"Fools rush in where Angels fear to Tread," and it took you some time to understand the meaning of this line. Because in the past you have made some poorly, or should you say decisions that you gave no thoughts to whatsoever.
May lived in your cousin Dante's building and you met her one day when you were just "chilling" with him. She seemed like a nice girl, but you could tell she was dealing with a few things.
Somehow, she quickly gravitate to you (you guess because you're at least 12 years her senior), and you asked your advice on a relationship she was having at work.
Turns out, she was dating an older married man, who she knew was married, but kept telling her he's getting a divorce soon.
Without trying to "cut his throat" you tried to let her reach her own conclusion about the relationship which lead to her inviting you up to her apartment to continue the conversation (Dante excused himself and told you to drop by when you finish talking to her).
So you continue talking and then after about 15 minutes she goes to the bathroom and runs some water into the tub. 10 minutes later she invites you to come into the bathroom to continue talking.
Now, you're sitting in the bathroom of a woman you just met about 90 minutes ago and she's laying "butt naked" in a tub of soap suds.
Stay cool, if she wants to do something she'll let you know. Furthermore, don't do anything with her (this will make her think).