The older I get I am realizing my own personal circle is getting smaller and smaller. This wasn't deliberate but just started happening. I have a few CLOSE friends Day One people and some select family.
However recently I have noticed even family members I have distanced myself from for a variety of reasons...mostly just to keep my life drama free.
Wondered if this is same for any of you?
Because I have met more and more couples my age who don't really go out much, are damn near anti social.
They tend to stay home either with each other or their kids and hanging out watching the flat screen, man caves watching sports and the outings are just among themselves or REALLY close friends and family.
Inviting us over and not really letting NEW people in.
And they don't do social media much
I haven't been to any BIG blow out weddings anymore many are small, city hall or destination weddings...
when I was coming up people were spending 25-50K EASY inviting EVERYONE and their mothers.
I am wondering is this just with age or is this becoming something many of our generation of Blacks are doing more and more?
However recently I have noticed even family members I have distanced myself from for a variety of reasons...mostly just to keep my life drama free.
Wondered if this is same for any of you?
Because I have met more and more couples my age who don't really go out much, are damn near anti social.
They tend to stay home either with each other or their kids and hanging out watching the flat screen, man caves watching sports and the outings are just among themselves or REALLY close friends and family.
Inviting us over and not really letting NEW people in.
And they don't do social media much
I haven't been to any BIG blow out weddings anymore many are small, city hall or destination weddings...
when I was coming up people were spending 25-50K EASY inviting EVERYONE and their mothers.
I am wondering is this just with age or is this becoming something many of our generation of Blacks are doing more and more?
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