Are Single BLK Mothers DESTROYING their sons?

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Rapper Iggy Azalea Declares Herself A Single Mom After Accusing Playboi Carti Of Being A Deadbeat Dad​


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The Aussie rapper — who birthed her and Carti’s son, Onyx, in 2020 — hopped on the ‘Dinner’s On Me’ podcast this week and was asked point blank about her family dynamic … and Iggy made no bones about the fact she believes she’s on her own in parenting.


Iggy says, “I’m very much a single mother. I’m very much the only parent, no disrespect, but yes, I am not co-parenting really, and that’s just the reality of it. It’s one, it’s 24/7.”

She went on to reflect on motherhood and how her son has taught her to be present and to prioritize family time over other trivial matters — and, IA even attributed a lot of her success to her son as well, saying he’s her biggest fan. But yeah … she’s definitely crapping on Carti.

FWIW … Iggy has accused Carti of being an absent father in the past — making it very clear that she doesn’t see him as a shining example of parenthood … it’s been a years-long saga.


While Carti has been mostly quiet about Iggy’s claims — he’s pretty private in general — Iggy often posts pics of their kid on social media … and she certainly looks very involved.


Azalea Iggy’s announcement that she considers herself a single mom and is raising her son with Playboi Carti on her own has sparked important conversations about modern parenthood and the challenges faced by single mothers in the entertainment industry. Do you think she’s telling the truth?



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0utsyder

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I always come back to men on this. As CRAZY as some of these broads are, THEY GIVE CONDOMS AWAY!!!!! Shooting up the club raw in a crazy broad is just PJ Washington levels of stupid. And I get mistakes, but some of these broads got one or two "mistakes" already and dudes have to tip-toe around or wait for these "mistakes" to go to sleep before they can create "mistake" two or three!!!
 
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0utsyder

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Sounds like a cherry-picked hypothetical. Most boys have male friends they hang with and pick up tendencies from each other. And what about scenarios where there's more than one boy in the family or uncles and older cousins help raise the boys? Really easy to pick apart that fallacious logic.
If speaking in generalities he has a point, but keep in mind he's talking about the black men in prison and not black men in general.
 

Piff Henderson

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Basically you have testosterone filled boys, raised and socialized by women.

That leaves you with female emotion (learned) and male testosterone aggression (biological) with no controlled release, overseen by father figure.


Emotions aren't learned though. They're innate. In fact aggression is an emotion. Furthermore either sex can impart values as long they have values themselves.
 

Piff Henderson

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Now, I will refrain from the mistaken assumption that every person is like me and will acknowledge that perhaps he has a point in a very general sense, but I personally hated getting into fights as a kid -- real fights not play fighting/wrestling -- and didn't like getting hit, at all, but I never considered using a gun to kill my rivals or whatnot.

I think if a young person is quick to try to get a gun they have other problems or got mixed up with the wrong crowd. Also I noticed he's slamming the kid who may be afraid to fight instead the kid who's being the bully.
 

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Now, I will refrain from the mistaken assumption that every person is like me and will acknowledge that perhaps he has a point in a very general sense, but I personally hated getting into fights as a kid -- real fights not play fighting/wrestling -- and didn't like getting hit, at all, but I never considered using a gun to kill my rivals or whatnot.

I think if a young person is quick to try to get a gun they have other problems or got mixed up with the wrong crowd. Also I noticed he's slamming the kid who may be afraid to fight instead the kid who's being the bully.
I agree. He also kind of out of touch. Because kids didn’t just become raised by women. This has been happening long before now. Niggas been shooting long before now too so while I’d love to sit here and say how dumb these young people are it ain’t just start with him.

I’m like new I never took a L and said let me go get a gun. Fighting ain’t fun fuck that shit. It’s all good when you beating someone ass but it sucks to get hit. :lol: But I still fought over grabbing a gun. People are just different. Some just not wired right.
 

