A 30-Year-Old Clip Of Maya Angelou Correcting A Teen Has New School Twitter Up In Arms

ansatsusha_gouki

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When elders in my family had friends over to play cards or whatever, they referred to them by their first names: Harold, Beverly, etc.
I wasn't allowed to do the same. If anything, it was,"Mr. Harold" or "Miss Beverly." And even that's only because I was familiar with them like that.
Shit, I'm old af and STILL put a 'mr.' or 'ms.' on elders' names when face to face.

The young girl should've had enough upbringing to know better in the first place IMO.


For,awhile I called my homie's dad Mr. Atlas until one day he told me I should cal him Pops since I'm always over there...

Young people today are outrage over everything. They'll be outrage,why the sky is blue, if they had the chance.

We live in outrage society. Is there anything these young folks aren't outraged about?

They mad over everything under the sun from not supporting Bernie to getting "pronouns" right and everyone is "canceled". Social media is fucking sickening sometimes


You had folks outraged about Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer this past December. I thought the story was fake but it turned out to be true.....o_O:hmm:
 

GAMETHEORY

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in Africa you can't address your elders by their first names

and yes we do have a million mothers, fathers, uncles, aunties, brothers and sisters

non Africans people don't understand this
 

D24OHA

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Bruh, can you imagine if it was a "non-binary" woman on stage and the young lady said "I have a question for her..."

"No excuse me young lady, WE prefer to be called THEY or THEM....."

Oh the dialog on Twitter would be so different...

"They are non binary, how do you NOT know to address them properly...?!"

In that same manner she is an elder, I don't think she would have reacted the same if the young lady had said "Miss Maya," that's at least an attempt at respect an elder.... But to just say Maya.... Nah fam, maybe its cuz my fam has a lot of southern roots... But I'd never dare address an elder like that without their permission.

We live in outrage society. Is there anything these young folks aren't outraged about?

They mad over everything under the sun from not supporting Bernie to getting "pronouns" right and everyone is "canceled". Social media is fucking sickening sometimes

I hear what you're saying, but her not speaking at HBCUs or giving a discount on her rate would not change how I would address her if we were having a conversation.

I can understand mfkrs dragging her name all through the mud in their conversations, but again face to face she is still my elder.

I respect my elders, however some of them doesn’t deserve it one bit.

But Maya was not as liked as I thought she was. She was a professor at Wake Forest University at the time I was attending Winston Salem State.

She talk that black empowerment shit, but ask me how many times she came to Winston Salem State while I was there to give a speech or presentation? NONE! And you know why? Because her asking price was more than the school could afford, yet she only taught 10 minutes away from the school. She knew WSSU was a HBCU.

I’ve had several professors express their disdain for her. I thought that was interesting considering how much she was respected in the Black Community.

That was my first reality check on black scholars not like other black scholars because they thought they were phony.
 

Mello Mello

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Twitter is stupid to be up in arms for Maya asking her respect. :angry:

I HATE this triggered generation. Always seeking to find offense in the slightest thing. Just a bunch of priveleged scum with opinion. Weak bitches.

Ms Angelou apologized a lil later in the show...

Some on Twitter are using this as proof thaf she was wrong and she knew she was wrong....

No she was not wrong for demanding her due respect and title, maybe her approach was (I don't think so, but clearly a lot of Twitter does)



Dumb bitch she apologized for being short with her not for asking for respect and not because she was wrong for doing so.
 

4 Dimensional

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I saw one with President Macron where he got tight because a kid didn't call him President.

This is just me, but I think it's NOTHING but human ego to give a shit about a title. Just as long as someone isn't being intentionally disrespectful.

Titles and labels are near and dear to many humans.

Whether it be a titles of a profession or a label for a relationship. This is how people operate.

I hear what you're saying, but her not speaking at HBCUs or giving a discount on her rate would not change how I would address her if we were having a conversation.

I can understand mfkrs dragging her name all through the mud in their conversations, but again face to face she is still my elder.

Oh, I’m not correlating the two. Her not speaking at an HBCU, has nothing to do with how I would or wouldn’t address her.

I was just pointing out that I have conversed with some scholars about her and certain aspects about her they didn’t like. But she not perfect. She just another human.
 

Camille

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Curious to know, is the ones doing the defending of a old age demographic?

From what I could tell it was all ages.

