Grown Man Talk: What attracts women the most? LOOKS vs. CHARM vs. MONEY?

What do YOU think attracts women the MOST to you?


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HellBoy

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Looks give her a reason to be curious.
Physique give her a reason to lust.
Money gives her a reason to latch on.
Status gives her a reason to flaunt you.

I've always attributed that first move females make to my looks/physique.
 

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Looks give her a reason to be curious.
Physique give her a reason to lust.
Money gives her a reason to latch on.
Status gives her a reason to flaunt you.

I've always attributed that first move females make to my looks/physique.

This is a quality post.
 

FJP

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Depends on the woman. No answer is absolute but as far as which works more, I would have to say Charm/Sense of humor...

Of course you can get a lot of women just having money, but those same women fucking for money are fucking a charming dude they actually like for free. Females will tell you a lot of dudes with money are corny to them. A female can think you are the best looking dude in the world and be ready to let you hit and then she meets you and finds you corny, she might be turned off... A woman doesn't even have to be attracted to you physically if she finds you charming and humorous she'll still fuck you.
 

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Another BGOL'er stated it in a another thread but it bares repeating. It's all about having...

Looks: face, build, etc.
Attitude: humor, confidence, charm, stoic, etc.
Money: relative to what the chick's 'accustomed' to
Power: How much influence you have over your world.
Status: how many people know and recognize you.


The more letters you have the better. You have 3 you got a puncher's chance with damn near any chick you set eyes on.:yes:

You have all 5 chicks you never met will call your mom's house looking for you.:lol:





* two cents *
 
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knightmelodic

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I think the charm, humor, looks, maybe money/power start the ball rolling but at the end of the day I think intelligence because it means you can figure shit out. Takes a lot of pressure off when you don't have to worry about your brain power. And if you use that intelligence with confidence? Sheeeeet.
 

Mrfreddygoodbud

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again,

anything that she could brag to her friends

about and make them feel like shit..

chicks love making their friends feel like

shit..


LOL

down low bragging and shit....
 

playahaitian

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I think the charm, humor, looks, maybe money/power start the ball rolling but at the end of the day I think intelligence because it means you can figure shit out. Takes a lot of pressure off when you don't have to worry about your brain power. And if you use that intelligence with confidence? Sheeeeet.

good answer
 

SmoothD

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Looks give her a reason to be curious.
Physique give her a reason to lust.
Money gives her a reason to latch on.
Status gives her a reason to flaunt you.

I've always attributed that first move females make to my looks/physique.

Real talk right here :yes:.

Looks, charm and confidence (not arrogance) will take you a long way with every type of woman.
A clean haircut, and nice smile does wonders.
I'm a very smooth talker as well.
This is probably the key into picking up any woman

I go to my local lunch spot about once a week with coworkers and they are amazed that EVERY waitress will speak to me by name before I get to my table.
They are like :eek:
I'm like :D
 
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manVzone

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Its really simple

Im a very attractive male but through my experiences,it doesnt matter at all
Looks would just get you noticed,maybe have a girl send you signals or just be bold and plant herself next to you so you can step up and talk to her
Looks is only 25% of sealing the deal,the other 25% is positve confident body language and 50% is what comes out your mouth
I lost many wome who was very attracted to me as far as looks and body language goes but i would find myself sometimes screwing it up by saying something stupid,only to watch her go home with another,not so good looking,bony type guy,but this guy had the words to whisk her away

i rather be ugly with a fire mouthpiece than an attractive guy with no game
truth.com folks
 

rat710

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Hard to call it since I have more money than most of you bum niggas, I'm way better looking than niggas, and I'm definitely charming... It's pretty cool being me.. :dance::dance::dance:
 

ArsenalCannon357

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After 30 most of that doesn't apply they'll throw themselves at you if you look decent and can hold a decent conversation....I wish I would've known it would have been so easy when I was going through my 20's :yes:
 

ScottyPiffen745

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Women like my face.

I think when they see my face, they think "aw we'd make some cute babies" and I often get stared at in the face.

I'm in my mid-20s and have no kids and when I tell chicks that, they're hella surprised. I always get "you're going to be a great dad/husband" "why don't you have kids yet?", shit like that.

Over the years, I've attracted a lot of chicks who ended up either having a gang of kids out of wedlock by 1-2 dudes or had their first child at a young age. They usually have ratchet qualities about them which is an automatic turn-off to me, so I stray away from them bitches.

But I guess I'm just the "Baby Daddy" type, I attract that "Baby Mama" type but I've always avoided those kind of women because I don't want to be just somebody's baby daddy.

Hearing all these horror stories about niggas and their baby mamas, I just want to make sure I have a kid with a good woman. I've dodged a lot of bullets that way.

