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yella beezy ARRESTED ON CAPITAL MURDER CHARGE OVER DEATH OF MO3

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You're right dawg
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REDLINE said:
Y’all do know that Mo tried to kill him right? :roflmao:
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dtownsfinest

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DC_Dude said:
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Naw he is 100 percent correct.. I don’t know how true the shit was but this whole time I been thinking I’m tripping. Story goes Mo3 was robbing on that Mosama shit he was on and was doing it in Fort Worth to Houston.

But the city always goes with the underdog but he wasn’t shit as a person. That day he died was his karma to keep it a buck. Like he said it was two street niggas going back and forth one dead an d one in jail.
 
thundercat

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TooTrilla said:
Still dumb. These dudes were getting money but couldnt let that goofy street shit go.
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We use to have old heads in the streets that would organize sit-downs to try and squash certain situations. These young cats ain't havin that anymore though. A woman(fatherless homes) can't teach a man how to control his ego and pride....because that's all it is at the end of the day. Niggas feelin like they can't take an L.
 
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dtownsfinest said:
Naw he is 100 percent correct.. I don’t know how true the shit was but this whole time I been thinking I’m tripping. Story goes Mo3 was robbing on that Mosama shit he was on and was doing it in Fort Worth to Houston.

But the city always goes with the underdog but he wasn’t shit as a person. That day he died was his karma to keep it a buck. Like he said it was two street niggas going back and forth one dead an d one in jail.
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Great black men :hmm: superstars :hmm:ummmm interesting choice of words i must say...
 
Temujin

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thundercat said:
We use to have old heads in the streets that would organize sit-downs to try and squash certain situations. These young cats ain't havin that anymore though. A woman(fatherless homes) can't teach a man how to control his ego and pride....because that's all it is at the end of the day. Niggas feelin like they can't take an L.
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I don't know if it is as simple as ego. A lot of revenge is a perceived sense of self preservation and an inability to deal with grief and guilt. A lot of us black men in general have never learned how to cope with our emotions. We only know physical reactions to emotional stress. So when my close friend is killed and the perpetrator is mocking his death publicly what do I do?

1. If he is willing to kill my friend and joke about it he clearly will kill me. (self preservation)
2. Anybody who is my enemy will look at this as a sign of weakness and may try to rob or kill me as well (self preservation)
3. Im hurt my friend is dead and everytime I go around the city I think about him and as long as this person is alive I will feel this pain (grief)

We can't put talk to a therapist on the list because we have never been taught that therapy is a valid response to grief. Talking to our elders may or may not help because it most cases they also have never learned to do anything but bottle up their grief. Our fathers don't talk about the pain of racism because they learned to bottle that shit tight. Most of our grandparents experienced war but they won't talk about it because they learned to bottle it up tight. Bottling up your grief just ends with pain on the inside. We don't go to church anymore so we can't teach them to pray about it.

In the black community we have dire need for emotional intelligence even more than financial intelligence. The cycle of revenge killings has been accelerated by social media and unfortunately hip hop. Add in gang culture which explicity teaches and promotes revenge killing and we have systematized these deaths into our culture. So we teach the kids the response to grief is violence they learn well and the cycle continues. Unless we adopt emotional intelligence into our culture make it as respected as gangsterism and violence. Make it more important than money and we may see some cultural shifts. But in the mind of a yella breezy he probably didn't "feel" like he had a choice.
 
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Temujin said:
I don't know if it is as simple as ego. A lot of revenge is a perceived sense of self preservation and an inability to deal with grief and guilt. A lot of us black men in general have never learned how to cope with our emotions. We only know physical reactions to emotional stress. So when my close friend is killed and the perpetrator is mocking his death publicly what do I do?

1. If he is willing to kill my friend and joke about it he clearly will kill me. (self preservation)
2. Anybody who is my enemy will look at this as a sign of weakness and may try to rob or kill me as well (self preservation)
3. Im hurt my friend is dead and everytime I go around the city I think about him and as long as this person is alive I will feel this pain (grief)

We can't put talk to a therapist on the list because we have never been taught that therapy is a valid response to grief. Talking to our elders may or may not help because it most cases they also have never learned to do anything but bottle up their grief. Our fathers don't talk about the pain of racism because they learned to bottle that shit tight. Most of our grandparents experienced war but they won't talk about it because they learned to bottle it up tight. Bottling up your grief just ends with pain on the inside. We don't go to church anymore so we can't teach them to pray about it.

In the black community we have dire need for emotional intelligence even more than financial intelligence. The cycle of revenge killings has been accelerated by social media and unfortunately hip hop. Add in gang culture which explicity teaches and promotes revenge killing and we have systematized these deaths into our culture. So we teach the kids the response to grief is violence they learn well and the cycle continues. Unless we adopt emotional intelligence into our culture make it as respected as gangsterism and violence. Make it more important than money and we may see some cultural shifts. But in the mind of a yella breezy he probably didn't "feel" like he had a choice.
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Very solid points and good perspectives!!
 
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Temujin said:
I don't know if it is as simple as ego. A lot of revenge is a perceived sense of self preservation and an inability to deal with grief and guilt. A lot of us black men in general have never learned how to cope with our emotions. We only know physical reactions to emotional stress. So when my close friend is killed and the perpetrator is mocking his death publicly what do I do?

1. If he is willing to kill my friend and joke about it he clearly will kill me. (self preservation)
2. Anybody who is my enemy will look at this as a sign of weakness and may try to rob or kill me as well (self preservation)
3. Im hurt my friend is dead and everytime I go around the city I think about him and as long as this person is alive I will feel this pain (grief)

We can't put talk to a therapist on the list because we have never been taught that therapy is a valid response to grief. Talking to our elders may or may not help because it most cases they also have never learned to do anything but bottle up their grief. Our fathers don't talk about the pain of racism because they learned to bottle that shit tight. Most of our grandparents experienced war but they won't talk about it because they learned to bottle it up tight. Bottling up your grief just ends with pain on the inside. We don't go to church anymore so we can't teach them to pray about it.

In the black community we have dire need for emotional intelligence even more than financial intelligence. The cycle of revenge killings has been accelerated by social media and unfortunately hip hop. Add in gang culture which explicity teaches and promotes revenge killing and we have systematized these deaths into our culture. So we teach the kids the response to grief is violence they learn well and the cycle continues. Unless we adopt emotional intelligence into our culture make it as respected as gangsterism and violence. Make it more important than money and we may see some cultural shifts. But in the mind of a yella breezy he probably didn't "feel" like he had a choice.
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Good point on emotional intelligence.
 

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