Cardi B says 50/50 relationships depend on the situation… “Once you a house bitch you don’t have no say so in nothing”

[jawnswoop]

I mean our parents did that 50/50 and survived by them working together and putting their money together.

People in this generation thinks a man should do it all like he has the income when there are a small percentage of black men making 6 figures.

Things are much higher today compared to how it was in the 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s.

So, it's laughable when these chicks think a man should bow down to her and let her run shit when the man is suppose to be the leader of the household. But it's not like she can't be involved in decision being made together though because 2 minds are a great thing.

Marriage ain't what it used to be because people don't value each other as their soulmate or don't know how to survive together when things get tough.

 

[A to Dah K]

I mean our parents did that 50/50 and survived by them working together and putting their money together.

People in this generation thinks a man should do it all like he has the income when there are a small percentage of black men making 6 figures.

Things are much higher today compared to how it was in the 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s.

So, it's laughable when these chicks think a man should bow down to her and let her run shit when the man is suppose to be the leader of the household. But it's not like she can't be involved in decision being made together though because 2 minds are a great thing.

Marriage ain't what it used to be because people don't value each other as their soulmate or don't know how to survive together when things get tough.

Women started out earning men.now they refuse to struggle

 

[Mt. Yukon]

Women started out earning men.now they refuse to struggle

Are women en masse really out earning men like that though??? Even blue collar dudes are making 40-50k a year doing construction, warehouse, delivery drivers etc... Maybe more of them are in corporate than men, but I dont think that comprises most women... Its allot of regular ass women making 40k a year too. Why aren't those women getting and building with those same blue collar dudes???

 

[ANGRY MAN]

I wish all the married people in don’t have to go through a divorce. Just remember whatever percentage you paying now 60/40 70/30 will probably result in 100 percent all you! You provided her this lifestyle and will continue even after the divorce.

I said it before my boy just contacted me this week. Saying they gave this bitch a whole house. She didn’t put up 40k for the down payment and stop paying her half of the mortgage 6 months in. Now 14 years later she stole his house. Courts say you wanted to be one way but it’s the other way!

 

[WattDogs]

Are women en masse really out earning men like that though??? Even blue collar dudes are making 40-50k a year doing construction, warehouse, delivery drivers etc... Maybe more of them are in corporate than men, but I dont think that comprises most women... Its allot of regular ass women making 40k a year too. Why aren't those women getting and building with those same blue collar dudes???

It's a lot of women out there getting money. But it's way more men getting more.

The difference is that a woman's life is heavily subsidized by the powers that be. A woman's life, if she chooses, is discounted in almost every aspect. From rent, to bills, to debt, to romance, to dating. Every single thing is subsidized in a woman's world.

This is not the case with men. We carry the burden of not only burdenous work, but of almost all financial situations, at all times.

Because women have that disconnect between real life & the subsidization of their life, they think that having immediate access to their money & the ability to save & build a "life" without much in the way of payment makes them superior.

 

[M.H.C.]

Well….

 

[gene cisco]

I agree, which is why I'm with 2 people building together. I'm saying I and most men have been living alone since their late teens early 20s. So we know the "housekeeping" part, aint really that hard. So... Go work like I do, we plan, save and make moves as a unit. Fuck that I make the bread and she take care of the home. That's not feasible today for mpst people that really want generational shit.

Man, white women made that entire 'homemaking is a job' thing. Remember when those crazy cac bitches said housework is like a 40k a year job? And game goofy, henpecked cac men promoted that shit. Like you said, men live by themselves, cook, clean, etc. Shit ain't that hard. These cac bitches will have kids in middle school talking about they stay-at-home moms. I don't know any black man who puts up with that narrative. I'm sure they exist though, but I never seen one.

And even in a situation where it is 50/50, is the woman protecting the house? Because if there are footsteps in the house in the middle of the night, some strange noise at the door, etc, whoever the person handling that shit is the person who should be calling shots in the house. Real women fuck with real men so just like that noise at 3am getting handled by the man so is the shot calling.

Yeah, it's still a team, but teams need leaders.

 

[dHustla]

[/QUOTE]

She wasn't really talking about who runs the house hold though. Truthfully, she gave good advice and reasons for people to get married. Part of her argument was basically if both parties aren't making much money you need to pool your resources to do things like buy a house. If the man isn't making much and the woman doesn't help financially, you as a unit may never advance.

Her second point was also good advice for men or women. Not having a job or your own finances puts you in a position where you may not have a choice in how you live. She gave the example of a man putting her out and having no place to go. As a kid I saw my mother do the same to a man. I've heard stories of people who were missed treated because they were dependent on their partner.