After that, the charm keeps them around and as long as they know I'm taking care of myself, the money thing ain't all that important to most chicks.
 

VAiz4hustlaz

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Looks for me. However, I tend to be totally oblivious to knowing if a woman is "choosing" or not. And they get mad when you do. I've missed a lot of women because of that.:(
 

max-dawg

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i've picked up women bc of my "Omega Psi Phi" shirt.
i've picked up women bc they know i can cook, well.
i've picked up women bc they think i'm highly intelligent.
i've picked up women bc i had on a 'bucket' hat while fishing.
i've picked up women bc my thighs are like tree trunks.

my point = who cares why women choose? :dunno:

it makes NO SENSE trying to figure out what they want, so fuck it.

i manage their 'no's,' and measure their 'yes's,' and when it's time, i line my dick up and penetrate for my reason & purpose.

broads are just like men. they fuck different people for different reasons.
 

da_monumental_1

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"Az men hot gelt, iz men i klug, i sheyn, i men ken gut zingen." "With money in your pocket, you are wise and you are handsome and you sing well, too." - Yiddish Proverb
 

II Dxnum

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Its really simple

Im a very attractive male but through my experiences,it doesnt matter at all
Looks would just get you noticed,maybe have a girl send you signals or just be bold and plant herself next to you so you can step up and talk to her
Looks is only 25% of sealing the deal,the other 25% is positve confident body language and 50% is what comes out your mouth
I lost many wome who was very attracted to me as far as looks and body language goes but i would find myself sometimes screwing it up by saying something stupid,only to watch her go home with another,not so good looking,bony type guy,but this guy had the words to whisk her away

i rather be ugly with a fire mouthpiece than an attractive guy with no game
truth.com folks

but aren't you the lame who had your "friend" sell you some bullshit so they could get a ride to get some pussy while you waited in the car?
 

playahaitian

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i've picked up women bc of my "Omega Psi Phi" shirt.
i've picked up women bc they know i can cook, well.
i've picked up women bc they think i'm highly intelligent.
i've picked up women bc i had on a 'bucket' hat while fishing.
i've picked up women bc my thighs are like tree trunks.

my point = who cares why women choose? :dunno:

it makes NO SENSE trying to figure out what they want, so fuck it.

i manage their 'no's,' and measure their 'yes's,' and when it's time, i line my dick up and penetrate for my reason & purpose.

broads are just like men. they fuck different people for different reasons.

......
 

jagu

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Women will do almost anything to associate with money and a man who has influence, so far as he's moderately attractive. You don't need any gift of gab or muscular build. Just show up. :cool:
 

Naha-Nago

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i've picked up women bc of my "Omega Psi Phi" shirt.
i've picked up women bc they know i can cook, well.
i've picked up women bc they think i'm highly intelligent.
i've picked up women bc i had on a 'bucket' hat while fishing.
i've picked up women bc my thighs are like tree trunks.

my point = who cares why women choose? :dunno:

it makes NO SENSE trying to figure out what they want, so fuck it.

i manage their 'no's,' and measure their 'yes's,' and when it's time, i line my dick up and penetrate for my reason & purpose.

broads are just like men. they fuck different people for different reasons.

......

*two cents *
 

Complex

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i've picked up women bc of my "Omega Psi Phi" shirt.
i've picked up women bc they know i can cook, well.
i've picked up women bc they think i'm highly intelligent.
i've picked up women bc i had on a 'bucket' hat while fishing.
i've picked up women bc my thighs are like tree trunks.

my point = who cares why women choose? :dunno:

it makes NO SENSE trying to figure out what they want, so fuck it.

i manage their 'no's,' and measure their 'yes's,' and when it's time, i line my dick up and penetrate for my reason & purpose.

broads are just like men. they fuck different people for different reasons.

This was truly a negro please moment :hmm:
 

furlough

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looks, build & style gets you noticed first

unless, of course, your name rings bells in a corporate environment, entertainment industry, or the streets
 

max-dawg

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This was truly a negro please moment :hmm:

i told you long ago, simplex... i don't walk on that side of the street.

stop worrying about how i look. the purpose of the statement was to illustrate that women want men for various reasons.

only a faggit would be analyzing the reasons why.

:hmm:
 

Mello Mello

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Looks is the biggest attraction. If you just look that good they will let a lot slide. You can fuck and do whatever you want to them just based on how good you look to them.

I remember I tried some bold shit on this woman once and she dead stopped me and told me, "Hol'up you don't look that good to be getting away with that." I forgot what exactly I did but I think I was trying to fuck her off my first approach.

How you look draws them the most in this image driven society. And how you look doesn't always mean super model good looks (tho that is a big factor) but how you carry yourself your style and what your look says about you.
 
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