I waited until I saw the video to comment on twitter yesterday. I kept seeing the comments but none of the tweets had the vid. I was expecting much worse. Maya was kind. The child was receptive, and she didn't just correct her, she explained why. Her voice was firm, but it was kind throughout. The child didn't seem offended, though we didn't see her full reaction. She seemed to accept the correction. I didnt see a problem with it.

We always had to have some sort of title when addressing adults or people older than our age group. Aunt, uncle, Ms., SOMETHING. At work, people of all ages address me as Ms. my last name and there is this one much older white lady that I sometimes address as Ms. and her first name.

When the Ms. Nancy mess jumped off, I sort of saw the rationale when people were saying a grown black woman shouldn't be referring to a white woman as though she was in a child place, but most probably wouldn't have had a problem if Nancy Pelosi was black, and as I'm blessed to have family and adults around me who have had the grace to to be an elder, I will continue to show age the respect I believe it deserves, regardless of race.
 

respiration

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Ms Angelou apologized a lil later in the show...

Some on Twitter are using this as proof thaf she was wrong and she knew she was wrong....

No she was not wrong for demanding her due respect and title, maybe her approach was (I don't think so, but clearly a lot of Twitter does)


She was the essence of grace. Dignity and humility and compassion all coming from the same soul. Class all the way.
 

Camille

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She married CACs too...what kind of self respecting civil rights activist would have married a CAC, and adopted that way of living? I don't respek her or Mr.jessie jackson..brah

Y'all don't hold this same disrespect for black men with white wives fighting for black rights tho...

I have posted these blog posts several times in the past and never receive and adequate response. I'll go even further though and add that these men weren't interested so much in black liberation as they were the right to copulate with white women without penalty or backlash. Liberation for black women was an after thought or fringe benefit.

I don't disagree with you, but that is the norm. What you have to ask is are some of these men pro black PEOPLE or pro black men so they can get the benefits of breaking barriers only to crossover them to a white spouse. There is a difference.

http://dateawhiteguy.blogspot.co.uk/2010/01/whose-zooming-who.html

http://dateawhiteguy.blogspot.com/2012/09/whos-zooming-who-sequel.html

Besides that, if having a white partner means one can no longer advocate for black interests, then the men in the link I posted the other day should have stepped down as soon as they made their selection: http://dateawhiteguy.blogspot.com/2010/01/whose-zooming-who.html

http://dateawhiteguy.blogspot.com/2010/01/whose-zooming-who.html

Oh and lets not forget Julain Bond who was elected to his fourth term as the chairman of the National Board of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP) (meaning: it doesnt matter who a black man marries he can still be for his people though it doesnt mean bw should do it too), is married to Pamela Sue Horowitz

Black women and black people always accept a black man dating out, but black women are bed wenches. In many, not all cases, a lot of black leaders who advocate for black liberation want the freedom to do what they want with black women being an after thought, even if that's where all their support comes from. There are some posts inhere I want to reply to, but don't have time now. Here is a link I've posted several times over the years. I quoted them so you can see the original discussions. I took a quick look at the blog, I don't think all the pics show up.
 

bububang

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She said/did nothing wrong imo. But.....

being respectable warrants respect. You dont get respect just cause you old.
 

KoffeeHobson

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It’s how society is right now. Nothing is formal. I am in my early 40s, I would never call an older person by their first name when I was a kid. It was always a sign of respect to me. You lived that long, you deserved to be called Mr., Ms. or Mrs. unless told otherwise. Young kids now don’t give a fuck.
 

CptMARVEL

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Not seeing what the problem is here...? :confused:
A celebrated author, thinker & lecturer informed a young lady how she wants to be addressed.
- It's what she's earned.
- It's what she deserves.
- It's what's proper.
- It's what's right.
:yes:

If the young lady was speaking to MLK Jr., I guarantee you she would NOT have called him "Martin". She would have referred to him as "Dr. King".
Showing Dr. Angelou the same respect is no different....:dunno:
 

playahaitian

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From what I could tell it was all ages.

I waited until I saw the video to comment on twitter yesterday. I kept seeing the comments but none of the tweets had the vid. I was expecting much worse. Maya was kind. The child was receptive, and she didn't just correct her, she explained why. Her voice was firm, but it was kind throughout. The child didn't seem offended, though we didn't see her full reaction. She seemed to accept the correction. I didnt see a problem with it.