Piff Henderson

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I agree. He also kind of out of touch. Because kids didn’t just become raised by women. This has been happening long before now. Niggas been shooting long before now too so while I’d love to sit here and say how dumb these young people are it ain’t just start with him.

I’m like new I never took a L and said let me go get a gun. Fighting ain’t fun fuck that shit. It’s all good when you beating someone ass but it sucks to get hit. :lol: But I still fought over grabbing a gun. People are just different. Some just not wired right.
Right. How would he or somebody else blaming the violence of these new generation of young men and boys on being raised by women or being coddled, explain the fact that violent crime was much higher from '60s-'90s than it was in the '00s-'20s?

A lot of these takes don't hold water when you really examine them.
 

RoadRage

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This is why I never cuss or drink/get high around my kid and why my mother never did either. But work in public schools today, and most mothers feel it's their right to talk and act any way they want in front of their kids, sadly when the kids especially the boys get too big to control many of them want them out or for someone else to take care of their bad ass kids. This is where our gangsters, killers, drug dealers, and addicts mostly come from.
 

dtownsfinest

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Right. How would he or somebody else blaming the violence of these new generation of young men and boys on being raised by women or being coddled, explain the fact that violent crime was much higher from '60s-'90s than it was in the '00s-'20s?

A lot of these takes don't hold water when you really examine them.
Right. The older I get the more I realize that we keep this cycle going of what our parents did and what their parents did….sre we sure that’s the right way or is that just the way we handled things? We should be trying to raise our children better than we were raised. Ingot my ass whooped with extension chords and switches….i ain’t passing that shit down to my children.
 

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i have no empathy, pitty, or sympathy for men in situations like those posted. Condoms are free.... vasectomies work,,,, & nobody forces you to skeet in a woman. If it were up to me child support would start @ $1500 per month min....with manditory fed time for not paying.
 

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Now, I will refrain from the mistaken assumption that every person is like me and will acknowledge that perhaps he has a point in a very general sense, but I personally hated getting into fights as a kid -- real fights not play fighting/wrestling -- and didn't like getting hit, at all, but I never considered using a gun to kill my rivals or whatnot.

I think if a young person is quick to try to get a gun they have other problems or got mixed up with the wrong crowd. Also I noticed he's slamming the kid who may be afraid to fight instead the kid who's being the bully.
he left out the part where the fathers abandon their sons.
 

Non-StopJFK2TAB

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Right. How would he or somebody else blaming the violence of these new generation of young men and boys on being raised by women or being coddled, explain the fact that violent crime was much higher from '60s-'90s than it was in the '00s-'20s?

A lot of these takes don't hold water when you really examine them.
They’re not supposed to. It’s a weird power dynamic flexing that is taking place. Think of it as domestic abuse. The victim know what happened and that her story doesn’t make sense, however, she goes out and tells the story anyway knowing the listener doesn’t believe a single word. It reveals to the victim that no one really cares. And that’s the purpose of power: to bend reality.
 

Da Backshot Champ

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i have no empathy, pitty, or sympathy for men in situations like those posted. Condoms are free.... vasectomies work,,,, & nobody forces you to skeet in a woman. If it were up to me child support would start @ $1500 per month min....with manditory fed time for not paying.
Word up! Some niggas like me pull out in enough time, put it in her mouth and let off all that hot steam up in there.

Bitches swallowing whole loads nowadays, it seems like more than anything to hide any evidence she or her mouth was there.

"You might see me in and out of your house, but it is no way she can have a baby out of her mouth"- Jadakiss
 

0utsyder

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Word up! Some niggas like me pull out in enough time, put it in her mouth and let off all that hot steam up in there.

Bitches swallowing whole loads nowadays, it seems like more than anything to hide any evidence she or her mouth was there.

"You might see me in and out of your house, but it is no way she can have a baby out of her mouth"- Jadakiss
...you slept a lot in Health and Biology class huh?!
 
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