I believe this is what drove my husband to liking me even more. He's really quiet and laid back - he's helped me to become more laid back, but I have a CRAZY sense of humor. When we're both tense, I can easily break the tension with a cute joke or something to lighten the mood. Also, it's nice to know I have created a home that he enjoys being in because it's a funny, loving place versus a stiff joint.