BingoRemy wouldn't be able to get close enough to grab her hair before getting KO'd.
Also Clareesa and her people also seem good as hell the gun play may not work in Remys favor either.
She's clearly the one who started stepping out on dude so she's a damn fool for trying to play victim.
Remy did years over some dumb shit, came out and fucked up her marriage (at least it appears so) and has a son facing life for murder last I saw.
If a dude fucked his relationship up that way there'd be no question who the fool was (unless the woman was dumb enough to still stay.)