That reset button after 15 or more years of marriage isn’t pretty. I didn’t understand any of that as a young man, but now watching friends go through divorces and other shit, I realized it’s much more complicated that just leaving.
You're wasting your energy on a hoe
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That reset button after 15 or more years of marriage isn’t pretty. I didn’t understand any of that as a young man, but now watching friends go through divorces and other shit, I realized it’s much more complicated that just leaving.
It really is.
Bruh, are you kidding?
You're set free now. I would have given homeboy some dap, and thanked him for giving me the way out.
There are so many beautiful women out here with low self esteem. Shit... you're living in a low self esteem Disney World. You call the shots now.
I would have given homey the key to the crib, because I'm not living there anymore. "Hey dude, I hope y'all can afford the mortgage payments. Oh, and don't call me for shit. As a matter of fact, I'm changing my phone number in the morning."
You're set free now. I would have given homeboy some dap, and thanked him for giving me the way out.
There are so many beautiful women out here with low self esteem. Shit... you're living in a low self esteem Disney World. You call the shots now.
I would have given homey the key to the crib, because I'm not living there anymore. "Hey dude, I hope y'all can afford the mortgage payments. Oh, and don't call me for shit. As a matter of fact, I'm changing my phone number in the morning."
I don't think it's that easy. Depending on what state you're in.
Spousal Support and Abandonment
A spouse who abandons their financial obligations and leaves their husband or wife in dire economic circumstances may be ordered to pay spousal support due to their actions.
Marital Property and Abandonment
This means all marital assets and debts belong equally to the spouses. Upon divorce, marital assets and debts are typically divided equally between the two.However, the court can consider abandonment when awarding marital property and debt to the spouses. A spouse who abandons their financial obligations and family could sacrifice some or all of their share of marital assets. They may also be awarded a more significant portion of any marital debt.
I agree with you. But, I'd say for your own sanity, let them go.
If she's out there dirty like that, and he's been following her around, it's just a matter of time before he snaps.
She's not going to stop. So it's best for him to bounce on his own terms.
No need for "And then, he turned the gun on himself."
Yeah I've never been married but I was in a long term relationship, and it's almost like, time stands still for you when you're with your wife/sig other and then getting back out there...it's like Slim Charles said in the wire.."game just got more fierce
This is probably the most ignored part of a thought process during heated arguments between couples that are 10-20 years in. At this point no man should Just let it go. You should think about it. Married Folk at this stage should be or are usually cautious about arguments.
i can’t see myself going through resetting my life after 20 years with someone. Not just worth it. A bird in hand…..
Indeed. Every situation is different... BUT, this bitch here seems to be crass, indignant and just dont give a fuck. I honestly wouldnt have been mad had he hauled off and slapped the shit out her smart mouth ass during that exchange. A bitch like that you have to leave for your own dignity and sanity. Sadly, depending on what state hes in, he may be left with a bill and forced to continue to float her lifestyle for the foreseeable future.