Grown Man Talk: What attracts women the most? LOOKS vs. CHARM vs. MONEY?

[playahaitian]

Looks.. it's always looks. Woman are more shallow than men

Sent Collect from the Fulton County Correctional Facility using pay phone.

completely disagree with you on this one.

We are MUCH more superficial then women when it comes to looks.

I have that type of personality, I guess. But sometimes you just want to chick to call me over for sex or head only. When they tell me what they want in life, I guess the way I answer their questions, help them see a clearer picture and makes them want to get closer....

SHIT you see cuz...

the DAMN BGOL Hive Mind strikes AGAIN!!!



but that is also why I get the stalker shit

 

[Coldchi]

first thing women always notice about me is my height. they can't help but to.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Looks first, but women can sense i'm successful. Also going out with my good looking kids lets them know i make gorgeous off spring, women like that. But i'm so attractive that it seems to over ride everything, to the point hoes flirt with me in front of my entire family.

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

c/s

I think that is what attracts these women to ME at least.

To be real with you though, its always looks first. If I want a bad Latin, black or mix chick, I take off my shirt off and walk up and down orchard beach.. I leave with 6-10 numbers every time, plus you get to see what the woman is working with...

 

[starfoxx]

How can we say the gender that spends most there time taking pictures of themself in the mirror, nails, hair, booty shots, is not more into looks and shallow then us men? Most women will only speak on what's politically correct but watch their actions and u will see how superficial they are.

What attracts most women to me is looks and charm. Women seem to think men they are not attracted to are dangerous and somehow attractive dudes are harmless so the looks get them to put their guards down and the charm hooks them.

 

[tallblacknyc]

i get various attention for diff things.. i have had chicks go crazy over my lips..some chicks like the baldy..some the baby face..some for my size(some chicks say i look like i can manhandle them in bed, or bash a nigga skull in, or i look mad protective-whatevver)a lot over the personality- i'd say that is numero uno..chicks love my laid back approach about life and i'm a clown..so chicks find me very easy goin and get real comfortable fast..plus i'm a flirt so broads be blushing off of dat shit like dat..so overall i'll say charm.. it def ain't money cause i'm a jew and i let it be known i'm a jew and dat i like to be spoiled..so bitch cater to me buy me dis buy me dat..cook me something

 

[fwillia]

I dress well, and I'm a black ni99a with curly hair.

Bitches love black ni99as with curly hair.

Experience has taught me that if a woman asks me if I'm Dominican or from the islands(of which I'm neither), it's time to go in.

 

[crazyace718]

Depends if you are talking about attracting their minds, hearts or bodies. Money controls bodies, charm controls hearts and looks controls bodies.

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[Naha-Nago]

I mentioned this in another post about women in their 30's. You more of those attributes you have Looks, Money, Charm the more women you are likely to attract. If you have one of those attributes you will get crevice less often, if you have two of those attributes you will get crevice more often, if you have three or more attributes you will get crevice when ever you want. The more attributes you have that stimulates womens intrest the more women you will have.

I don't know how much being black has helped me maybe with non-black girls who want to see if it's true what is said about black guys. I always got compliments on my looks and intellect but no chick has dated me because she thought I was smart. It's usually when I'm making them laugh or aggressively pursuing them and they think I look good.

Boom.


*two cents*

 

[DatNiggaT]

When it comes to average people (not celebrities etc) it comes down to looks and charisma/swag. A lame will break bread with a female and that same woman will let a man she is really diggin fuck without the extra shit. There is a man right now with money but may be a lame breaking bread to get a female meanwhile, that same female is fucking a man who is umemployed sleeping on his mama couch for free lol. The reason is because she is more attracted to him than the other man with the money. Matter of fact she giving that nigga money buying him J's. Sex plays a factor too. If you breaking that bitch back in the bedroom you can get away with damn near anything.This doesn't apply to every female but it happens.

 

[marca]

I still think just LISTENING...you would be SHOCKED how many women just dont have anyone to really talk to and converse with.

Sometimes just being quiet and listening and responding to what they have ACTUALLY said will get he best results.

got alota women "friends" don't you

 

[playahaitian]

got alota women "friends" don't you

usually STARTS like that...

i have to remind them that THEY wanted to be friends in beginning...