Lets be honest about stay at home situations man or woman. The person providing is kind of giving the other person an allowance. What happens when thar person decides their partner doesn't need something and will not give them money? What happens if the partner takes away the car? In my opinion, no one should be financially dependent on another person.

In the post you quoted I was referring to this young ladies tweet, not the OP

 

[Goingmark40]

i have no problem with what she saying besides saying nigga all the time. i've had chicks str8 hood and i clean that shit up real quick. i'll never say shit is 50/50 but bet in my household that woman gonna work, hell kids get up to age them too. and keeping a house requires attention and detail and everybody in that mug gonna play a part in it. if they can't contribute they got to go. old saying this house takes care of you so you gotta invest and take care of it.

 

[ArsenalCannon357]

This post should be stickied at the top.

I wish all the married people in don’t have to go through a divorce. Just remember whatever percentage you paying now 60/40 70/30 will probably result in 100 percent all you! You provided her this lifestyle and will continue even after the divorce.

I said it before my boy just contacted me this week. Saying they gave this bitch a whole house. She didn’t put up 40k for the down payment and stop paying her half of the mortgage 6 months in. Now 14 years later she stole his house. Courts say you wanted to be one way but it’s the other way!

 

[Mt. Yukon]

Man, white women made that entire 'homemaking is a job' thing. Remember when those crazy cac bitches said housework is like a 40k a year job? And game goofy, henpecked cac men promoted that shit. Like you said, men live by themselves, cook, clean, etc. Shit ain't that hard. These cac bitches will have kids in middle school talking about they stay-at-home moms. I don't know any black man who puts up with that narrative. I'm sure they exist though, but I never seen one.

And even in a situation where it is 50/50, is the woman protecting the house? Because if there are footsteps in the house in the middle of the night, some strange noise at the door, etc, whoever the person handling that shit is the person who should be calling shots in the house. Real women fuck with real men so just like that noise at 3am getting handled by the man so is the shot calling.

Yeah, it's still a team, but teams need leaders.

Right!!! In the same week I'll cook multiple times, clean, mow grass and wash cars on the weekend. My wife... Might cook clean and run errands. But if the dogs star barking... On me. Muthafuckas at the door, on me. Something gets broken... On me. Muthafuckas try to act like the soft benefits of having a man don't matter and that women are doing all the domestic shit when that aint how shit works. Women gone work regardless. Put in on these bills too.

 

[Chuck_Luck]

Ahhh Cardi B! To be young a stupid again.

To my bgol brethren, your perception of relationships will change the more failed relationships you go through.

and to all you macho man dudes posting on this thread on how it's all your way or no way.

Just know that even The Macho Man from WWF was just putting on a show.


Ideally Marriage is 100/100. //

 

[Mt. Yukon]

Ahhh Cardi B! To be young a stupid again.

To my bgol brethren, your perception of relationships will change the more failed relationships you go through.

and to all you macho man dudes posting on this thread on how it's all your way or no way.

Just know that even The Macho Man from WWF was just putting on a show.


Ideally Marriage is 100/100. //

I think she referred to money, bills, entertainment budget etc...

 

[Chuck_Luck]

Well yeah, hey brethren if you 50/50 in a marriage, then why get married in the first place.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

interesting seeing the responses to this
as she just echoed what everybody clowning here says lol
like word for word with what A LOT OF PEOPLE on her say and how they've viewed relationships for YEARS

 

[spider705]

interesting seeing the responses to this
as she just echoed what everybody clowning here says lol
like word for word with what A LOT OF PEOPLE on her say and how they've viewed relationships for YEARS

They're more concerned with the messenger...

 

[dHustla]

Women started out earning men.now they refuse to struggle

Right. My sister fav thing to day is "I can do bad by myself".

I'ma start saying, "Do you have a choice?" Without looking

 

[dHustla]

I said it before my boy just contacted me this week. Saying they gave this bitch a whole house. She didn’t put up 40k for the down payment and stop paying her half of the mortgage 6 months in. Now 14 years later she stole his house. Courts say you wanted to be one way but it’s the other way!

Crazy! Enough to make me never want to marry

It's a lot of women out there getting money. But it's way more men getting more.

The difference is that a woman's life is heavily subsidized by the powers that be. A woman's life, if she chooses, is discounted in almost every aspect. From rent, to bills, to debt, to romance, to dating. Every single thing is subsidized in a woman's world.