We always had to have some sort of title when addressing adults or people older than our age group. Aunt, uncle, Ms., SOMETHING. At work, people of all ages address me as Ms. my last name and there is this one much older white lady that I sometimes address as Ms. and her first name.

When the Ms. Nancy mess jumped off, I sort of saw the rationale when people were saying a grown black woman shouldn't be referring to a white woman as though she was in a child place, but most probably wouldn't have had a problem if Nancy Pelosi was black, and as I'm blessed to have family and adults around me who have had the grace to to be an elder, I will continue to show age the respect I believe it deserves, regardless of race.

Post of the day

:cheers:
 

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I'm pushing 40. If you're black and I consider you older (not my contemporary), then you are Mr. or Mrs.

Period. They've came through too much to be addressed as otherwise. Case in point, there's an older guy I see in my gym. This man sat and took me through his life, his experiences. To see these little ungrateful pink fuckers refer to him any kind of way burns me. Whenever I see him, I make a beeline to him, shake his hand and address him as he should. Loud enough so everyone can hear.
 

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I've never liked her, I remember as a kid hating her because she was the actress who played Kunta Kinte grandmother and she was hating on Kunta's new hut, and decided to fuck with him and sent him away to make a fucking drum, the next day and he was captured into slavery while looking for a skin.
and ever since uve never liked her ! :roflmao::roflmao:
i got a few like that, that i never got over on after seeing them doing some evil shit in a movie , they were always suspect to me after that !!:lol2: till this day !
 

mangobob79

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They've came through too much to be addressed as otherwise

this ^^^^ especially older black women,and anytme i see them at jobs toiling away and shit, i just think about how much shit they must gone thru in this hell hole, i always remind myself to be reverent to them
 

smoovejazz

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It was a teaching moment. I wouldn't dare address someone that age by their first name unless they insisted I do so.
And even when they insist I'll throw a Mr or Ms/Mrs in front of it.
Fuck is wrong with people.

Exactly what I do - I'll still say Mr., Ms., Sir , and Ma'am. It's about respect.

I also hate seeing people calling other Black people deliberately calling a Black Dr. (MD, PhD, etc.) "Mr. ___" or "Mrs.___".
That person earned that shit. Either that's done out of ignorance or disrespect. And I've seen Black people with that title have enough grace to ignore how the person addressed then, and treat them and deal with them anyway.

I do agree, however, that some people think that just because a person is old, they should automatically get respect. Someone can be old, but still be an asshole. I will respect an older person, but they act like an asshole to me, that makes them an old asshole, and they will be treated accordingly.
 
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Then sometimes I'll get a rude ass black girl who doesn't say shit lol
I will say one thing......EVERYTIME I've been to a Chick-Fil-a no matter who was serving me and no matter how i was dressed, they have ALWAYS called me sir.....go figure lol.

:lol::roflmao::roflmao2:Some girls/women will only address you if they feel you are attractive to them, even on the street/stores, etc... they think if they speak to you will try to talk to them, thirsty men are kind of the reason for this but a lot of women suffer from delusions of grandeur too

Brother's that date single moms, how you feel when her kids call you by your first name?

I feel weird as fuck when an 8 year old little girl calls me Doe Moe with no Mr. on it.

Yeah I’ve been thru a couple of times, the mother would introduce me and tell them to address me as “Mr.” but i’d tell them to just call me by my first name
 

Duece

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Brother's that date single moms, how you feel when her kids call you by your first name?

I feel weird as fuck when an 8 year old little girl calls me Doe Moe with no Mr. on it.

Majority of my friends who date single mothers just let the kids call them by their first name.

I have a friend who's been with a single mother for nearly 30 years and the child he raised with her now has kids and those kids call him "pawpaw"
 

tajshan

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So white people is attacking another dead celebrity.

To already go after defenseless black children..,. Why not right?

This shit has to stop.

They're already gearing up to attack Martin Luther King in a couple of years...

Smh
Man, they are already doing that....
 

playahaitian

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I agree with you. I was just saying ALL elders dont deserve respect, just because their old. Its some aint shit ass elders out here.

I completely understand

but that goes for EVERYBODY

doctor lawyer young old black white...

but I think much like in Asian culture and African culture

respecting elders FIRST until they GIVE you a reason o NOT?

Is a good way to go.
 
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