How can we say the gender that spends most there time taking pictures of themself in the mirror, nails, hair, booty shots, is not more into looks and shallow then us men? Most women will only speak on what's politically correct but watch their actions and u will see how superficial they are.

What attracts most women to me is looks and charm. Women seem to think men they are not attracted to are dangerous and somehow attractive dudes are harmless so the looks get them to put their guards down and the charm hooks them​

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I dress well, and I'm a black ni99a with curly hair.

Bitches love black ni99as with curly hair.

Experience has taught me that if a woman asks me if I'm Dominican or from the islands(of which I'm neither), it's time to go in.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Y'all make women even more complicated

Sent Collect from the Fulton County Correctional Facility using pay phone.

 

[Alumni]

Without question it's my charm and sense of humor. I've been a lot of places, done a lot of things, and can speak on a lot of different topics like I have some sense. Like the saying goes, jack of all trade a master of none.

The fact that I'm 6'3", 255 pounds and keep myself in shape doesn't hurt either.

 

[Better]

When it comes to average people (not celebrities etc) it comes down to looks and charisma/swag. A lame will break bread with a female and that same woman will let a man she is really diggin fuck without the extra shit. There is a man right now with money but may be a lame breaking bread to get a female meanwhile, that same female is fucking a man who is umemployed sleeping on his mama couch for free lol. The reason is because she is more attracted to him than the other man with the money. Matter of fact she giving that nigga money buying him J's. Sex plays a factor too. If you breaking that bitch back in the bedroom you can get away with damn near anything.This doesn't apply to every female but it happens.

Dude, people use what they have.

I'm sorry, every dude is not going to be 'The Mack'. In my lifetime, I've seen far more dudes who THINK they are smooth and charismatic than dudes who actually are.

I know dudes who can just talk there way in ass that the average dude is going to come up off someTHING for.

I grew up wanting to be the 'mack' too, and this is why Tariq Nasheed has such the fanbase he does. I used to want to be that. At 32, I don't give enough of a fuck.

I gladly use money to draw 'em in, and dispense if or when I see fit. I got sick of trying to be charming. I'm not fucking charming.

I'm a brainy type, and I find it's far easier for me to lure women with allure of money, and play the situation from there. If I had to get women mouth piece alone, I'd fuck nothing. Also, I don't think I'm ugly, but I ain't THAT handsome either to reel chicks on.

So, to call dudes LAME who have the gift of fucking bad bitches with just their personality and mouthpiece...

...is to call a significant portion of the male population lame.

Most men aren't half as great as their egos lead them to believe they are. I just happen to be willing to accept what my strengths and weaknesses are and use my strengths to my advantage.

I can outthink someone, but charm just ain't part of my DNA.

Only weird and/or nerdy chicks find me charming.

 

[curryshotta]

i get various attention for diff things.. i have had chicks go crazy over my lips..some chicks like the baldy..some the baby face..some for my size(some chicks say i look like i can manhandle them in bed, or bash a nigga skull in, or i look mad protective-whatevver)a lot over the personality- i'd say that is numero uno..chicks love my laid back approach about life and i'm a clown..so chicks find me very easy goin and get real comfortable fast..plus i'm a flirt so broads be blushing off of dat shit like dat..so overall i'll say charm.. it def ain't money cause i'm a jew and i let it be known i'm a jew and dat i like to be spoiled..so bitch cater to me buy me dis buy me dat..cook me something

 

[bromack1]

this was a topic of conversation today...

What do you feel most attracts women to you?

Your looks?

Your charm/sense of humor?

Your intellect?

Your money/occupation?​

sidebar:
do you feel being black has helped you attract more women???​

for me, its money.... And i also know, if they are that simple minded, then they are usually just a good fuck and that is enough to satisfy me....

 

[modified]

for me its looks then charm/ humor, intellect then money. Sometimes i waste time thinking of funny shit to say which is bad because I'm always funnier in the moment. Using intellect is tricky because I often got into a long drawn out explanation of any particular topic . Keeping it light was an important lesson to learn. I feel like even though i blend in with the crowd I stand out because I pay more attention to the details of various social situations.

 

[ugk]

1) Charm
2) Money
3) Looks

 

[freshnclean]

Every case is different, but in most cases looks and charm attracts women initally,

but money sustains the relationship, because they all want a good provider at the end of the day

Both sides of the spectrum have pros and cons as well

 

[TooTrilla]

Ugly bitches like looks. Pretty bitches like money. And real women like you for you.

