I FEEL MEN SHOULD RESPECT WOMEN WHO DESERVE RESPECT OVERALL...BUT I'M NOT GOING TO MAKE A FUSS ABOUT IT ON A PORN BOARD. SEEMS IRONIC TO ME.

 

[followup]

I could see if they addressed all posters in the same way, but simply acting like that because someone is a black woman? Come on. Saying "it's a porn board, get over it" is not cutting it... There's some serioius hate of black women here.

 

[onyxfemme]

It's the woman's initial response as to how she will be perceived by not only others but by the man she's addressing. If she takes the low road and lashes back in a tirade laced with foul language she loses her respectability and lowers herself to his level.

One the other hand if she takes the high road elects to ignore and not engage in gutterish trash talking she stays out of the arguement and the man in turn looks bad, she maintains her self esteem and respect.
As for SOL yeah the women here can, have and should be respected here. Again its the woman's initial response that will determine how others respond to her. Bottom line is it's her choice. (some do handle their business )

As for the mainboard no one there respects anyone unless they post something they need or want.

100% Cosign

 

[BCSD2012]

I have respect for all ladies, just the way I was brought up. Even the ones that encouraged and liked for me to slap them around, pull their hair, and cuss them out during sex. After the sex was over she went back to being treated with respect.

 

[Imhotep]

I could see if they addressed all posters in the same way, but simply acting like that because someone is a black woman? Come on. Saying "it's a porn board, get over it" is not cutting it... There's some serioius hate of black women here.

I think it not truly something that should be taken personal.
You have a valid point when you say "some serious hate of black women" on this board. Its really fucked up with some of the porn found here. I personal detest the white guy/ blk girl videos. Another point to state this board does not have 100% blk members. Some of the hate come from others.

Porn deal with mostly male sexual fantasy. I never seen porn where the woman was not handled if she was not an sexual object. I can be lowbrow and say make your own, but that would be the typical porn board member response.

Women asking for respect on a male porn board, is like femmenoir moderating "stormfront".....................

 

[kurrupt]

I have respect for all ladies, just the way I was brought up. Even the ones that encouraged and liked for me to slap them around, pull their hair, and cuss them out during sex. After the sex was over she went back to being treated with respect.

All females ain't ladies...and respect is something earned...not thrown around carelessly

 

[mzmillion]

Porn board or not, if there is no respect especially from the men calling out to some of the women here, then that convo should be cut off right there and then. Also some men/boys feel that its ok to call women out like that bc there are on the internet.

On the internet you can be and say whatever, its that simple and I agree with the people who said that this is a porn board. Women here stand up for themselves most of the time but like Follow said, when you have 1,000 dickriders jumping on board of a "bash-female" rant, its gets hard. Thats why I try to keep my ass on this side of the board b/c going to bat with internet personalities and sn's is not what I'm here for.

Nigga's who stand up for women here are simps, no matter how lite or thick they "lay it on". And here, simps are not cool, so while most of these guys want to be "accepted" into the bgol "brotherhood", they figure out standing up for women is not how to do it.

This is a porn board where niggas judge women and sex all day, they critique and make wild assumptions about women, and if you aren't apart of it, you aren't shit here.

They beat their dicks to these pornstars all day but if said porn star pops up on board she ain't shit but a bitch and they make it a point to run her off..... where is the logic in that? I'll never know!