This is not the case with men. We carry the burden of not only burdenous work, but of almost all financial situations, at all times.

Because women have that disconnect between real life & the subsidization of their life, they think that having immediate access to their money & the ability to save & build a "life" without much in the way of payment makes them superior.

And a false sense of entitlement

 

[A to Dah K]

Right. My sister fav thing to day is "I can do bad by myself".

I'ma start saying, "Do you have a choice?" Without looking

Exactly the mentality
Black women are def out earning black men, now factor in child support he might be paying for other children outside the relation and the numbers really get lopsided

 

[jawnswoop]

Exactly the mentality
Black women are def out earning black men, now factor in child support he might be paying for other children outside the relation and the numbers really get lopsided

Black women have the highest debts as well. They go to these top schools that they have to pay back from using a student loan and the job don't even pay them that a yr from what they had to took a student loan out for or if they do, they're barely breaking even with what they take home since they have to pay off their student loans.

But the system is indeed fucked up to the point black women get majority of the pay when it comes to divorce settlement's and child support payments.

 

[scullydog]

Relationships today feels more like business deals or arrangements so I'm not inclined or motivated to get married especially with the mindset of some women.

If the subject of money is a constant re-occurring theme or issue in the relationship where your love story with each other needs money for it to survive, then the relationship is in serious trouble. It's reasons like this why I stay single and being married to someone isn't appealing to me.

I can tell who is young as fuck on this motherfucker. A relationship and a marriage is a business. You can't make a turd off eating love. Love don't feed you. Making a woman help pay for her lifestyle is key to any relationship. It might not be 50/50 but is can be 60/40.

 

[scullydog]

Some of these broads are stupid. You paying for everything, you get sick, bitch can't even pay a light bill. On top of that, she can't pay any of the bills so you and her in the the fucking streets. If you ain't making her pay for shit in the house you, as a man, are setting yourself up for failure. And, if she don't want to help you pay bills, then get rid of her ass. She don't love you anyway. You are a fucking meal ticket. I say this to you, if she ain't paying shit, then you need her to give you x amount of money every month. You don't have to spend it. Save that shit. Just in case you get injured or lose your job, then if you do get sick, you both will be able to make it. 500 or 600 dollars a month goes a long way when you saving it. 10-15 years down the road, you and your wife has a nice nest egg to invest or live off of. 600 x12= 7200 x 15=108,000.

 

[scullydog]

Ahhh Cardi B! To be young a stupid again.

To my bgol brethren, your perception of relationships will change the more failed relationships you go through.

and to all you macho man dudes posting on this thread on how it's all your way or no way.

Just know that even The Macho Man from WWF was just putting on a show.


Ideally Marriage is 100/100. //

No relationship, and I mean no, is 100/100. The man will always be at a disadvantage.

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

Cardi B posed in a bikini in Jamaica, wants more children with Offset

The chart-topping rap star already has Kulture, four, and Wave, 15 months, with her husband Offset, and Cardi has now revealed via Twitter that she would love to have more kids in the future.

www.dailymail.co.uk

 

[jawnswoop]

 

[Mello Mello]

This nigga tired of fighting he ready to let go lol

 

[Coldchi]

i said when it started that it wasnt gone last.............and i started the timer......

now she a single mum wit 3 chillen......

 

[jawnswoop]

i said when it started that it wasnt gone last.............and i started the timer......

now she a single mum wit 3 chillen......

Cardi b, remy ma, Kash doll....Who's next?

 

[1989123]

He went there at least 3 times. Seems like he can't learn

 

[jawnswoop]

He went there at least 3 times. Seems like he can't learn

Oh well. That's his problem.

 

[godofwine]

This is what our community looks to for leadership

Unfortunately, leadership in our community is basically who is Uber popular at the time. While it should be people like Denzel Washington, Viola Davis - elder statesman who are intelligent enough to measure their words so they are not easily tripped up.

Unfortunately cardi b, Megan the stallion, or name some fucking ignorant person.

 

[blackman80]

i said when it started that it wasnt gone last.............and i started the timer......

now she a single mum wit 3 chillen......

Yeah, I had feeling it wouldn't last neither!!....oh well

 

[shonuff]

i would still fuck tho....

 

[jawnswoop]

i would still fuck tho....

Just don't marry them, smash and hit the dash.

 

[DJCandle]

This guy has another woman pregnant. Him and the pregnant girl got into an argument at MGM casino a few nights ago and the footage was threatened to be leaked.

Guess Belcalis finally saw it.