 

[4North1Side2]

Definitely my looks because i have nothing else going for me at the moment......

 

[KnownUnknown]

Charm and sense of humor. But lately, in a non-assholy way I have just been telling them straight up I'm married and could give less than no fucks about their pussies or how great they think it is. I am in no need. Oddly enough, they want the kid more.

I'd say don't be an asshole, but actually don't care too much if shorty doesn't seem to want you initially and it somehow turns the table in your favor. This whole game is just rigged.

It depends on the woman,I find that the younger they are they tend to pay attention to things like looks,money,material objects;And the older they become the more relevent other things become like security,maturity,personality,charm,witt.

Basically this ^^ I find it that the more mature the female is (sometimes because a kid has forced their young asses to grow up) the more play i get right off the jump because they see the maturity and stability in a nigga. If the chick THINKS she has a ton of options, I'm usually not seen as that valuable cause I'm handsome, but not pretty boy cute, and I'm tall and slim, but not swole, so they put me in the I'd marry him pseudo-friend zone, but don't wanna fuck right now. Until they assess see me with some other broad and they get salty. (this is pre marriage)

I still think just LISTENING...you would be SHOCKED how many women just dont have anyone to really talk to and converse with.

Sometimes just being quiet and listening and responding to what they have ACTUALLY said will get he best results.

I do a lot of this ^^^ and it leads to a lot of the below. Thought I was the only one. Wifey hates it. But it pulls draws and actually is who I am naturally.

I think a little bit of everything, but I find that most women want me in long term relationship for some reason...

I hate that. I get boxed into that provider/husband category all the time. It's not all bad but it feels almost like an insult makes me feel like I'm a simp. Sometime I just want to be the dude that hits&quits but they end getting attached and wanna be wifey.

I have a line of number 2s waiting.

 

[KnownUnknown]

Ugly bitches like looks. Pretty bitches like money. And real women like you for you.

Ok fuck all I just said above. This is it ^^^ /thread

 

[playahaitian]

first thing women always notice about me is my height. they can't help but to.

I mentioned this topic today and I was SHOCKED so many women ranked this above a lot of other things..

they said they wont even give yo chance to tell them about your money job or jokes if you too short

One chick was like that was the main reason she was throwing me the pussy when we first met

 

[BKF]

Ugly bitches like looks. Pretty bitches like money. And real women like you for you.

Well if she don't know you. Then it would be kind of hard for her to just like you for you. Something has to initially attract her to you. Besides that...ugly chic like money and pretty chics like looks to.

 

[Bounty Killah]

All of the above.... I've got it all...

 

[idunno]

 

[H.E.A.T.]

Confidence trumps all of the above in a lotta cases.

 

[Lower9Nupe]

I have always believed my looks are what have gotten me 99% of all the ass in my life including my wife. Granted, a lot of brothas can PULL women because they have money, etc. All I can say is even those women want to fuck fit attractive men. Don't fool yourselves. (LOL) Success keeps them on lock....

 

[playahaitian]

54% say Power and Money​

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[drbaby6]

um gonna go with money ,my example would be this, JAYz got beyounce even though she got money herself.but that's a general rule ,but with blacks nothing is more important then light skin,I deliver babies and the first thing out of a black families mouth upon the birth of the baby is,omg it's soooo light skinned,i always say don't worry it will darken up ,they dont like dat but its embarrising for blacks to say that in front of the white nurses,at least I think so.

 

[curryshotta]

I mentioned this topic today and I was SHOCKED so many women ranked this above a lot of other things..

they said they wont even give yo chance to tell them about your money job or jokes if you too short

One chick was like that was the main reason she was throwing me the pussy when we first met

it was news to you that women ranked height so important?

you got 4'11 broads talking bout they wont date nothing less than 6'3 dudes

 

[playahaitian]

it was news to you that women ranked height so important?

you got 4'11 broads talking bout they wont date nothing less than 6'3 dudes

over money and looks?

yeah I was a little surprised.

these girls said "you cant BUY height, I can always get him a better job, make him go back to school etc."

But I aint having no short as kids!

 

[Upgrade Dave]

With the wording of the question as it is, I'll say looks (not physique, I'm skinny). But the sense of humor and intellect is what hooks them.